Why are people upset/worried? - Page 4

Originally posted by: fria319

From what I know, the show got a current extension of 5 months. Sandeep (creator / producer ? I forgot but it’s his show) wants the story to go on for 2 years (read the updates from his live) and that Mandar is not going anywhere any time soon. So basically Mandar is the current antagonist. And whether it’s about actually making Pallavi his wife or just taking Raghav down, we’ll have to see.

I see! So, it’s the show that got extension for 5 months!

Btw, there’s an article on India forum saying that Mehndi got first place on the TRP? However, I’m not sure about this. Anybody knows whether this article is right? Or they are giving false information?

Originally posted by: nuomi.riceball

I see! So, it’s the show that got extension for 5 months!

Btw, there’s an article on India forum saying that Mehndi got first place on the TRP? However, I’m not sure about this. Anybody knows whether this article is right? Or they are giving false information?

No that's the chaskameter - basically tracks forum activity & popularity on the site.

My mantra is never invest in any fictional characters, because it could cloud thinking. Saying that if it’s constructive criticism it should be welcomed, because there always the other side of the coin, as long as debate is civil it’s good.

I understand Pallavi is in dilemma, which is very natural seeing a dead man come to life, that too her ex….. going by her character she is sensitive person. She has not seen the real face of BAE unlike Raghv or the audience. she feels obliged to help out BAE, that’s fine……but the girl who moved earth and heaven to save DSE and challenged Raghav in every way, with grits. How come she is so easily let’s her self manipulated by BB and sunky. She has witnessed BB’s gameplay, or a how hypocritical, jerk Sunky is. Getting talked into feeding a tantrum throwing adult …she has shown her brain power in Khajoor case, or even earlier pre marriage phase with RR…she should have Witt to get out of the situation.

She can’t have D’s tramp her self esteem all the time.…she stood for Raghv against sunky, but for a change she needs to self evaluate how she wants to be treated. Apart from ayi, Milind and Nikhil rest of Ds are vile , opportunists jerks.
she needs to see how others view her maika. It’s not just Raghv’s fear how Ds will use her goodness, it’s a fact , how she was thrown under the bus in abortion case by her own Kaku, and how VD threw her on roads in a stormy night , without letting speak her side of the story. Raghv and her need to be same wavelength to tackle BAE, but to she needs stand her own to Sunky , BB, Mansi. That would be her character growth…..

In case of BAE , instead of going in bechara Mandar, give him the real picture. If she can say the truth that her and Raghv’s marriage was ajeeb (something of that sort) she mise well him the truth…there was no love in their relation… It was a obligatory. Guy has lost memory is not impaired any other sense.
Gave reasons why I feel disconnected with her character….but like you said I have no doubt she will bounce back. And want that ferocious Pallavi,

Originally posted by: Soccer1

My mantra is never invest in any fictional characters, because it could cloud thinking. Saying that if it’s constructive criticism it should be welcomed, because there always the other side of the coin, as long as debate is civil it’s good.

I understand Pallavi is in dilemma, which is very natural seeing a dead man come to life, that too her ex….. going by her character she is sensitive person. She has not seen the real face of BAE unlike Raghv or the audience. she feels obliged to help out BAE, that’s fine……but the girl who moved earth and heaven to save DSE and challenged Raghav in every way, with grits. How come she is so easily let’s her self manipulated by BB and sunky. She has witnessed BB’s gameplay, or a how hypocritical, jerk Sunky is. Getting talked into feeding a tantrum throwing adult …she has shown her brain power in Khajoor case, or even earlier pre marriage phase with RR…she should have Witt to get out of the situation.

She can’t have D’s tramp her self esteem all the time.…she stood for Raghv against sunky, but for a change she needs to self evaluate how she wants to be treated. Apart from ayi, Milind and Nikhil rest of Ds are vile , opportunists jerks.
she needs to see how others view her maika. It’s not just Raghv’s fear how Ds will use her goodness, it’s a fact , how she was thrown under the bus in abortion case by her own Kaku, and how VD threw her on roads in a stormy night , without letting speak her side of the story. Raghv and her need to be same wavelength to tackle BAE, but to she needs stand her own to Sunky , BB, Mansi. That would be her character growth…..

