points to ponder, 30 apr

* i have a new piece of advice to tulsi-d: she should get the idea that eklavya is ansh out of her head. that seems to upset him more than anything - her calling him eklavya. why do i think that if tulsi-d keeps calling him eklavya, he'll explode in flames?? 😆

i really don't get tulsi-d freaking out on eklavya trying to get kt, actually. if she knows that eklavya didn't assault kt, and if she is sure, with full confidence, that lakshya and kt love each other, why doesn't she just let eklavya try to get kt? if kt loves lakshya as she is supposed to, eklavya won't be able to get through to kt. or does tulsi-d have no faith in kt's love for lakshya? 😕

poor tulsi-daadi, she believes in first-love ever-after much more than anyone else in the house, or on this forum, i think. doesn't she watch any hindi-tv soaps?? 😆 😆

tulsi-d should just make sure that eklavya doesn't manage to bump lakshya off, or get him lost in the middle-east desert or something... 😆 and this is something that tulsi-d does well, we know.

* okay, so after having lived with manthan showing off his father's wealth and knowing that his own family is much poorer, why is lakshya suddenly so shame-faced in front of manthan? 😕

one of the nicest things about lakshya was that he used to stand up to manthan's showing off so well before? why is he suddenly behaving like nakul? didn't get it, other than this being yet another step by the poophead scriptwriters to destroy the lakshya character just as they're killing everyone else's character..😡 sigh.

* i finally figured out what i find desperately wrong with this show just now: it is actually that tulsi-daadi's behaviour is deeply and fundamentally flawed just now. earlier, as a mother-in-law and a mother, she used to see what was happening, talk to people to understand what was happening. after all this, she would apply her sense of what is right and wrong, of her morals and principles and come up with a judgement.

but after her haridwar break, she's come into a house full of new people, and constantly thrown into a situation to decide right-vs.-wrong. but she doesn't know anyone! she hasn't talked to this new generation, doesn't know anything about them, their background, their feelings, nothing. we never get/got to see tulsi-daadi talk to any of her grand-children, did we? not even lakshya.

doesn't it seem obvious then that she would not be able to make the right choices? these are choices that should have been made by their parents: settling fights and other such problems. but the parents themselves don't know much about their own kids, nor do they have the tulsi-daadi principles that would allow them to make the "right" choices. so they all still leave it to tulsi-daadi, who should've been like baa at this stage, mostly retired in her room, praying to her gods, smiling benevolently at her large family, living happily and fighting happily with each other.

poor tulsi-d. i feel more sorry for her than ever. especially since she sounds like she the kind that does not know how to go down without a fight. so she'll get torn to shreds before they get rid of her.

* okay, so who else is hoping for radical action from lakshya? as in - saying that he will get married to kt on his own "small income" terms, and get married somewhere small? and who will show more faith in his tulsi-daadi than kt shows in her baa? sigh. knowing the path that this show is being taken by it's poophead scriptwriters, i know none of this will happen.

but i guess we are all here watching this show, living on abnormal doses of hope and optimism, that there will at least a few shows where sanity will prevail, no? 😆

but seriously, who else thinks that this show has become terribly boring?

i've seen the last two episodes of the new fox tv show called "meri awaaz do..." it's very well done, without the horrific camera-zoom and light effects, the sound effects are just bad, not horrific yet, and it's got a cute guy. i think i'm gonna switch loyalties... 😆

i hope kt apologises today 😊

Originally posted by: preethi_p_r

How is that Sahil has more trust in Tulsi than KT . It is always shown that KT is very close to her baa and Tulsi is the only one in the house who takes care of KT and this girl just lost it after she overheard a convo 😕
After all that Tulsi has done for this girl , she even has lost the support n love of all her sons , is this KT blind to not notice all that .Doesnt she feel guilty .
When Tulsi tells Lakhsya not to go ,why is the dumb guy not asking any reasons .God why have they made this character so pathetic I wonder . 😡
Why is it that KT can overhear conversations that only provoke her 'against' Tulsi .Cant she for once hear a converstation between eku n Tulsi ??😒
And above all I wonder if Karan was richer than sahil why dint Tulsi or Mihir ask Karan the money .Why Sahil ?? 😕 😕 😕

That's what i wondered, why did they not ask money from Karan if he happens to be so rich.

