ONE THING I LEARNED FROM RIYA'S ROLE.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I think Riya is playing introvert role and I have learnt a lot from this show. Introvert people have tendency to do the things right and legal way. And they have big problem understanding other people's behaviour.Despite she has been getting so much stress,humiliating abuse and torture, she still think Dadi is good person and problem is in her not able to understand them.

And Dadi who is extrovert to extreme level, centred around feeling good, dealing with people is first priority and dealing with right and lawful is second.

And there is clash between introvert and evtrovert. Riya as a introvert person, very immature to deal with people and Dadi thinks she is challenging her. As a result introvert people suffer so much from extroverts.

Where as, Pari and Rani are extrovert. They are not after doing things correctly but directly dealing with mothers in law. And we have been seeing how far they have crossed the line. And now they are settled. Small up and down happens in life but nobody is seriously after like before.

I might be wrong but I am trying to learn as much as I can from this show. And finally thanks a lot to creative team.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: herennow

I think Riya is playing introvert role and I have learnt a lot from this show. Introvert people have tendency to do the things right and legal way. And they have big problem understanding other people's behaviour.Despite she has been getting so much stress,humiliating abuse and torture, she still think Dadi is good person and problem is in her not able to understand them.

And Dadi who is extrovert to extreme level, centred around feeling good, dealing with people is first priority and dealing with right and lawful is second.

And there is clash between introvert and evtrovert. Riya as a introvert person, very immature to deal with people and Dadi thinks she is challenging her. As a result introvert people suffer so much from extroverts.

Where as, Pari and Rani are extrovert. They are not after doing things correctly but directly dealing with mothers in law. And we have been seeing how far they have crossed the line. And now they are settled. Small up and down happens in life but nobody is seriously after like before.

I might be wrong but I am trying to learn as much as I can from this show. And finally thanks a lot to creative team.


Agree to some extent , but @ Bold a big NO , introvert ppl are not immature at all ... they are the ones who silently suffer because of ppl like shanti , sarla , nimmi, pari n even kushiya ... she will cry scream in front of everybody n forget. where as introverts in particular will never do that! So yeah truth is if one has to survive in this world one needs to be either diplomatic or cunning which Riya is none! She was innocent earlier now plain stupid !!!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Introvert people are much more smart than Riya. Shanti has two faces. She is both an introvert and extrovert.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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First of all,thanks for reply for my post.
And I don't think I said introvert are immature and not smart. I think they are very smart people in what they are doing. For example Ria, she used to be best emplyee in her company before marriage. And she is very mature and responsible person. But when it comes to dealing with other people's behaviours, she is very immature, this is what I said. This is the reason, her own dadi and dad suggested her to understand family members first.

But my point is because of lack of knowledge of introvert and extrovert psycology, how much introvert suffer from extrovert people and how far extrovert people can go and what can introvert people learn from Ria's role.

And finally, what would you (introverts) do if you were in Ria's place and at the same time maintain good family environment?


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: herennow

First of all,thanks for reply for my post.

And I don't think I said introvert are immature and not smart. I think they are very smart people in what they are doing. For example Ria, she used to be best emplyee in her company before marriage. And she is very mature and responsible person. But when it comes to dealing with other people's behaviours, she is very immature, this is what I said. This is the reason, her own dadi and dad suggested her to understand family members first.

But my point is because of lack of knowledge of introvert and extrovert psycology, how much introvert suffer from extrovert people and how far extrovert people can go and what can introvert people learn from Ria's role.

And finally, what would you (introverts) do if you were in Ria's place and at the same time maintain good family environment?




I would have flatly refused to take that chabi. Even if I am forced to take that, I would have three times more careful. I would have double checked with Sharmili about the ring size, And I would have taken someone like Nandu to buy that necklace. And so on and so forth.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: herennow

First of all,thanks for reply for my post.

And I don't think I said introvert are immature and not smart. I think they are very smart people in what they are doing. For example Ria, she used to be best emplyee in her company before marriage. And she is very mature and responsible person. But when it comes to dealing with other people's behaviours, she is very immature, this is what I said. This is the reason, her own dadi and dad suggested her to understand family members first.

But my point is because of lack of knowledge of introvert and extrovert psycology, how much introvert suffer from extrovert people and how far extrovert people can go and what can introvert people learn from Ria's role.

And finally, what would you (introverts) do if you were in Ria's place and at the same time maintain good family environment?


Am sorry but you have got the immature part wrong. Anyways forget it...

If I was in riya's place I would have stopped giving my opinion, and actually reduced talking to these manipulative ppl. Apne kam se kam rakhti. Smile, ignore do ur work n go to ur room n enjoy a big bar of chocolate all by yourself ! Let them fight n die who cares!!

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