DOTW: What Now? Two Steps Forward? Ten Steps Back?

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hey Everyone! I'm here with the Discussion of The Week that I remembered finally.. The episodes I feel are going to be very tear-jerking over the next couple of days or week.. so keep tissues close.. 😆

Coming to my questions for this topic: I am very worried over the actually decision of TaSha re-marrying without the FR and yes the CV's handled it well up until now.. (have to watch tomorrow to be sure) but I am not entirely shocked by Dutta's reaction!

I don't want him to forgive Nakusha quickly instead I want to see a slow process of Dutta getting to know that not all beautiful faces are cheaters..

So I ask you all:

  1. What Do You Hope To See? In terms of the coming weeks?
  2. Dutta isn't irrational for whatever he may do.. But if you were in that position how would you react? Or what would you do?
  1. Is it really that easy to forgive someone after being kept in the dark?
  2. Dutta's wrath should not only be faced by Nakusha but others? Do you agree?
  3. And Finally What must Nakusha do to make Dutta realise the truth? (She loves him and is not like Seema-Sups)

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: _Sanjana23_

  1. What Do You Hope To See? In terms of the coming weeks?
  2. Dutta isn't irrational for whatever he may do.. But if you were in that position how would you react? Or what would you do?
  1. Is it really that easy to forgive someone after being kept in the dark?
  2. Dutta's wrath should not only be faced by Nakusha but others? Do you agree?
  3. And Finally What must Nakusha do to make Dutta realise the truth? (She loves him and is not like Seema-Sups)



😊......My answers to the ?s:

1) I was hoping not to see Dutta disappearing from the show as he usually does after leaning of a "dhoka" but I hear that he will....so now I'm just hoping Kala doesn't have all the fun until Dutta is able to forgive, though I think I'll be disappointed......

2) How I'd react? I'd go mad! 🤪🤪It's easy to judge Dutta and say he is overreacting or he his being too harsh and all, but one can't just accept and move on after being betrayed especially by people he/she loves and trusts...I am never happy with Dutta's reactions because I don't like him angry at Naku but when I think about how sensitive he is when it comes to trust I can't blame him either....maybe what is betrayal for Dutta isn't betrayal for everyone, however, he is the one in that position and it'll be seen from his point of view. So I have to say I share his hurt and angry feelings....at least when it comes to the FR.

3) No, it is not easy to forgive that easily.....I couldn't say, "hey, I'm glad you finally decided to come clean about your truth on our suhaag raat. Now let's move on and get ahead with the SR!" Yes, it depends on what is being revealed to me and how important the secret is that was kept from me....but I will probably keep wondering why didn't my husband (wife for Dutta, of course) just try to tell me before....why wait when it was bound to be told?

4)Yes...Yes...and Yes! In the end Naku was ready to tell all but someone always stopped her....so if she is punished she shouldn't be alone....she was the one covered in soot and the one Dutta trusts most....but he trusts AS too...and Baaji....and he knows Naku isn't the type of person to go against her mom....so he should gather all this and punish them all if he punishes Naku.

5) What I think she must do is to do what her heart tells her to do from now on! What she should to be trusted again...oh, God...I think I'll leave it to the CVs to solve...

Oh, yeah I forgot to add that I, too, want Dutta to understand that not every beautiful face is unable to love.......I want this to be shown in a realistic sense...but not too slowly that the episodes start to drag.
Edited by Rose_Petal - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rose_Petal



😊......My answers to the ?s:

1) I was hoping not to see Dutta disappearing from the show as he usually does after leaning of a "dhoka" but I hear that he will....so now I'm just hoping Kala doesn't have all the fun until Dutta is able to forgive, though I think I'll be disappointed......

2) How I'd react? I'd go mad! 🤪🤪It's easy to judge Dutta and say he is overreacting or he his being too harsh and all, but one can't just accept and move on after being betrayed especially by people he/she loves and trusts...I am never happy with Dutta's reactions because I don't like him angry at Naku but when I think about how sensitive he is when it comes to trust I can't blame him either....maybe what is betrayal for Dutta isn't betrayal for everyone, however, he is the one in that position and it'll be seen from his point of view. So I have to say I share his hurt and angry feelings....at least when it comes to the FR.

