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Posted: 14 years ago
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Pain kind of became a synonym for Dutta and thats what I felt after watching today's episode. I can already sense the gloominess around. Dutta is always at the receiving end when it comes to pain, why? srsly why? . Is it so bad for one to ask for a slight bit of happiness after such a long time? . Godsakes its 30+ yrs and the guy finally senses happiness and within a day or two its back to square one?.
Nakku's cold behavior towards Dutta, the fidgeting of hands, hiding behind her mommy dearest.............and Nakku wants Dutta's happiness? Can she answer how?. How is she helping D get his happiness by doing all that? 😕. Iam confused and literally was banging my head thru out Nakku's so called "Gadhi" types of behavior. If she has the guts to speak up, just do so........if she cant then she better keep her fidgeting to herself and let D be a man at peace atleast for couple of days more. This is truly painful , that the guy cant even spend couple of days happily.
Alright so its time to dissect N's reason for the so called cold-behavior. She finally seems to have realized that she aint D's "layak" ?? 😕. Why?. Was she super rich the previous day and today the stock market crashed and she turned utter poor? 😕. Nakku ji u were poor when u went on proposing the guy...........not once, or twice but many times ( I lost count 😆). Anyways back to being serious, so ya Nakku proposed so many times, what did she expect she will get in return?. Either the guy will accept her love or neglect it, isnt it? . He to start with neglected it and now finally accepted it...........so why this sudden realisation of "Oh Iam poor, I cant look into his eyes, he has feelings for me and I wont be able to handle his looks" ?? 😡. I wouldve been happier if she was behaving coldly cuz she was scared of her "true face" wala truth, but nope, she loves to be called a "Gadhi" and so she had to talk abt "class" differences.
Isnt N the one who always said love is abt hearts, not looks ?. If she can understand "Love" that deep enuf, cant she understand that its love afterall and "class" "status" dont fall in its way?. She by talking abt the "status" stuff undid my belief in her mental strength. She is not a strong woman afterall , what a pity. She can be easily swayed by a random womans bakwasiyath is it?. Kala said something out of her own jealousy and N was ready to take it all in and start believing it?. If D was the man who cared for "looks" and "status" she wouldnt even stand a chance to talk to him, let alone be his wife. She knows it , she understands D very well and still, still ended up being such a dumb person?. How can she "hide" behind her mom's pallu?. Is Dutta gonna eat her alive?. Oh ya I know, I know , She cant look into his eyes , yup sure , I will take that for an answer .
Sups did the same thing, hated D's touch or presence for that matter of fact , anywhere near her and N was no less today. I agree N didnt "hate" but she didnt "like" it either. Now being in D's place what should or will the guy think?. Wont he take it as a cold-behavior?. N by rejecting to sit next to him, facing him, looking him into his eyes , taking gifts and sitting next to him .......is just throwing D down the hill ......... He will soon end up heartbroken if she doesnt open her mouth and speak up. What is she waiting for?. She understands his love for her , she doesnt want to betray him..........so why not go tell him the truth. He is right infront of her..........longing for her love. The least she can do is tell him the reason for her behaviour. It mught not make him happy, or in turn may make him sad and all..........atleast he will be sad for the right reason. He cant be heartbroken thinking she doesnt love him.
Watch precap to see Mishal's acting brilliance.......srsly , I was just glancing thru the video while working and I was taken aback and surprised to see so many moods on his face in what like few seconds of precap?. Oh man......... He gives the hand in a serious mode, then when she doesnt take it, look at the pain in his eyes , when she still doesnt take it , he looks at her assuringly and when she does it finally........see that faint twinkle in his eyes😛.
Mishal .................... Brillianto!!! 👏............(Needed a new word to praise him 🤣) ...........
Ofcourse the mirror scene was just too good and so was the way he was looking for Nakku who was obviously hiding behind her mom's pallu 😡.
As u can make out from my post, I am sad , super sad. I dont want Dutta to get any wrong signal here. He is worth some more happy moments 😍.
Please post ur comments too..........would love to read ur point of views 😊............
Anu
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Posted: 14 years ago
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hey anu i have just thru watching mon and tues epis..havent watched today's yet but frm what u are saying seriously i just want to kick naku or better still go over there to PN and rub that black soot off her face and reveal her to the entire family..thats it..if she doesn't have the guts to do it then i'll do it for her...enough is enough...she keeps preaching about honesty & trust but what about her practisiing it for a change?? within a span of 10 odd days she got soo many chances to get it done and over with but know she wants to make her life as well as everyone else's miserable..especially dutta's!! hasn't she seen dutta go thru enough already...what will it take for her to get some sense in her brains???
all this time she kept forcing dutta to accept her love and friendship and trust her and now that he is finally doing all the things she wanted...why the reverse gear?? in a way she is doing exactly what sups did to him...first forced him to trust and love her and then back stabbed him heartlessly!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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she's become like this after kala's words... otherwise she was so much in love too... i hated kala evn mre after watchin naku's cold behaviour 2day...poor dutta...he was so hurt wen she sed "ab yeh rishta daya aur upkaar ka lagta hai" he had teary eyes...poor dutta wen he realised his true feelings, kala had 2 come n poison naku's mind....arrrgggghhhhhhh
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I don't agree with you on this.....I think Dutta knows Naku far more than you are giving him credit for. He knows what's going on through his mind, he knows why Naku returned the gift and he knows that he has to make it up to her. He also knows that she's not afraid of him like Sups was...no way he would never lower his opinion of Naku in that context. He loves her, has finally admitted it and he knows that he has to reassure her....hell its not like Naku has been 100% confident with him since she declared his love....she's always been some what stand offish when it comes to touching him and being near him........ I think she's acting this way more because its not the two of them together and Dutta understands that to a certain degree....and we should give Naku the space to get comfortable with the situation as well.....she doesn't like being near him infront of his family and her family. She doesn't feel right now that she has a spot in his life, because even after being married to him they aren't a real married couple.
So no, I don't think Naku is hurting Dutta......I think he knows what he has to do and he knows that Naku's love is unconditional and he has full trust in that.........regardless of the way she's acting right now.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Anu, what are you trying to do? Incite a riot--rightly deserved of course 😉.
All kidding aside, you are absolutely right. I have had to try really hard -- due to my mercurial nature 😆--to not HATE Naku for her stupidity recently. And I'm calling Naku out on it.

