RishBala: The male perspective: Edited - Page 2

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Good post; your husband's got a good head on his shoulders. You thoroughly worded a lot of things i couldn't possibly think to convey in a single post. I think the quote that best goes with Madhubala's approach to life would be that 'if you play with fire, expect to be burned' and that's not victim blaming in the least so don't even bother with your accusations.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: DushtDanaf.

Good post; your husband's got a good head on his shoulders. You thoroughly worded a lot of things i couldn't possibly think to convey in a single post. I think the quote that best goes with Madhubala's approach to life would be that 'if you play with fire, expect to be burned' and that's not victim blaming in the least so don't even bother with your accusations.


@TM, DushtDanaf, superb post 👏 thank you for a different take. that too from a male perspective...we badly need that...to add up to your points, Madhu cud have chosen the safe and peaceful way and run far away from RK at the first given opportunity but here she was ! right in front of him the next day challenging him to break her ! cool ! 🤢 i'm not defending either of them..but situations which you can easily avoid, which you know will trouble your life as per your experience, will you go ahead and repeat the same mistake? on what basis? so here it is ! the end result...face it now...all this while Madhu could not see/judge that RK is getting more and more obsessed with her? how can she these events so lightly? same was the case with Mukund, then RK, now Sultan..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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totally agree with u ...👏

Rk also have emotions ...and he always draw a line in his revenge

He respect the things but can't show

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I disagree with you completely. In fact the confident manner in which you wrote this was disturbing for me to read. In a way it makes me angry. Your post is titled male perspective and I am surprised hiw you agree to this.
What shocked me was this: " TIT FOR TAT" Really?
Madhu had rightly slapped RK when he wronged a person and misbehaved with her. And you say tit for tat!
Madhu gets involved in other people's lives. Instead of praising her for her nature you question her?
Tit for tat involved playing a person's emotions, physical assault, abuse, humiliation and what not. Your post was shocking to me.
TM: The purpose of me writing this is not to fight out with people who feel differently. I just felt strongly about this.
Edited by Shreya_94 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#15
Tit for Tat is not agreeable. But, If RK did wrong to her, then instead of slapping him in the workplace she would have approached some media or press or women forums. And after that only entire revenge thing started.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Hey, it is cool. I wrote the male perspective as it is my husband who is non MBEIEJ fan. All of us have our views and I just stated his for discussion. The point is no bashing and you have done none.
Please do not get disturbed. Relax.
Just one response: Her involvement is getting a bit too much in the serial.😉

Originally posted by: Shreya_94

I disagree with you completely. In fact the confident manner in which you wrote this was disturbing for me to read. In a way it makes me angry. Your post is titled male perspective and I am surprised hiw you agree to this.
What shocked me was this: " TIT FOR TAT" Really?
Madhu had rightly slapped RK when he wronged a person and misbehaved with her. And you say tit for tat!
Madhu gets involved in other people's lives. Instead of praising her for her nature you question her?
Tit for tat involved playing a person's emotions, physical assault, abuse, humiliation and what not. Your post was shocking to me.
TM: The purpose of me writing this is not to fight out with people who feel differently. I just felt strongly about this.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Excellent post!! Loved it. And agree with every word. Thank you for this post!!

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Posted: 12 years ago
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y is everybody forgetting that the four slaps were coz RK declared in media about madhu n his relation(wich was nvr der) n also padmini n shamsher's un-named relation, also coz the engagement broke n dat rk never said even a sorry to the victim!

all dat being said, i must say i like drama n i cant hate rk 😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Awesum post..evn i feel the same..we cant clap wth one hand na..in rishbala case too dey both r somehow at fault...we cant blame one...agree wth all views of ur husband.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: UK_VS

Hey, it is cool. I wrote the male perspective as it is my husband who is non MBEIEJ fan. All of us have our views and I just stated his for discussion. The point is no bashing and you have done none.
Please do not get disturbed. Relax.
Just one response: Her involvement is getting a bit too much in the serial.😉
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You have taken my opinion well. I am happy about that. Thank you.

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