It's sad to see whats happening here. For that very reason, several times I had tried to tell you guys that don't keep very high expectations.
Anyway, what's happened has happened. Remember one thing, a show and a couple on the show can be a part of your life NOT your entire life. Don't base your life around a celebrity, it's stupidity. It's understood if for a while you are obsessed but one should learn to snap out of it.
These celebs are also human, don't expect them to be perfect or to live life according to how you want them to live their lives. They make mistakes, say stupid things like any one of us would...doesn't mean you take those things to heart. Probably if one of us was in their place we would react in an even worse manner than maybe they reacted. Honestly speaking Arjit reacted in a normal way, he has reacted in worse ways and this definitely wasn't it. Charu & Ankit shouldn't have interfered in his matter.
Besides, if fans don't know how to behave someone has to put them in place and Arjit's reply was fine.
They also have their own life and like to hang out with a particular set of people you can't stop them or dictate terms that they shouldn't post photos with that person and should only click pics with this person. It doesn't work that way. Like I said earlier, would you like it if your parents told you not to be friends with a particular person? Obviously you wouldn't. Same here, only difference is none of us are their parents. We are complete strangers who can't dictate terms to them.
To all those who've gone away from here -
The friends you've made here are way more important than this
show and the actors, don't leave them here. Don't want to watch the show or ship a particular couple, that's fine. Infact that's sensible but don't break your friendships here because of actors who don't know or care about your existence or how you feel.
Be a little tougher and don't take all this to heart, it's part of life. Learn to watch, come online, chat, have fun and DETACH. KKB, IF, social networking sites, etc. are a part of your life, not your entire life. The only thing that will probably remain from all this are the friends you've made, don't lose out on them because you gave all the other things more importance than them.