...and what if He starts to remember his love for you? - Page 2

Originally posted by: IAMHope

She needs help, someone like aayi to guide her through this. She grew up without a female presence in her life (not sure if her Vahini was there all the time), so she may not have honed her feminine instincts to be wary. She allowed Bandar to interrupt her alone time with Raghav ( big no no ) The moment BWA supported Mandar in Deshmukh Nivas, her danger sensors should have turned on ( because BWA is always up to no good).

Amma, unfortunately is under Mandar’s spell and so of no use.

Bold - There is no compelling reason for her to single handedly help Bandar - there are many people In Deshmukh Nivas who can do that . I really don’t get why she keeps falling for his sob story of only being comfortable with her. She keeps saying she knows it’s unfair to Raghav but she doesn’t do anything about it. She’s got to draw those boundaries so everyone knows to stay within their limit. We need an outburst from Pallu ASAP at Mandar before the fandom goes mad! 😂

@instincts: That's a good point. But I think everyone has their own natural intuition. You don't have to be taught that. It's like survival instincts to pick up on when you sense danger or a sketchy situation. She told Raghav once that she had to hear and face a lot while she was a widow, so no way she's never had men hitting on her when she was alone. I just don't buy that. Her guard is down now because it's Mandar and she can't see past what she thought she knew.

And yet, her face is telling us that she's uncomfortable, so we can only imagine how uncomfortable she really is that she can't even mask it (although i get it as an actor she has to show it because audience has to know lol). Mandar won't realize anything because he doesn't give A F about her opinions/feelings/desires.

I think she feels a lot of guilt for moving on and that's what's really pushing her to do so much for Mandar.

@Compelling reason: 100000% agree. This was my issue this whole week. Why does she need to be the sole person he goes to for help. She tried to reason with him, but then he explained his sob story, but she should've countered with "we never lived together". She will need to be more clear about what their relationship really was like in the future. She said it a bit during DNA result confrontation but her words were too soft and amicable.

I understand where Pallavi's head is at. I get her character, truly. I know a lot of equally selfless and self-oppressing people in my own life that I could write a whole book on it. But none of that explains how she is so willing to help someone who so OPENLY declared he wanted her back as his rightful wife because she's always, IMO, stood up for her self-respect and dignity and her own choices. Maybe not towards her elders, but her cousins, Raghav, strangers? I felt like she did at least.

I said it before, I'm gonna say it again, they (CVs/Writers/TPTB) intentionally dumbed down Pallavi in order for this track to work. I'm sure she'll have her outburst at some point but for someone who always tries to keep her rights in tact and so easily stood up against Raghav back when they hated each other, how is she not picking up on Mandar's creeper vibes and stopping herself from at the very least being alone with him? Good thing she's told him twice that Raghav is her husband. Hopefully she'll say something again but am a bit worried it will be too late by then.

Originally posted by: IAMHope

That will assure Raghav that this Bandar is really Fandar ( Fake Mandar), because the original Mandar didn’t have feelings of love for Pallu. Somehow I believe Original Mandar had a connection to Devyani and not Pallu.

@bold this makes me think of Lafandar - perhaps also suitable for Mandar

Underlined - that’s a great point, I had not considered guilt. She feels a sense of guilt that while Mandar was going through all the trauma she has essentially moved on.

Bold-Italicized- 100% agree with you! TRP 2.0 ke liye all this.

Originally posted by: fria319

@instincts: That's a good point. But I think everyone has their own natural intuition. You don't have to be taught that. It's like survival instincts to pick up on when you sense danger or a sketchy situation. She told Raghav once that she had to hear and face a lot while she was a widow, so no way she's never had men hitting on her when she was alone. I just don't buy that. Her guard is down now because it's Mandar and she can't see past what she thought she knew.

And yet, her face is telling us that she's uncomfortable, so we can only imagine how uncomfortable she really is that she can't even mask it (although i get it as an actor she has to show it because audience has to know lol). Mandar won't realize anything because he doesn't give A F about her opinions/feelings/desires.

I think she feels a lot of guilt for moving on and that's what's really pushing her to do so much for Mandar.

@Compelling reason: 100000% agree. This was my issue this whole week. Why does she need to be the sole person he goes to for help. She tried to reason with him, but then he explained his sob story, but she should've countered with "we never lived together". She will need to be more clear about what their relationship really was like in the future. She said it a bit during DNA result confrontation but her words were too soft and amicable.

I understand where Pallavi's head is at. I get her character, truly. I know a lot of equally selfless and self-oppressing people in my own life that I could write a whole book on it. But none of that explains how she is so willing to help someone who so OPENLY declared he wanted her back as his rightful wife because she's always, IMO, stood up for her self-respect and dignity and her own choices. Maybe not towards her elders, but her cousins, Raghav, strangers? I felt like she did at least.

I said it before, I'm gonna say it again, they (CVs/Writers/TPTB) intentionally dumbed down Pallavi in order for this track to work. I'm sure she'll have her outburst at some point but for someone who always tries to keep her rights in tact and so easily stood up against Raghav back when they hated each other, how is she not picking up on Mandar's creeper vibes and stopping herself from at the very least being alone with him? Good thing she's told him twice that Raghav is her husband. Hopefully she'll say something again but am a bit worried it will be too late by then.