I am really glad**GP sneers** the CVs saw fit to deflect any criticism of Naku's treatment of Dutta with the ever-convenient CLASS DIFFERENCE thing popping up, when it never occurred before, even with Kala making her comments as usual. What she said to Naku was not completely new, nor should it have been unexpected. Naku should be used to it by now. Poor Naku, poor sherni, who had courage before and self-respect, and now feels she is less because of looks? Naku knows Dutta and Kala did not come from royalty, and neither did she.
Let me, to be politically correct, say: Naku has had a tough life. Of course, there is some sense of inferiority in her because of her life to date. That is reasonable enough. But her playing this shrinking violet, thissherni-turned-Bambi ...even I'm a bit unconvinced.

But alas I love Dutta and Naku's jodi even with these bumps. I agree, Anu, that what Naku is doing defies belief--I can't stand to see Dutta hurt...even for 1 or 2 days. I don't care if she did not fully see things happening this way. But then why tell him throughout how much she loves him? To ditch him?

So Naku has to stop thinking about dhoka--what will be more painful...her real face or her ditching him. I tend to think her ditching him, because it is just like the other two heartbreaks he had, and this time much worse, because as he admitted, he loves Naku very much. But just state the full truth...she loves Dutta, and show her real face.

I feel like I'm ranting here and not saying much new...Anu, you've already said it all very well.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: SonyaBlade

I don't agree with you on this.....I think Dutta knows Naku far more than you are giving him credit for. He knows what's going on through his mind, he knows why Naku returned the gift and he knows that he has to make it up to her. He also knows that she's not afraid of him like Sups was...no way he would never lower his opinion of Naku in that context. He loves her, has finally admitted it and he knows that he has to reassure her....hell its not like Naku has been 100% confident with him since she declared his love....she's always been some what stand offish when it comes to touching him and being near him........ I think she's acting this way more because its not the two of them together and Dutta understands that to a certain degree....and we should give Naku the space to get comfortable with the situation as well.....she doesn't like being near him infront of his family and her family. She doesn't feel right now that she has a spot in his life, because even after being married to him they aren't a real married couple.

So no, I don't think Naku is hurting Dutta......I think he knows what he has to do and he knows that Naku's love is unconditional and he has full trust in that.........regardless of the way she's acting right now.




Agree completely! This time he is knows what is the problem. Also he is pained becuz he is causing her pain by not being able integrate her in his life.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@anu...
i hav hit a like fr no reason... 😆 ...i m very confident abt ur post... 😃 ...tu mera naam zarror roshan karegi..😛 😉

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: SonyaBlade

I don't agree with you on this.....I think Dutta knows Naku far more than you are giving him credit for. He knows what's going on through his mind, he knows why Naku returned the gift and he knows that he has to make it up to her. He also knows that she's not afraid of him like Sups was...no way he would never lower his opinion of Naku in that context. He loves her, has finally admitted it and he knows that he has to reassure her....hell its not like Naku has been 100% confident with him since she declared his love....she's always been some what stand offish when it comes to touching him and being near him........ I think she's acting this way more because its not the two of them together and Dutta understands that to a certain degree....and we should give Naku the space to get comfortable with the situation as well.....she doesn't like being near him infront of his family and her family. She doesn't feel right now that she has a spot in his life, because even after being married to him they aren't a real married couple.

So no, I don't think Naku is hurting Dutta......I think he knows what he has to do and he knows that Naku's love is unconditional and he has full trust in that.........regardless of the way she's acting right now.

oh wow.....Ditto gal....I agree...He is not hurt bcoz he understands her.....he is confused yes...bcoz he wants to do so much for her but all his attempts are either shot down by Kala or Naku.....but tht doesnt hurt him, he is just miserable, tht how can he do things in a right way.....thts all....if Naku refuses his gift, he knows he shldnt have done it, but then what shld he do? thats the Question tht runs in his mind...He is on a learning curve.....when he fails, he gets confused, then curious....and then he gets into learning mode.....and make 2nd attempt...its very cute....
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Posted: 14 years ago
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u r right Annu...now Nakku is behaving like Gadhi...today we missed u written update..plz..do it reguraly...i know i demand more but wht to do i like ur update very much..im 4m Assam n here powercut is very often..so im waiting for ur wudate...n thanks for this
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Perfect.....!!!!!! 👏 aapne meri dil ki baat kehdi...!!!




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