3) No, it is not easy to forgive that easily.....I couldn't say, "hey, I'm glad you finally decided to come clean about your truth on our suhaag raat. Now let's move on and get ahead with the SR!" Yes, it depends on what is being revealed to me and how important the secret is that was kept from me....but I will probably keep wondering why didn't my husband (wife for Dutta, of course) just try to tell me before....why wait when it was bound to be told?

4)Yes...Yes...and Yes! In the end Naku was ready to tell all but someone always stopped her....so if she is punished she shouldn't be alone....she was the one covered in soot and the one Dutta trusts most....but he trusts AS too...and Baaji....and he knows Naku isn't the type of person to go against her mom....so he should gather all this and punish them all if he punishes Naku.

5) What I think she must do is to do what her heart tells her to do from now on! What she should to be trusted again...oh, God...I think I'll leave it to the CVs to solve...

Oh, yeah I forgot to add that I, too, want Dutta to understand that not every beautiful face is unable to love.......I want this to be shown in a realistic sense...but not too slowly that the episodes start to drag.

totali agree wv u der hun..ah fnk da fam shud gt mor punishd dn naku (ano ano dat aint posibl lol) bt stil dnt wnt dutta-baaji frndshp 2 brek...e wz onli tryna prtct em bth bt fnk e shudv encouragdn naku 2 cum clean b4 da wedn...x
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Posted: 14 years ago
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frankly i dont want any misunderstandin between baji and dutta , i kno dutta loves naku no matter what it will take time. in the mean time i want madhu to do somthing, it seems like she is ther for nothin.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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What Do You Hope To See? In terms of the coming weeks?
I guess he will walk out and come back as usual. I hope he doesn't go away for many days. even if he does i hope we will still see him in the show if not in PN. LTL without dutta or nakusha is a complete NO (even for 2-3days).

Dutta isn't irrational for whatever he may do.. But if you were in that position how would you react? Or what would you do?
Ofcourse i will also be angry because she didn't tell him the truth. not because she is pretty. He said loved her heart. not her face. then he should take time before jumping into conclusions and declaring her traitor.

Is it really that easy to forgive someone after being kept in the dark?
Not easy to forgive. but he should realise that it's only a physical change and her heart and love has not changed.

Dutta's wrath should not only be faced by Nakusha but others? Do you agree?
We want others also to take the blame but dutta is not going to think about others cheating him. he will only be affected by what nakusha did.

And Finally What must Nakusha do to make Dutta realise the truth? (She loves him and is not like Seema-Sups)
I really don't know what nakusha should do. i guess he has not yet learned to give love or trust others. may be she should make him realise that she needs love too.

I think he has been very selfish and he only wants to get love and more love. but he is not good at giving love that nakusha also deserves. she has proved her love so many times. how many more proofs does he need. He said during marriage vacchans and yesterdays SR also that he will trust. What is the trust/relationship that breaks so easily? won't he even give her a chance to explain.


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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: LTLFan

What Do You Hope To See? In terms of the coming weeks?
I guess he will walk out and come back as usual. I hope he doesn't go away for many days. even if he does i hope we will still see him in the show if not in PN. LTL without dutta or nakusha is a complete NO (even for 2-3days).

Dutta isn't irrational for whatever he may do.. But if you were in that position how would you react? Or what would you do?
Ofcourse i will also be angry because she didn't tell him the truth. not because she is pretty. He said loved her heart. not her face. then he should take time before jumping into conclusions and declaring her traitor.

Is it really that easy to forgive someone after being kept in the dark?
Not easy to forgive. but he should realise that it's only a physical change and her heart and love has not changed.

Dutta's wrath should not only be faced by Nakusha but others? Do you agree?
We want others also to take the blame but dutta is not going to think about others cheating him. he will only be affected by what nakusha did.

And Finally What must Nakusha do to make Dutta realise the truth? (She loves him and is not like Seema-Sups)
I really don't know what nakusha should do. i guess he has not yet learned to give love or trust others. may be she should make him realise that she needs love too.

I think he has been very selfish and he only wants to get love and more love. but he is not good at giving love that nakusha also deserves. she has proved her love so many times. how many more proofs does he need. He said during marriage vacchans and yesterdays SR also that he will trust. What is the trust/relationship that breaks so easily? won't he even give her a chance to explain.


I agree with u completely.................

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