Originally posted by: estee

but seriously, who else thinks that this show has become terribly boring?
....... i think i'm gonna switch loyalties... 😆

😆😆 I have already stopped watching Kyunki... thats why there have been no inputs from moi lately... just read the updates and your ptps... I think there's a major character assassination taking place, destroying my reasons for watching the show 😕 I think I've just about had enough! The updates are just about it for me now, can't see Laksh behave like a moron and KT like a zombie

Originally posted by: preethi_p_r

How is that Sahil has more trust in Tulsi than KT . It is always shown that KT is very close to her baa and Tulsi is the only one in the house who takes care of KT and this girl just lost it after she overheard a convo 😕

sigh. i've been playing with all kinds of explanations and none of them satisfy me. things that might have made kt do it: she doesn't like to see lakshya miserable, because he is dependent for everything on "the family" and not even "his own immediate family". so love for lakshya might be over-riding her concern for her baa? sigh. sort of like lakshya punching out eklavya-bhaiyya who he has known and loved longer because he thinks eklavya has assaulted kt, who he loves with a new passion?

Originally posted by: preethi_p_r

When Tulsi tells Lakhsya not to go ,why is the dumb guy not asking any reasons .

i would've asked for reasons, if i were lakshya. but at this point, eklavya butted in and took the conversation off into a totally different direction, no, about lakshya being old enough, and blah, blah?

i hope that today lakshya tells kt to shutup, and then turns to tulsi-d and asks her why he shouldn't work with eklavya bhaiyya.

the problem here though is: what can tulsi-daadi say?? that eklavya is constantly swearing to get kt away from lakshya? of course, eklavya will deny that to lakshya's face! so even if he asks, there is still no way out of eklavya's trap. what tulsi-daadi should've done is not have gone like a fire-cracker to lakshya, but instead had a long chat with him privately, later, where eklavya was not able to interrupt.

sigh. tulsi-daadi should learn that slow and steady might actually win the race! 😆

Originally posted by: preethi_p_r

And above all I wonder if Karan was richer than sahil why dint Tulsi or Mihir ask Karan the money .Why Sahil ??

first of all, why not?

second of all, tulsi-daadi is feeling very delicate about talking with karan right now, 'cause karan thinks she has caused havoc in his life?

about why mihir-daadu didn't ask, well, i must confess that i don't understand mihir-daadu at all.

lastly, i think it's the poophead scriptwriters trying to reassure us viewers that they do remember things that have happened in the show before! 😆 or at least somethings! so for every bhoomi-pregnancy that they forget, they remember a sahil chachu getting 2 million usd. 😆 how very re-assuring.... not! 😆

Originally posted by: minniemau

thats why there have been no inputs from moi lately... just read the updates and your ptps... I think there's a major character assassination taking place, destroying my reasons for watching the show 😕 I think I've just about had enough! The updates are just about it for me now, can't see Laksh behave like a moron and KT like a zombie

oh dear, so that's why your voice hasn't been on the forum! ya, the character assasinations have been terrible, no? i wonder why it's better to kill characters than to kill the show... that would free up actors and sets and money to make a new one, no? or have they run out of ideas for new shows? the two new balaji hindi shows are quite sad...

i think i've just about reached the end of my tether too. i'll check it out till the end of this week. if something seriously sweet and/or seriously smart doesn't happen, i'm gonna switch to reading updates, and admiring darkness (and the other cool updaters) for having the stomach and the spine to continue watching this sad show.

Originally posted by: estee

i'm gonna switch to reading updates, and admiring darkness (and the other cool updaters) for having the stomach and the spine to continue watching this sad show.

so no more ptps?? I hope they improve the story now.. its kinda getting like garbage, stinks! 😆 Y'know the updates by Nimmi and other updaters are better than the actual show itself.. I think they try to infuse some goodness in update which the actual show obviously lacks!

I think we better shift to the Himalayan slopes for some quality broadcasting now 😉 Temple of doom* is truly doomed for now😆😉

*T-o-D- Nimmi