Redemption/forgiveness - Page 2

Excellent post Sree, I think every person has a right to move on in life especially when the reasons are as valid as Madhu's. In the real world would we condemn a woman for not wanting to get back with a man who has emotionally abused her, betrayed her and has constantly displayed sociopathic tendencies. Then why should a fictional character also not be granted the same prerogative. Why is the same man who would be considered a monster in the real world looked up as a hero in the fictional world, is it just because he looks good??? Is that the only parameter on the basis of which a character is to be judged??

I really question the sanity of all those who classify what we saw today as entertainment. Was it entertaining to see Madhu being manhandled, bruised, treated like a chattel. Was RK's nonchalance while equating his breaking her heart and throwing her out of his house to nok jhok entertaining?? Or was the precap where he threatens to slit his wrists to force an unwilling declaration of love out of her entertaining?? The man is keeping her hostage not just physically in his house but also mentally by not letting her move on. This is not entertainment, it is fiction at its revolting, disgusting best.

Nice post, S.

Madhu or any girl for that matter who has been a victim of physical abuse has all rights to move on in life with a partner who respects her, is affectionate and most importantly treats her like a human being...Manhandling is NOT passionate love, NOT even when the guy is smoking hot . Its pure physical abuse.

@abby_jeran...

This show needs to be shifted away from the prime time slot if they intend to continue with such a plot...I am tempted to send a complaint to the concerned authority.

i would love to see a soap with a woman totally black in character drinking smoking having fun and yep questions over her chastity and a man come and show her love and happiness stick by her even when she is her worst in short all these so called grey male heroes who are badly in need of TLC

Originally posted by: shar1988

Excellent post Sree, I think every person has a right to move on in life especially when the reasons are as valid as Madhu's. In the real world would we condemn a woman for not wanting to get back with a man who has emotionally abused her, betrayed her and has constantly displayed sociopathic tendencies. Then why should a fictional character also not be granted the same prerogative. Why is the same man who would be considered a monster in the real world looked up as a hero in the fictional world, is it just because he looks good??? Is that the only parameter on the basis of which a character is to be judged??

I really question the sanity of all those who classify what we saw today as entertainment. Was it entertaining to see Madhu being manhandled, bruised, treated like a chattel. Was RK's nonchalance while equating his breaking her heart and throwing her out of his house to nok jhok entertaining?? Or was the precap where he threatens to slit his wrists to force an unwilling declaration of love out of her entertaining?? The man is keeping her hostage not just physically in his house but also mentally by not letting her move on. This is not entertainment, it is fiction at its revolting, disgusting best.

Originally posted by: FairyLiquidSoap

Sree having read some of the replies here and a forum which will never be named i can only conclude lots of asian women are so desperate for some hot toy boy they are willing to make any excuses and that is how abuse still is perpetuated so wonder how bad their spouses partners whatever must look so do they deserve our pity

Well why do you think Indian men are so crude, aggressive and lecherous because Indian women are saints with a never-ending capacity to forgive their men of any crime. Pati is Parmeshwar after all na and beta is budhape ka sahara, When women do not have any respect for their own gender then how can we expect men to show any??

I am ashamed of being called an Indian woman at times like these.

Originally posted by: FairyLiquidSoap

i would love to see a soap with a woman totally black in character drinking smoking having fun and yep questions over her chastity and a man come and show her love and happiness stick by her even when she is her worst in short all these so called grey male heroes who are badly in need of TLC

which century do you think that will happen

actually of course every girl has the right to move on in her life but its easier said than done.in Madhus case she knew how complicated he is and he even told her about his past(nobody has the right to hurt others when he himself is hurt) thus she fell in love.i remember their fights and the "main pareshan"sequence.For RK he had 3 big betrayals in life.Madhu and he used to hate each other and then Madhu fell in love with him, its like RK wanted to see a betrayal through Madhu(which she didnt do)For him she is doctor no.4(like he called his betrayals earlier,) he doesnt even realise he left Madhu and how badly he hurted her.i am not trying to justify his actions, i am just trying to understand why he is behaving this way now.actually after analysing his behaviour, i would try to forgive him.(dont get me wrong i am talking of personal experience)