KUMKUM FAULT RAGARDING SUMIT

kk is after rahul, in knowing wat happened,that rahul married neti. she never miss any opportunity in asking rahul and everytime she does that someone else comes or neti distrurbs her and she has to leave. kk desperate for knowing the answer.

MY POINT IS, Y KUMKUM is not seriously talking sumit about the matter.there is no neti to stop kk from speaking to sumit,like she does for rahul.kk wants sumit to come after her 1st. she dont want to take initiative to speak to sumit abt how they can be together.

she tried be4, but now she doesnt mention it.Y?Y IS SHE NOT THAT MUCH DESPERATE AS MUCH AS SHE IS WITH TALKING TO RAHUL.HOW CAN SHE LET SUMIT SLEEP? SHE SHOULD DISCUSS ABOUT PATCHING UP.

if kk would have said to sumit that key theek hei, I ACCEPT MEINEY GHALTE KAR DEE HEI. KIA IS KO SAHE KARNEY MEIN TUM MERI MADAD KAROO GAY. that wud have melted sumit.she should not think of her ego and not apologize, EVEN IF KK THINKS THAT SHE HASN'T MADE ANY MISTAKE , STILL SHE SHOULD APOLOGIZE, just TO BRING SUMIT TOGETHER WITH HER.(think abt my idea)

and that's KUM KUM'S FAULT. she ramains quiet, she ignores and she keeps on thinking abt rahul's suspense and other things. and that is typical womanly thing to do, i.e. rather than giving priority to imp 1st, a typical woman wud go for suspense 1st.😉

so instead of trying patching up with sumit, she wants to know abt rahul's story. i understand the story is imp BUT getting SUMIT BACK IS MORE IMP.

IF KK DONT WANT TO APOLOGIZE OR ACCEPT HER MISTAKE IN FRONT OF SUMIT, THEN SHE SHOULD JUST SAY

"ok, fine wat ever happened, that was yesterday. nothing can be done abt it(unless u have a time machine to go back to past😉).so cant we patch up for THE SAKE OF OUR LOVE AND FOR OUR CHILDREN. SUMIT IF WE KEEP ON THINKING OF YESTERDAY,WE WILL EVEN DESTROY OUR TODAY AND TOMORROW IS GONNA BE WORSE.so lets just do something together, rather than crying over spilt milk.

NOT EVEN ONCE DID KK SAID THAT.

i agree with everyone on forum getting irritated by sumit. SUMIT IS NOT BEHAVING WELL AT ALL.

BUT KK, i'm DISSAPOINTED at her also.becoz she doesnt start discussion to sumit abt patching up SERIOUSLY. she doesnt reply back to sumit,when he blames her.

KK I WANTED TO C WAS THAT SHE TRY DAY AND NIGHT EVERYDAY, NOT LETTING SUMIT SLEEP EVEN, AND JUST SPEAK ABOUT GETTING TOGETHER(NOTHING ELSE), MAYBE GO TO PLACES WHERE SUMIT AND KK SPENT GOLDEN TIMES TOGETHER FOR MEMMORIES RECALL and if SUMIT DOESNT WANT TO GO ANYWHERE WITH HER, THEN SHE IS KK, SHE CAN MAKE WAYS OF GOING OUT WITH SUMIT.VISITING OLD TIMES ROMANTIC PLACES FULL OF MEMORRIES could atleast SOFTEN SUMIT TO LISTEN TO HER.I ASSURE U,IF KK PECHAY PUR JAYEE, TU SUMIT ZYADA DAIR TAK IGNORE NAHI KAREY GA.SUMIT IS IGNORING BECOZ KK IS ALSO NOT BOTHERING.

SO I'M SURE HERE, KUM KUM IS AT FAULT. AS 1 IS PUNCHING BAG AND THE OTHER IS IGNORING BAG.

Well Whenever Kumkum hv tried to talk to Sumit regarding any problem in the house Sumit's dialogue was "I knew this will happen because u r responsible for everything in this house" ...So how can Kumkum share her feelings with Sumit when Sumit himself is not ready to listen or Believe Kumkum's words ..Kumkum herself confessed to Dadi that she has made a mistake even though I feel everyone in the house have made some or the other mistakes but still Sumit is not at all ready to listen to her point of views

Kumkum is ready to compromize but its Sumit who is being stubborn here for the last one month

jyoti,she is kk. she can talk to sumit and she knows ways to get things done if she want. she is irritated by blames, thats y she is not talking.
she should try her best and u should know wat i mean when i say KK'S best.
relationship between 2 lover's should be in a way that if other give a damn to u, then u should go after him. run AFTER him double the amount he runs AWAY from U.and vice versa.
i dont want kk to compromise i want kk to try to get sumit back. remember how kk planned to get her daughter ashka back to her husband when she was feeling bad to go back,becoz of having guilt of having affair with abhishek.so IF KK CAN UNITE ASHKA TO HER HUSBAND THEN Y NOT HERSELF TO SUMIT.
wat is kk's mehnat if sumit understands himself and comes to her.SHE HAS TO DO SOMETHING,PLAN AND WORK IT OUT.
SHE SHOULD'VE TRIED HER BEST,BUT SHE JUST TRIED A BIT.THATS NOT ENOUGH.

(all of u have sympathies towards kk becoz sumit is having a GO at her.but still plz look from different angle. wat is kk farz , if sumit is doing like this.) i hope u understand.

