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Posted: 12 years ago
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My two cents from what my small brain understand of Madhu:

She loves RK truly. She knew what she is getting into by loving this complicated man. Remember thw 'aag ka dariya' conversation by the lake side? But, with her idealistic view towards life, she thought she can change this man for good. And this is where she went wrong terribly.

And now after seeing his prem game, somewhere she seems to be blaming herself for falling in love with him. Though she never overtly expresses it, her actions convey this to me. Also, today she even went ahead and said that she feels disgusted with herself for loving him ever. So, all in all she is losing belief in her capability to love another human being. And that is why, now she feels the need to shower her love on Aryan, which will help her restore her faith in her ideal principles of love.

As to why she is hanging around his sets, there might be two reasons. She wants to be around RK, so that she can become like him. A person who is evasive, adept at keeping secrets and hiding their hurt. This is what RK is. And this is what Madhu has become gradually. By being around RK, she has managed to bury her hurt under that tough exterior.

What reason Madhu has to not dismiss him? She can't openly display that she still loves him and has her hopes invested in him. RK has not given her any reason to do so.

And if Madhu has moved on, that does not mean she has stopped loving him. It just means that, her life and thoughts do not revolve around RK any more. Her focus is shifting to other aspects of her life, where she can seek solace. But love still continues to hold its place in the heart. Its not operated by a button, to be simply turned OFF once you have moved on.

And lastly, we should not forget that even the most deathless and selfless of love dies out when unrequited. So, if Rishabh Kundra does not buck up soon, I won't be surprised if Madhu's love for him dies out.

That was a long ramble. I hope I made some sense.

Edited by Ananya05 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#92

Originally posted by: _charu_


cool ! that's the bottomline..👏 why do people jump to conclusions without reading the complete thing 😕

she obviously loved him but now she's regretting that she ever loved him..pehle mujhe afsos hota tha, ab ghinn aati hai you explained it very beautifully the irony behind her statement..👏



Oh thank you for making sense of my ramblings :D
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Posted: 12 years ago
#93

Originally posted by: _charu_


cool ! that's the bottomline..👏 why do people jump to conclusions without reading the complete thing 😕

she obviously loved him but now she's regretting that she ever loved him..pehle mujhe afsos hota tha, ab ghinn aati hai you explained it very beautifully the irony behind her statement..👏

sorry to quote ur reply...

but rk ne khud kaha he don't want keep any relation with madhu... after hearing this also... she still want a relationship with rk ???????????

in relationship if one don't want it and he/she cut that relationship... then how that relationship will survive??????????
Edited by kavana_n - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#94

Originally posted by: kavana_n

i know u r trying to say is madhu fell early love with rk...😆 wahi tho bol rahihu... she belives what she saw...

rk was supoorting madhu infront of dipz... then in madhu mind she thinks.. rk cares for her..

rk said all his secrets.. she was thinking... rk telling all things.. so she was thinking he cares for her...
he also likes her
poor girl usko badle chali aur khud paas gayi 😆


😃 ha ha i guess so..

God this is what sikky-dips romance has done to me 😃 . .sulbala, rishbala sthg needs to start soon 😛 .. I dont want her to run to a bhujang and start changing him 😛

( just for fun)
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ananya05

My two cents from what my small brain understand of Madhu:

She loves RK truly. She knew what she is getting into by loving this complicated man. Remember thw 'aag ka dariya' conversation by the lake side? But, with her idealistic view towards life, she thought she can change this man for good. And this is where she went wrong terribly.

And now after seeing his prem game, somewhere she seems to be blaming herself for falling in love with him. Though she never overtly expresses it, her actions convey this to me. Also, today she even went ahead and said that she feels disgusted with herself for loving him ever. So, all in all she is losing belief in her capability to love another human being. And that is why, now she feels the need to shower her love on Aryan.

As to why she is hanging around his sets, there might be two reasons. She wants to be around RK, so that she can become like him. A person who is evasive, adept at keeping secrets and hiding their hurt. This is what RK is. And this is what Madhu has become gradually. By being around RK, she has managed to bury her hurt under that tough exterior.

What reason Madhu has to not dismiss him? She can't openly display that she still loves him and has her hopes invested in him. RK has not given her any reason to do so.

And if Madhu has moved on, that does not mean she has stopped loving him. It just means that, her life and thoughts do not revolve around RK any more. Her focus is shifting to other aspects of her life, where she can seek solace. But love still continues to hold its place in the heart. Its not operated by a button, to be simply turned OFF once you have moved on.

And lastly, we should not forget that even the most deathless and selfless of love dies out when unrequited. So, if Rishabh Kundra does not buck up soon, I won't be surprised if Madhu's love for him dies out.

That was a long ramble. I hope I made some sense.



Thanks, Ananya. You said everything I wanted to/should have.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#96

Originally posted by: enigmatic_zephy


😃 ha ha i guess so..

