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Hi everyone. i am anchal. I've been a silent spectator of this forum for a very long time but never participated because i am bit reserved and scared to voice my opinions. I love Abhigya and the show to the core.

Aliya wants to divide and conquer abhigya. So that creates the same effect on the forum. In a poll recently about who they blame for all this mess, most people blamed dadi, then abhi and pragya. Aliya or Tanu had the least votes. To me Abhi and Pragya are not to be blamed. They're victims. I blame only taaliya for all this crap, especially Aliya. Damn her!

Originally posted by: Love.forever

Hi everyone. i am anchal. I've been a silent spectator of this forum for a very long time but never participated because i am bit reserved and scared to voice my opinions. I love Abhigya and the show to the core.

today i am coming out of my shell for a different reason. and i am not pointing out this to anyone in particular. I don't know how others feel but this is how i feel.

have seen many arguments against abhi and pragya. of course its common to have them. but what always bothers me here is that members keep saying everyone always blame abhi when he's not wrong and when he didn't do anything and always point to him and never support him when he does something good. but why do members forget that the same thing is done with pragya almost daily. members do not mock others opinions when things are said against pragya. but i have seen that mocking when things are said against abhi. i know that abhi has his own fans and pragya has her own. but that dose not mean that because we love one and when someone says something against our favourite character we just keep finding faults on the other character n mock them. there is such a huge difference here. but these are the main leads. whether one likes the other or not they will be together and both of them have many flaws. no one is perfect.

all i am trying to say is respect other's opinions. sorry if i went overboard.

you are quite right dear...and I believe this stems from the fact that a lot of pro-abhi fans are diehard fans of shabir...so they won't say anything bad against his character...but I think it is unfair to keep bashing pragya...we have to look at the both characters abhi and pragya...they are both victms of alia and tanu...of circumstances...I don't blame any of them...but I do get angry when the writers make either one of them to be persuaded by others as abhi is constanly being persuaded by alia and tanu...this is not the character abhi we know from the beginning and I wish the writers would return his intelligence back to him and make him the strong man that he is and not be controlled by alia and tanu...this is the only gripe I have against abhi and it is not against abhi but the writers...but yes constantly throwing blame and accusations against pragya is too much...

Yes the forum is partial but not just towards Abhi but Pragya too. I'm seeing this not today but from the time I joined the forum.

Yes I support Abhi when he is not at fault but when he is at fault I do blame him.

And main thing I don't mock people who support Pragya nor do I blindly hate Pragya & pick & bash her for everything like the forum does to Abhi.

I have seen people mocking those who support Abhi in various threads, I don't intend to pin point it & cause a fight here.

Importantly people here defend Abhi with valid facts not because they are blind.

main reason for watching show is abhigya but i do blame abhi when he is wrong i do blame pragya too when is wrong too i hv never diffeentiate support one if i am done i will say sorry i do agree forums showslots of partiality which cant be accepted sometimes

First off, welcome, Anchal😃 I am Mili.

I am one of the person who always support Abhi except 1-2 times.
Even in that 1-2 times I actually did not bash him, I was just disappointed.

Yes the Forum is always in support of Abhi. No doubt!

1) we are loud. We are always there to defend him.

That doesn't mean it's happening only this way.
May be you don't see or you choose to ignore, I am not sure but you can see Abhi being blamed and Abhi supporters being mocked.

For eg- EDT. It means Episode discussion thread. But for me it's blame Abhi to your hearts content thread.

Some more places too. Everywhere we defend Abhi. But we never did anything in some places.

I have reasons for not doing it.

1) freedom. This is a free forum and we are free to discuss anything unless it hurts others.

Now also I am raising it because it's told Because P supporting is mocked.
Otherwise I would even care about it.

When you cry out loud that you shouldn't be judged, pls remember you shouldn't judge others too.
If it hurts when others judge you, remember it hurts others too when they are judged.

If a person don't like calling Pragya a liar, remember I don't like it when someone mocks ABhis good heart wala dialogues in the show.

If u make fun of Abhi when he is called Sachi or when he tells he can see truth in eyes.
I will make fun of Pragya in some other way.

If you want Pragya to leave Abhi so that he suffers, I want Abhi to leave Pragya so that she suffers.
Irony is that my wish came true and he got Ml.

If you say I am wrong than question your conscious it will say you are wrong too.
For god sake Pls don't create a victim feel.

Ps: sorry if anyone is hurt. But enough is enough.
I can't take it anymore if I am picked for These things.

Originally posted by: ann5

you are quite right dear...and I believe this stems from the fact that a lot of pro-abhi fans are diehard fans of shabir...so they won't say anything bad against his character...but I think it is unfair to keep bashing pragya...we have to look at the both characters abhi and pragya...they are both victms of alia and tanu...of circumstances...I don't blame any of them...but I do get angry when the writers make either one of them to be persuaded by others as abhi is constanly being persuaded by alia and tanu...this is not the character abhi we know from the beginning and I wish the writers would return his intelligence back to him and make him the strong man that he is and not be controlled by alia and tanu...this is the only gripe I have against abhi and it is not against abhi but the writers...but yes constantly throwing blame and accusations against pragya is too much...

This is the heights of being judgemental.

Shabir fans can't differentiate Abhi and Shabir.

Acha! How do you know?

Shall I say The same thing about Pragya and Sriti.
I shouldn't because I can't fall to that level.

Regarding Tisha and Abhigya.

We Shabir fans differentiate it better.
We can differentiate Shabir Sriti - Abhi Pragya.

What is this rule that one has to like Pragya the same way one likes Abhi or vice versa? So what if they are a couple? Please respect that one can like Abhi or Pragya more than the other. Or one can dislike just one of them too. Is there a rule that one has to like both?