@Ani and brvr.. finally i think i am going to join in quickly about NakuAni, i agree that her thought process has changed, but i do not think she is being selfish for herself. But i agree with you that she is being selfish to an extent. But that selfishness is only for Dutta. She is not questioning him about why he "kills" people. She infact tells him to continue doing the "right" All she is asking of him is to calm down slightly, which is for his good. If she had said that you are killing people and they have their own rights etc too, then it would have been a case where she was backtracking on the way she revered him despite it all. But her reasons for him calming down are very selfish.. she wants her man safe for herself.
It is natural for her to have these insecurities as u yourself said. But still i don't think she is trying to make him give up his present way of life. all she is saying is that she doesn't want any unknown enemy to come back when he is least expecting it and i think that the change in thought is a very natural progression to growth in a person. We all change with time, experiences and circumstances.
Right now, Naku is at a point where she is as responsible for the life inside her as Dutta is. And nothing can change the fact that the baby is most important. They share that responsibility. So as much it is hers, it is also Dutta's and even he knows that. Here, i would disagree with you when u say that not even a baby can change Naku's idea about her life with Dutta. I think it does change a lot of things because there is so much at stake.
When Aayisaheb tells Dutta that Naku is saying what she is saying because she is your wife, I agree with her. Naku is not just a wife who was married off to a man.. she is in fact that wife who is so devoted that she could like brvr said jump with him off a cliff in a car and be ready to die. And i think that trait in her is still there, which is why she can fearlessly go wherever it is if it is for Dutta. But she also has a vulnerable side as a woman, which at times her man must see. Only a wife who devotedly loves her husband would do whatever it takes to ensure he is safe, even if it means speaking out her mind. I know we are slightly tilted towards Dutta here, but for me, Naku's change in thought seems very natural. She has been saying that as ur wife i'll walk it through all the time, but what about the child? what about us as parents? I think these thoughts are natural. It would be too superwomanish to not have these fears. And if you see, though her faith has always been intact -- it is even now -- she has been worried for Dutta always, right from the days when he returned home bleeding from confrontations with enemies during the Supriya track. Even now, it is not that she has forgotten that he has risks nor is she asking him to give it up. She knows he cannot. What he said about how his "wife" should be was more in respect to Supriya and not Naku. Naku has been and is still fearless and perfect for him, which we all agree.
You said Dutta changed because he wanted to and not only because Naku came into his life. True!!! I agree completely. One cannot change unless he wants to! Even now, if u see, Dutta has been wanting a peaceful life for a very long time. He thought he could get it when he began falling for Supriya's charms and even after they returned from the jungle in March, he had expressed his wish to have a peaceful life. Naku knows he wants it which is why she keeps saying it to him reminding him that it is his own dream too... and no matter what, the life inside them has to be before anything else. I think for any couple, the dynamics of relationships change once a new life comes between them. It is a natural progression in their relationship too. That is why, Naku now speaks about it to Dutta... their relationship is also growing.
I am with Ani about the face revelation bit. She did delay it because she had her own fears too, plus Babi and Baji didnt help with all their discouragement. But ultimately she fell for Aayisaheb's emotional drama when she had made up her mind. The present point is too sensitive really. I think the conflict is that they both know there is no return. What they have to figure out is how they will go ahead from where they are and to me, Naku expressing her fears will only help Dutta decide what he must do.
brvr: i think u mentioned how she loved him without expecting it in return but now that he loves her too, she knows she wants it forever but has always had her inhibitions. I agree. When there is something at stake, we always have fears. Let me quote what Dutta told Baji once during the show after he had brought Naku home from Anna's den. He had told Baji, "Today, i have so much to lose that i don't want to lose any of it... there is so much at stake and so i want to keep it safer"... I think it is the same feeling that Naku is voicing out and since Dutta himself wants peace in his life, I am sure Naku's expression of her thoughts will only encourage him to go for it. And, why shouldn't he have a peaceful life if it is possible. Abhijay had a point when he said, "How long will he stand at war?!" It is inhuman 😔
Phewww!! 😃 Sorry for the rant but i have been thinking since the last three days and finally managed to post! and brvr, no one gets thrown out of here for expressing views😆 we all love it, even in silence! 😳
cheers!!
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