God this is what sikky-dips romance has done to me 😃 . .sulbala, rishbala sthg needs to start soon 😛 .. I dont want her to run to a bhujang and start changing him 😛

( just for fun)

i know what u r telling about... about sulbala... no comments...

about bhujang what wrong in that if she started to change him????

u mean jis jis change karne chalo uske saath love karo... 😆 😆 i am not talking about all... u asked about madhu rk relationship and i said the what happened b/n them...

i am not story writer and i don't know what will happen in the future...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ananya05

My two cents from what my small brain understand of Madhu:

She loves RK truly. She knew what she is getting into by loving this complicated man. Remember thw 'aag ka dariya' conversation by the lake side? But, with her idealistic view towards life, she thought she can change this man for good. And this is where she went wrong terribly.

And now after seeing his prem game, somewhere she seems to be blaming herself for falling in love with him. Though she never overtly expresses it, her actions convey this to me. Also, today she even went ahead and said that she feels disgusted with herself for loving him ever. So, all in all she is losing belief in her capability to love another human being. And that is why, now she feels the need to shower her love on Aryan, which will help her restore her faith in her ideal principles of love.

As to why she is hanging around his sets, there might be two reasons. She wants to be around RK, so that she can become like him. A person who is evasive, adept at keeping secrets and hiding their hurt. This is what RK is. And this is what Madhu has become gradually. By being around RK, she has managed to bury her hurt under that tough exterior.

What reason Madhu has to not dismiss him? She can't openly display that she still loves him and has her hopes invested in him. RK has not given her any reason to do so.

And if Madhu has moved on, that does not mean she has stopped loving him. It just means that, her life and thoughts do not revolve around RK any more. Her focus is shifting to other aspects of her life, where she can seek solace. But love still continues to hold its place in the heart. Its not operated by a button, to be simply turned OFF once you have moved on.

And lastly, we should not forget that even the most deathless and selfless of love dies out when unrequited. So, if Rishabh Kundra does not buck up soon, I won't be surprised if Madhu's love for him dies out.

That was a long ramble. I hope I made some sense.


Oh a b'ful post ananya..

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Hanging around sets: someone really needs to make her snap out of this.. she is a b'ful character.. going on like this would ruin her.. being near RK is not helping anyone.. not even RK .. Ah!.. think sulbala must start soon .. if rishabh's yearning is far off..

I think I just want one private moment in solitude to get an understanding where this character is moving with respect to her own feelings.. no RK .. just her herself..

Correct, moving on = life not revolving around RK.. that's the point.. MB has always hated film sets.. why is she doing what she doesn't like.. Poor sould she has already gone through enough and unnecessarily putting herself through much more..

Why can't she accept that she did not love the man for who he is.. and it was a grave mistake but then put an end to it.. mistake bhi bol rahe ho, wahan rehna bhi chahte ho.. she is hurting herself more than anyone else.. she needs to snap out of this

Real life mein to selfless love hota nahi hai.. so i don't care.. I am extremely supportive of her for standing up for herself.. truly a strong woman.. but i just want her to think logically and sensible and sort out her feelings before she messes up everything... and everyone's lives..
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Posted: 12 years ago
#98

Originally posted by: kavana_n

cool ! that's the bottomline..👏 why do people jump to conclusions without reading the complete thing 😕

she obviously loved him but now she's regretting that she ever loved him..pehle mujhe afsos hota tha, ab ghinn aati hai you explained it very beautifully the irony behind her statement..👏

sorry to quote ur reply...

but rk ne khud kaha he don't want keep any relation with madhu... after hearing this also... she still want a relationship with rk ???????????

in relationship if one don't want it and he/she cut that relationship... then how that relationship will survive??????????

sorry my dear, i dun know where did i say anything like this or meant this 😕 sorry dun have time for this, i'm signing off 😛
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Posted: 12 years ago
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😃 ha ha i guess so..

God this is what sikky-dips romance has done to me 😃 . .sulbala, rishbala sthg needs to start soon 😛 .. I dont want her to run to a bhujang and start changing him 😛

( just for fun)
i know what u r telling about... about sulbala... no comments...

about bhujang what wrong in that if she started to change him????

u mean jis jis change karne chalo uske saath love karo... 😆 😆 i am not talking about all... u asked about madhu rk relationship and i said the what happened b/n them...

i am not story writer and i don't know what will happen in the future...

ha h a.. nahi nahi .. change matlab love nahi.. but if theperson doesn't change.. she will fele bad again.. hasn't she gone through enough already.. she would start losing sense .. otherwise ..

:) .. are yaar i just want one moment of solitude and for her to sort out her decisions and feelings.. i think i will be fine with any of her decisions.. she deserves that benefit of doubt..
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: kavana_n

sorry to quote ur reply...

but rk ne khud kaha he don't want keep any relation with madhu... after hearing this also... she still want a relationship with rk ???????????

in relationship if one don't want it and he/she cut that relationship... then how that relationship will survive??????????


You know what.. in real life.. i think its important for a person to take a break after these things.. she needs it.. to be away from all negativity for the time being..

and you are right .. she shouldn't take back RK atleast not easily.. he needs to earn it..

But forget Rk.. its Madhu's understanding of herself.. i doubt if she herself has sorted out her fdeelings.. and i am talking of a bigger picture not just RK . .. what has she planned .. what is she desiring..

she needs a break ! and be away from the sets for the time being

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