dutta paying for sethji's gift

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Posted: 15 years ago
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guys contradictory to what u all think, I think what dutta did was reasonable.. 😊
the women in patil niwas are all equal for him.
kala , leela, and roops are his sisters, so is nakku some one else's sister so dutta thought that all sisters in the house should get standard gifts..

he saw that sethji wants to gift something very nice to his sister hence dutta thought gifting nakku on sethji's behalf..and fulfilled sethji's wish

just give it a thought..if dutta would have given sethji just a 100 or even 400 bucks then dont u think he is differentiating between kala leela and roops and nakku(all of them are sisters..nakku is dutta's sister?) ...if he would have given 2oo bucks to sethji then it would be like he is reminding nakku of her poor status again saying that see nakku has been poor so lets give her a simpler gift 😕

i think even if he would have gifted nakku the jewelry on his own even then nakku would have hesitated because guys she has actually never expected him to accept her...she is happy with the love she has for him....

when dutta had gifted her the necklace during sups wedding, things were diff as dutta didnt consider him as a wife or partner,,she was a friend for him so she accepted it but now she knows why he is gifting her this..i think somewhere in her heart she knows that she has been a slum dweller and thinks that dutta is superior to her..she does need time to get sorted and kala is adding fuel to fire...her words will work and 😡 nakku will always be reminded of her status..

i maybe on minority here but this is what i think 😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I dont have any issues with Dutta sponsoring Naku's rakhi gift. Infact such situations are common for kids who do not earn. generally their father ie ganpat shld have sponsored but he is useless so dutta did. I mean he is the head of the household afterall.
Naku or Babi still dont know what AS and Dutta are planning. So they were uncomfortable. As now it looks as their master is sponsoring such an expensive gift whoch no self respecting person would accept. But if Naku was happily married to dutta and dutta wud have sponsored the gift I dont think she wud have minded taking it.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: kshreya2002

I dont have any issues with Dutta sponsoring Naku's rakhi gift. Infact such situations are common for kids who do not earn. generally their father ie ganpat shld have sponsored but he is useless so dutta did. I mean he is the head of the household afterall.
Naku or Babi still dont know what AS and Dutta are planning. So they were uncomfortable. As now it looks as their master is sponsoring such an expensive gift whoch no self respecting person would accept. But if Naku was happily married to dutta and dutta wud have sponsored the gift I dont think she wud have minded taking it.



hi kshreya!
ya thats what it us yaar nakku is still aware of her status...she knows that she is a maid.
babi to some extent knows that dutta is accepting her, baki has also said that he considers nakku as a vahini..kala is khullam khulla saying that nakku needs time to asjust..all this means that nakku is considered as a bahu...

its nakku's badappan that she didnt accept the gift..she still needs time to take things in but kala is not letting her do that..she is always reminding naku about her status..dutta also didnt gift her all this because they are not yet properly married ..so i empathize with dutta too as well as with nakku ..i think the scene was wuite beautifully done...except of what kala did 😡
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i completely agree with u Naaz and Shreya. I too dont see any problem in he gifting sumthng to Naku. 1 way i feel he is trying his best to make Naku realize his love. Our Dutta doesnt knw other ways to win the heart of person he loves. By helping sethji with RB gift he is one way trying to make Naku happy and reduce the so called abrrier between them
bechara Dutta..i feel so bad for him as all the ways he is trying r hitting Naku
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: nazia.icycool



hi kshreya!
ya thats what it us yaar nakku is still aware of her status...she knows that she is a maid.
babi to some extent knows that dutta is accepting her, baki has also said that he considers nakku as a vahini..kala is khullam khulla saying that nakku needs time to asjust..all this means that nakku is considered as a bahu...

its nakku's badappan that she didnt accept the gift..she still needs time to take things in but kala is not letting her do that..she is always reminding naku about her status..dutta also didnt gift her all this because they are not yet properly married ..so i empathize with dutta too as well as with nakku ..i think the scene was wuite beautifully done...except of what kala did 😡