In case of BAE , instead of going in bechara Mandar, give him the real picture. If she can say the truth that her and Raghv’s marriage was ajeeb (something of that sort) she mise well him the truth…there was no love in their relation… It was a obligatory. Guy has lost memory is not impaired any other sense.
Gave reasons why I feel disconnected with her character….but like you said I have no doubt she will bounce back. And want that ferocious Pallavi,

I agree! It's just a show and as long as everyone is civil and there's no bashing, isn't it all part of analyzing the show? We're bound to sometimes feel connected and disconnected to the characters at different times.

The rest of your points - exactly what I mean too! I mentioned in a different thread that I felt like they purposely dumbed down Pallavi for this track. Yeah she was in shock, but it's not like she had no emotions about what was happening - she felt uncomfortable when Dr asked her to sit with Mandar, she felt uncomfortable when they asked her to feed him, she felt uncomfortable when the Dr said Pallavi would stay with Mandar. If she felt uncomfortable, why didn't she speak up? She's spoken up before in similar situations, has she not?

My thing with criticizing Pallavi wasn't to put her down either - but to rather ask, where did all that grit go? Why is she so mute in front of D fam and Mandar now (well when it happened - I think she's already decided to change post bedroom talk with Raghav). How does she not see that them asking her to be close to Mandar, who is her ex, who has OPENLY said he wants her back / wants to claim her, is essentially wrong and a complete disregard of her current marriage? Yeah Mandar's "evilness" has not been exposed to Pallavi as much as it has to Raghav - but she heard what he said about taking Pallavi back. For someone who loves someone else, was that not enough for her to be like * red flag * *stay away *.

I'm glad she was explicit to Mandar when he came with DNA results but even then she did say too much by exposing the "ajeeb circumstances" in which R+P got married. She has to learn that Mandar doesn't deserve an over explanation of her life. He left on their wedding day, not her. I think we'll definitely see Pallavi's spunk soon enough, more things just need to happen for her to do her outburst.

Originally posted by: Soccer1

My mantra is never invest in any fictional characters, because it could cloud thinking. Saying that if it’s constructive criticism it should be welcomed, because there always the other side of the coin, as long as debate is civil it’s good.

I understand Pallavi is in dilemma, which is very natural seeing a dead man come to life, that too her ex….. going by her character she is sensitive person. She has not seen the real face of BAE unlike Raghv or the audience. she feels obliged to help out BAE, that’s fine……but the girl who moved earth and heaven to save DSE and challenged Raghav in every way, with grits. How come she is so easily let’s her self manipulated by BB and sunky. She has witnessed BB’s gameplay, or a how hypocritical, jerk Sunky is. Getting talked into feeding a tantrum throwing adult …she has shown her brain power in Khajoor case, or even earlier pre marriage phase with RR…she should have Witt to get out of the situation.

She can’t have D’s tramp her self esteem all the time.…she stood for Raghv against sunky, but for a change she needs to self evaluate how she wants to be treated. Apart from ayi, Milind and Nikhil rest of Ds are vile , opportunists jerks.
she needs to see how others view her maika. It’s not just Raghv’s fear how Ds will use her goodness, it’s a fact , how she was thrown under the bus in abortion case by her own Kaku, and how VD threw her on roads in a stormy night , without letting speak her side of the story. Raghv and her need to be same wavelength to tackle BAE, but to she needs stand her own to Sunky , BB, Mansi. That would be her character growth…..

In case of BAE , instead of going in bechara Mandar, give him the real picture. If she can say the truth that her and Raghv’s marriage was ajeeb (something of that sort) she mise well him the truth…there was no love in their relation… It was a obligatory. Guy has lost memory is not impaired any other sense.
Gave reasons why I feel disconnected with her character….but like you said I have no doubt she will bounce back. And want that ferocious Pallavi,

@bold LOL... I really like Miranda Bailey in Grey's Anatomy and pretty invested in her. Yes, there's some up and down and such time when I don't like her but in general overall I really like the character 😂😂.