Originally posted by: vkk2429
Krithika,
RK does love Madhu. Just that he chose to keep it private or play at his own terms. Anything that is elicited out of him without his initiation, he might not take it well...even if it is reasonable. The timing did not go well with him...I mean I knew this weakness of him even when I was not thinking of him to be faking/taking revenge as per this twist. He is his own enemy for happiness. Self-destructive trait.
Haven't we seen in real life...bosses around us, who though wanting their subordinates to get a solution and yet will behave as if they did not ask for it...and when they ask it and we do it, and yet they are not satisfied. You know RK is so much dignified than the bosses I worked for when I started my first job. 😆 Another boss of mine would for months (which can run to years also) not approve a solution, just because his ego doesn't allow it...its like for him...why did the idea did not come to me...now why do I have to approve...means he is such an idiot...he is the manager...he gets to approve, so why feel small...but he has to. I am telling you RK is so much better than the real life specimens I have worked with. 😆
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Self-destructive trait it is...something that Dips had rightly said(even though I hate her)
I think she seems to have understood him better😡
We will see how it unfolds with a lot of patience😔
As for your real life situations..I feel your pain😔
Kritika,
Look...not just this theory of egotistical person is playing in my head. I have another equally strong theory going in my head. Just that I never want to speculate too much and putting people to buy my ideas...But I am tempted to give you hope...so just listen out and though it might be just my imagination.
My theory is that (as explained in Media thread yesterday over page 36, I explained RK's reaction to various events when Madhu made him to do something)...it can also be case where his ego too might have understood and seen that her actions are actually warm for him and yet he knows that she is far too innocent, pure and inexperienced for him. AA says that RK wants Madhu to be tainted as him. I don't call it TAINTED...I call it EXPERIENCED. because for me Madhu is this 22 year old woman...whereas RK had to become his own grown up person since 12 years old with no one to emotionally support him and now at 29th year, he is this Superstar...and obviously, he dealt with all kinds of viciousness, competitiveness, deceit, lies, promises, hopes, frustrations of the world. He has to maintain two facets of his life...image in the limelight and person out of it.
RK has a state of mind which is far mature than Madhu. So as a man who is attracted to this woman, he would also desire in her a mind that not just sees him naked like she is able to and not just heal it, but able to see the whys of his character without him having to sit and tell her. I feel sometimes he longs a partner that is mentally on the same level as him...not just the honesty and courage...the major difference between them is ...she is ideal, self-righteous and innocent...which is all kiddish in true sense...whereas he is realistic, not worried about being right always and definitely not innocent. I feel, this man would feel comfortable loving an experienced woman and not loving just a girl who needs to be cared, respected as a flower. I feel may be the desire kicks in him and may be he would like to make love to her...but I feel his experience makes him stop having an involved relationship with her, when she cannot even fathom the full extent of him...
And so I feel that he is breaking her, giving her hurt, trying to teach experience to her in his own way, recreating her...all by standing besides her like her protector, nurturer...as in he feels alone in this world...now he knows he loves this woman, but to make their relationship permanent, he wants her to know all that he went through...which will make her equal with him...she too now will know how to deal with deceit, viciousness etc...the thing is in this theory...I see that he is not allowing hurt to happen to her through outside sources, but he himself is teaching her.
I feel that many will not understand what I am saying...but I still say...just give it a rest and think slowly. At real it is difficult for an experienced person to talk to ignorant person...it will be like bhains ke saamne been bajana. We yearn to talk to people where wavelength matches. Now in what way RK and Madhu are similar and have a common topic to discuss, except the fact that they are terribly drawn to each other and like each other's attitudes. At the end of the day, RK might want to discuss something about cinema passionately...any topic...but Madhu will never be interested in it. So he is infusing all this into her... Another thing I feel that...he was deeply upset at her risking or being careless of her health and keeping karwa chouth for him and he wanted to teach her like a parent...that not everything can be achieved in life in that reckless stubborn manner...he seems like that already, but she proved to him that she is more than him and may be it scared him too and he wanted to keep a check on that...
Coming to today's episode, RK came across to me as an excellent manager. Never before I have seen him in such control. He controlled Dipali too. Previously he acted sort of weaker before Dipali, today suddenly he seemed to know which string of hers he has to pull to get the desired reaction for him. He seemed to me in today's episode, as a project manager, who was all going ahead with Pre-Go Live execution of his project and if that dry run goes smoothly, he is all set for the Go-live of his project. Such was his poise, such was tension about...it was not about Madhu or Dipali...it was about him in control of his plan of going away and the way it had to be executed. In all of this he did not fail to give support to Madhu...and he made maximum use of Dipali to give her right amount of curiosity and Disbelief. He had to give support to Madhu, because she was his soldier if he was the commander.
For me today's episode was like a thriller.
Edited by 0-SD-0 - 12 years ago
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