I know everyone has made it apparent that Naku is now accepted as the daughter-in-law of the house. But Dutta hasnt made it clear that he considers her his wife. last time they talked abt their relationship was when he told her he wants to hand her over to her mom which he did. i guess naku still lives in the outhouse with her parents. quiet an awkward situation for her.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Nazia, I am with you on this....If I was in Dutta's place, I too would ahve done the same.....and I think any living soul would have....put yourself in his shoes and tell me, if you are in love with a gal, u care for her family and her and u see her family in dire need of money, wuldnt u extend ur hand.....thats different tht the family refuses to accept, the discussion is not about the other person's response the discussion is whether Dutta was right and he was.....Being Dutta, he wuld do it for a servant too and here its more intense, he loves Naku, he cares for her family and Sethji's gesture was touching....so, why shldnt he help....

Now, If I was in Dutta's place I wuldnt buy expensive gift for my sisters and a cheap gift for naku, who is gng to be my wife....its not about expense, but the thing that he liked, was comparatively expense to what Naku has seen...thats not his mistake.........
Finally, Its the gesture and intention that counts....Dutta's intention was not money or expensive, his intention was to care for Naku and her family..get them under one umbrella as his family.....
He is a sweet heart!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dancingdoll

Nazia, I am with you on this....If I was in Dutta's place, I too would ahve done the same.....and I think any living soul would have....put yourself in his shoes and tell me, if you are in love with a gal, u care for her family and her and u see her family in dire need of money, wuldnt u extend ur hand.....thats different tht the family refuses to accept, the discussion is not about the other person's response the discussion is whether Dutta was right and he was.....Being Dutta, he wuld do it for a servant too and here its more intense, he loves Naku, he cares for her family and Sethji's gesture was touching....so, why shldnt he help....


Now, If I was in Dutta's place I wuldnt buy expensive gift for my sisters and a cheap gift for naku, who is gng to be my wife....its not about expense, but the thing that he liked, was comparatively expensive to what Naku has seen...thats not his mistake.........


Finally, Its the gesture and intention that counts....Dutta's intention was not money or expensive, his intention was to care for Naku and her family..get them under one umbrella as his family.....


He is a sweet heart!





I agree DD even i would have done the same thing..i think what dutta did was right and even what nakku did was right..i have no complaints from the two..ya its not the quetion of 'if they will accept or no"..the point is that what dutta did was right or wrong and i think his decision was right...

as u said he would have helped any other servant too but would not have bought an expensive gift like how he did now..but the point to be noted is that he giving precious things to trio and gifting nakku according to her poor status would be wrong as if he wants them to continue to live in poverty...

he knows that nakku doesnt want such things but its human nature u knw..men like to see their wives dressed as raj kumaris..they want to see then in the best of clothes,jewelry etc (mind u good hubbies😆)..so i agree with u DD

ya im putting myself into hiss shoes ..*looking down*..(gosh his shoes are huge! 😆 )
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: nazia.icycool



ya im putting myself into hiss shoes ..*looking down*..(gosh his shoes are huge! 😆 )

Nazia, Tell me u didnt notice his shoes today...bcoz dude...I did...when AS comes to him in the first half, his full profile was shown and I got to see his shoes for the first time....I was actually wonderign that he is the only man who can carry off formal shoes on this attire....wondering how did the constume designer come with this attire....and then I saw the shoes and I was like...My god!! they are huge....
so, tell me , u didnt look at his shoes else we both shld totally stick her hands in Hi5!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Agree with everyone on this........i think dutta did the right and even nakku's reaction was okay with me......i didn't find anything wrong with it......

BTW........DD i noticed his shoes too........tht too twice, first time while standing talking to AS and second time while he was sitting on the sofa.........🤣.......n u're right.......they're quite huge 😆🤣
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: nik_ita



BTW........DD i noticed his shoes too........tht too twice, first time while standing talking to AS and second time while he was sitting on the sofa.........🤣.......n u're right.......they're quite huge 😆🤣

OMG....U too??....🤣🤣🤣....we all have become scanning machines, scanning Dutta head to toe! 🤣

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