But Kumkum is trying her best to talk and compromise with Sumit 😳 ,in fact its Sumit who is not trying to reciprocate with Kumkum at all

See yesterday also Kumkum told Sumit about Neeti's intentions in the morning but what did Sumit do?? 😕 ...Instead of trying to analyze Kumkum's words,he starts with his blaming game 😆 😭 ..

In a relationship both the husband and wife need to listen to each other and only then it can work 😳 Kumkum is making an attempt and trying her best to make Sumit on her side but Sumit is only thinking of way to blame Kumkum again and again

Even I want both Sumit-Kumkum to patch up fast so that we get to see some lovey dovey scenes 😉 😆 😛 ..but looks like this patch-up will take some time

i agree with jyoti
kk is trying but su is not listening to her
kk even told him abt neeti but he didnt believe her and said it is cause of her
i think kk is not ignoring su instead she is behind me trying to talk to him but it is su who is not trying to understand her
instead i feel kk should ignore su and should not talk to him may be then he will know her importance

if kumkum is trying and nothing is happening then she should change her method to get sumit back.
i blame sumit more. by the way let me tell u wat trying one's best means. remember when kk lost her memmory and sumit was not well,he tried once,twice,got ill,BUT THAT ALSO WAS NOT ENOUGH. but he didnot go back,nor did he care for his life. even kk was running away from him, from her past, BUT ONLY 1 MAN SHOW, WON THE GAME.SUMIT ALONE DID EVERYTHING.
sumit is not listening becoz he is angry abt kk bringing antra in home and that becoz of antra,SIYA heart broke then he saw sharman's love gone.
it is not easy to patch up......WAT IS KK DOING!!! SHE TELLS SUMIT ABT SOMETHING...HE BLAMES HER...THATS IT!!!

wat has she done....become upset.remain quiet. THATS IT.
she should have a face to face table discussion.not to clarify abt past but to FOCUS HIS ATTENTION ON TODAY.

I dont see any serious effort made...other than crying,complaigning to dadi,tears,sad face,remain quiet and thinking of past. and for me, ALL THIS IS NOT EFFORT.i'm against sumit but again...KK TOO IS AT FAULT.if u have infection in ur body...u dont treat it with pain killers,u take some serious steps,so it wont spread.
so in kk case crying and compromise is NOT EFFORT....it would never be solved this way.
SHE HAD TO DO SOMETHING AND FAST, BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE.

Originally posted by: syed shariq

if kumkum is trying and nothing is happening then she should change her method to get sumit back.
i blame sumit more. by the way let me tell u wat trying one's best means. remember when kk lost her memmory and sumit was not well,he tried once,twice,got ill,BUT THAT ALSO WAS NOT ENOUGH. but he didnot go back,nor did he care for his life. even kk was running away from him, from her past, BUT ONLY 1 MAN SHOW, WON THE GAME.SUMIT ALONE DID EVERYTHING.
sumit is not listening becoz he is angry abt kk bringing antra in home and that becoz of antra,SIYA heart broke then he saw sharman's love gone.
it is not easy to patch up......WAT IS KK DOING!!! SHE TELLS SUMIT ABT SOMETHING...HE BLAMES HER...THATS IT!!!

wat has she done....become upset.remain quiet. THATS IT.
she should have a face to face table discussion.not to clarify abt past but to FOCUS HIS ATTENTION ON TODAY.

I dont see any serious effort made...other than crying,complaigning to dadi,tears,sad face,remain quiet and thinking of past. and for me, ALL THIS IS NOT EFFORT.i'm against sumit but again...KK TOO IS AT FAULT.if u have infection in ur body...u dont treat it with pain killers,u take some serious steps,so it wont spread.
so in kk case crying and compromise is NOT EFFORT....it would never be solved this way.
SHE HAD TO DO SOMETHING AND FAST, BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE.

you hav made clear i agree with you regarding this.but in the serial currently they are not focusing on their fight.the main story here is neeti getting her way through wadhwa parivar . kk thinking more about neeti and how to solve the problem and keep the family together rather patching up with sumit.

i know it is important but as of now she is more concentrating on other problem at home.

here i think sumit is not putting any efforts to keep his family together.being husband it's his duty too to support his wife in the crisis.not to forget it is his family that his wife is helping.

i know he was with her before in every problem.together they solved many problems.so it is time for him to understand that and back his wife. if giving a kid both parents love is mistake then i think kk is at fault.

seona, i didnt understand ur last sentence. if giving a kid...kk is at fault.
can u tell me wat u mean?

kumkum brought antra home coz she wanted om to hav both the parents love.i know antra did many bad things before.as for now she is repenting it.as you know when you repent even allah forgives so what kumkum did was rite ,she gav antra one more chance.for that if sumit is blaming her then so be it.
kumkum is a person who always brings her family together not breaking the relation.it is for sumit to understand that and move on not always thinking whatever happend coz of kumkum.

Well when Kumkum had lost her memory,that time the main track was surrounding around how Sumit brings Kumkum back 😳 ...even Kumkum made many such attempts in the past when Sumit was staying at Renuka's house and Kumkum brought back Sumit to his own house by winning against Renuka 😳

But this time as Seona said the main track is surounding around how Kumkum is trying to unite the family once again 😳 ..so thats why I think Sumit should also co-operate with Kumkum in bringing the family together rather than putting all the blame on Kumkum 😳

But all said and done I m sure Sumit loves Kumkum very much and at the end of the day even if Neeti makes the whole family go against Kumkum,but it will b only Sumit who will stand besides her in times of need 😳