[quote=Neha Bamb]I am - not perfect but trying to reach it.
On Success
According to me victory tastes sweetest when you have tasted defeat. Success becomes, to some degree, a state of mind. Knowing ourselves superior to the anxieties, troubles, and worries, which obsess us, we are superior to them. It's the fruits of your hard work where the situation plays a role but your mind tends to give you an answer. We are told that talent creates its own opportunities. But it sometimes seems that intense desire creates not only its own opportunities, but also its own talents.
On God
God enters through a private door into every individual. He's with us all the time. All of us are assigned some work or deed to accomplish. What we are is god's gift to us. What we become is our gift to god. Despite my hectic shooting schedule, I make it a point to pray to god for 10-15 minutes everyday to thank god for everything. I need not go to a holy shrine to pray but I can do it on my own and in those 15 minutes it's just me with my god. I like to pray.
On Religion
All religions be it the Gita or then the Koran, are basically the same and they teach us the same thing but is different languages. When I do well I feel good. When I do badly. I feel bad. That's my religion. True Religion like Albert Einstein had once said is real living; living with all one's soul, with all one's goodness and righteousness.
On Meditation & Spirituality
I'm a very restless kind of person so I like to meditate. My meditation is my 15 minutes with god where I just shut my eyes to everything and everyone around me. When the mind is kept away from pre occupation, then it becomes quite and one becomes a calmer person. The term meditation differs from person to person. Meditation is nothing but concentration of the mind to lead of life of serenity.
I don't know much about spirituality. Spirituality for me is happiness; to be dissolved into something completely great. Its self-awareness.
On Anger & Anger Management
Anger is just a negative emotion with which one has to be careful. For you can hurt people unknowingly if you are angry. I'm very short tempered and I get irritated very fast. And I know I may hurt people in the process, say words, which I don't mean. For that I would like to say I'm sorry. It doesn't hurt you to say sorry and saying sorry wont make a smaller. Ego chota nahin ho jaata hai by saying sorry. I pray to god to help me and for people to forgive me if I have hurt them.
On Happiness and Sadness
Happiness and Sadness are two sides of the same coin. They are basically a state of mind and it depends on us how we would like to view it. Thousands of candles can be lighted from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared and neither can sadness ever increase if you tell others. As for sadness, well sometimes to realize and appreciate things in life, someone has to come along and hurt you bad. But its lies upto us whether we want that hurt to remain with us forever or we want to look at the brighter aspect of life. It all depends on how we look and view from a broader perspective of things.
Love & Friendship
Love and friendship are intermingled with each other and are synonymous to each other. "Love is the condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own." Love is strong yet delicate. It can be broken. To truly love is to understand this. To be in love is to respect this. Love is a form of expression; it is a positive emotion for anything to anything. I'm a loving person and can love any amount of people at the same time be it my mother, father, friend etc.
By friendship I mean, to confide, share and reach a certain amount of compatibility. With friends you can tell them openly about what you feel, act or how you are. Friends are flowers in the garden of life. You are yourself with them and they like you for who you are not what you are. (They like you for the person you are). It takes me time to open up to people but when I do I'm a friend for life with them. Friends can be of any age group. A true friend is someone who thinks that you are a good egg even though he knows that you are slightly cracked.[/quote]
Pati Patni Aur Panga
Kumkum Bhagya
