Good evening girls !!!!
Thanks, Annie for being the pillar of strength for us❤️Group hug🤗 for those of us who are left bewildered and flummoxed after watching that depravity today💔😡 Here girls , should we start the venting session?
Our hearts got ripped apart today by showing us the most insensitive, heartless, careless, cheap, crass, garish sequences in the history of this whole show😡. Episode started with Pragya bringing in a bucket of water to pour on Abhi to wake him up. She just as soon have thrown that bucket of water at our faces😡And it all went downhill from there on😭. So they get into a back and forth, where Abhi wants to "make her pay" for what she had done with him for the last few months💔 Gone are the risks she took for his life, her total lack of concern for herself or her well being when she jumps in without a second thought into whatever trouble he is in. Out the window😡Just like that😲💔Only thing remaining is " you troubled me". Is she having fun while doing all she was doing? I agree that there is no reason for her doing the identity game, but is it soo hard for him to understand where she is coming from? Is this really the time for him to taunt her, mock her? Especially when he is dying to find out if she is his own ( again this is a discussion for another day, another time as to WHY he needs her to tell him 🤢), he is suddenly bestowed with this unbelievable treasure. So instead of feeling relieved, grateful, delirious, what do you do?Instead of hugging her forever and not letting her go even for a second, what do you do? Engage in a "touch me not" game?😡😲 Thank you writers, for killing and burying this couple for us😡💔
Is it important to show your one upmanship in situations like these? Is it important to get even with your love ? What does a normal, sensitive person do? Give the other person the space, the understanding, the security, provide a feeling of safety, let the " mistake" go and let the other person save face, instead of blatantly laughing at the other person's confession of love😡😭💔 as if she is asking for his love and that is somehow a bad thing. I couldn't believe the ridicule in his voice as he says " you told me you love me soo much, that you can't live without me, that I am the reason for your heartbeats and then you kissed me" 💔😡That is horrible for any girl to listen to. Your deepest confession of your love is made fun of by the very same person you confessed to💔😭. Aren't you supposed to take care of her , both her physical self and her soul when she is drunk and vulnerable? 😭 Do you think if she wanted to point out all of his mistakes or blunders towards her, or all the nasty things he said and did to her, whatever be the reason, she doesn't have any? SHE WOULD BE SITTING THERE FOR A WHOLE YEAR if she raised every single one of them. But my girl is one that doesn't hold a grudge, doesn't care about her self respect, safety, well being or her life when it comes to him, she just doesn't let anything including herself come in between them👍🏼Is it a weakness? NO, from my vantage point, it is unconditional love. This is the Sufi quote I have in my office:
The third kind of love transcends all conventions based on mutual expectations, being founded on the following principle: "I am for you, you are for whoever you choose; I accept whatever you want without any expectations whatsoever."
This is her kind of love.
About the actual SR. Ann, what is new❤️? I don't care if we didn't have any physical scenes. That is really not what I am asking for. After all it is not just a physical union but an emotional blending of souls❤️At least some tenderness, making each other feel special, making the girl feel extra special, some heart warming moments is what my expectation is. What do we get instead? You taunt the girl, she says sorry and you are NOW suddenly ready to disco😡💔😲It is horrible, as horrible can be. Especially, this is the first time, he also had to make up for what he did to her on their wedding night🤢. That is not the point, I don't care if it is the first time or the 1000oth time, in Mili's world, a guy has to make his girl feel special before discoing with deodorant😭. You don't act aloof, reluctant, not interested, resistant and unenthusiastic. This somehow gives the guy an upper hand😡? What in the name of hell is that? And what should have been a beautiful moment between the two with mutual desire now gets reduced to the girl asking, then apologizing and the guy relenting😡💔😲 Hideous with a capital H😡Did the writers even understand how this scene came across? 💔 And he left the morning after💔😡 Can't he even wake her up? That was sooo cheap to say the least👎🏼🤢Ann, completely with you on this. That letter was much more romantic than what actually led to the SR💔I reject the stupid explanation the writers gave for not waking her up💔😡
So now what? Leap? Pregnancy? Will the villains once again ask her to go away from his life in exchange of saving him ? And now with a pregnancy and a child, she has to take care of herself and save her kumkum? Will he be fed with all kinds of crap yet again about her? Do the writers seriously think, with the leap they can still hold the interest of the viewers? Especially the younger ones, do they think they would care about middle age romance with a child in between? Or will some of us be saying " hold it in guys, you are too old for this exhibitionism"?
Sorry🤢 if I hurt anybody's sentiments, guys. The woman in me cannot come to terms with how insensitive this whole charade was. I think they have successfully placed this show on hospice and now, just awaiting a natural death😭
The worst episode ever for me👎🏼💔
Edited by mili9 - 7 years ago
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