Episode 153 Discussion: 25th Dec 2012 - Page 3

Originally posted by: DovesView

SD: That was awesome. It felt really good to read what you wrote as an answer. BEAUTIFUL! You love the character RK to the core, don't you? It is evident. Such analysis!👏

Shridevi,

Thank you for the comments that you made for my analysis. 😳

• First Before I answer your question:
  I'm not usually someone who likes to talk a lot, but since I've been with you (I read your analysis), I had the urge to join you. Very clever and analytical writing all on this topic. I hesitated to write more because I learned French, and English learning itself, and I have not corresponded with anyone in English. The only thing I have been translating is technical texts from English to Serbian.

• You ask me how I follow the show?
  - First I look at the original episode,
  - Then read the WU,
  - Then I look episode again,
  - After two or three days I find episode with Romanian translation, which when translated into Serbian looks incredibly funny. Some words and phrases are totally meaningless and so on, not to mention. 😲

• My analysis?
  After my viewing the episode and after reading WU! 😲

God bless you!

Originally posted by: apolloartemis

Very nice epi today. I like how the Rishbala relationship is moving forward and how RK is slowly healing his wounds with his wife's help. Shri said it beautifully- once the hurt is articulated, it is halfway healed.

Whatever dislike we have of Radha, and yes I am calling her Radha today, she is RK's mother and responsible for making him the complicated man Madhu loves. The relationship has to heal for the Rishbala relationship to be somewhat healthy. I say somewhat because it will never truly be a healthy relationship- both are too eccentric and RK has too much of an artist's mentality for a normal, productive relationship between the two. Whatever happens, like I have said before, these two will be the cause of each's other highest of highs and lowest of lows.

Today we saw how slowly RK is healing all his relationships, but the irony is that he plans to leave everything and everyone behind- it's kind of like making peace with the world before you take your leave- everything has to be done before you can go. It's like RK wants to do just that- because Superstar RK will be gone, and Rishab will be left in his place. But RIshab has the same relationships- and more importantly Madhu places a high value on those relaionships, so how will both of them truly let go? I wonder if RK has thought this plan through...because it is full of holes.

re leaving the industry- I still think its because of his relationship with Maddy- he chooses her above everything and everyone. And he wants her to do the same- the only way to do that? Cut asunder all other relationships- he even tells her- "what will happen to your mother when we leave?" I don't know about you guys but that statement does not indicate that RK plans for there to be visits home when RIshbala leave.

So I'm a little confused about RK's state of mind going forward-but we'll see where the CV's go from here.

Have to say- love how RK answered Dips- cool, calm, collected with no emotion- the opposite of love is not hate, it is indifference. Good to see that RK is finally getting there.

Originally posted by: kt25

RK unlike Madhu is a master planner and executor.

One question that I have in mind is that he is leaving everything and is putting Madhu through this test because Dips sowed the seeds of doubt in his mind?? Why does it matter what Dips thinks? Again the same thing happened today when she mocks at the relationship that Madhu and Padmini share with Malik. He defended their relationship and put Dips in her place by saying that she is uninvited and should not be at his private party which is only meant for his close friends and family and not some unknown commoner like her. Eventhough she left the place he couldn't let go off what she said and hence the precap where he is asking Madhu to think about giving a new meaning to Malik/Padmini relationship by getting them married I presume. It did not come from him directly and once again it was Dips who made him think on those lines. Why-o-Why does he give so much importance to Dips even if he does not want to admit what she thinks means to him? I just don't get it. Why couldn't he just ignore her and not do things to prove her wrong or put her in place?

Originally posted by: 0-SD-0

Much of my thought process is still hinged to my yesterday's take. The composure showed by RK towards Dipali is okay by me, but it did not leave any satisfaction to me. His taunts to her about where is her 5 year party was a good googly to her. And the way her face fell at RK-Radha reunion, it was good to see the objective side of it. Because the more RK is calm and composed with her, the better...the indicator that he is getting away from her. But the TAUNT itself tells me that their CHAPTER together is not yet closed. So when is that going to be closed...is my concern. Shridevi ...have patience. All great things come at their own sweet time.

Originally posted by: zoya_naziya

Priya, nice analysis of the episode as always:)

Regarding on why Dipzy is important... It is we viewers who are giving Dipz importance. RK is not heeding to Dipz words just like that...

Firstly,RK is a man who keenly listens and observes what people have to say to him. If he thinks that they are making sense, he will assess it and then act appropriately and sensibly.. He listens to Dipali and then defends Pads-malik r'ship(the same way he defended Madhu too during test of love time). Kissa over there itself...

Now,RK wants to take Madhu away from all kith and kin to a place where it's just the two of them. But before he takes her away, he wants to shed all their baggage. He wants to see to it that every one is happily settled in their own world so he could whisk Madhu away from everyone(if she comes to know that someone is unhappy/in pain with/in their life, she would not come with him) . Isn't this why he is fixing r'ships and slowly making peace with his mom too?

Pads and Malik have all their lives lived for their children and never thought about themselves even for a moment. Now after their children are settled, now what ? This marriage, i guess, is quite the logical conclusion.

Tomorrow, even if they show that RK is acting on Dipzy's words, I would believe that Dipz has just prodded him to address the issue and he is doing the needful(settling Pads-Malik, they both mean a lot to him, now) coz he thinks its the most sensible/logical thing to do.You yourself have told that he he is a master planner and executor... Even during the test of love time, Dipz just prodded him to address his insecurity and fears, but he went ahead with it, coz he himself was of the opinion that Dipz was right when she said he was cursed when it came to love. They made Dipz the voice of his insecurity when the director should have made him voice it out on his own.(showing Dipali when he was/is retrospecting is director/editor's fault)

This is how I have understood RK and I believe this is how RK is.

Madhu prodded him to address Rads issue, he is not acting on Madhu's words. He listens to her but is doing it coz he wants to do it n not just coz madhu wants him to do it.. When you are ready to believe this in Madhu's case, why not apply the same principle in Dipali's case?

I believe he is not out to prove anyone right/wrong. He is a begaana to the duniya, so why would he care what the world thinks?

Hope this alleviates your fears re. Dipzy...