What's Pragya holding onto? - Page 2

I wish... Pragya Wud do something to rise love in between her n abhi...

strange isnt it?? if she thinks like this then she could had married suresh evn if she knew that he never loved her.. now i dont see any difference between suresh n abhi..atleast suresh would had respect her as his wife..

Originally posted by: -Tia-

Indi, I get the Indian woman wanting to get her marriage work emotion. But here Abhi has already sent her off of his life once and told her very clearly he has no interest of ever being a husband to her and their arrangement is temporary. And he has Tannu right around the corner.
If Abhi had a regular husband bond with her and then had strayed with Tannu, it makes some sense Pragya wanting them to work. But right now, he is just not ready to acknowledge her no matter what and she still thinks this way...
For Abhi this marriage means nothing and He has never ever told Prags of any hope for them!

Tia it does not matter if the husband has a mistress or not , in the old school thought, a marriage was a marriage and the female bared with all the abuse of the husband , the in-laws etc just to please her family. It still happens in this day and age too. Wives living and raising a family knowing the husband has mistresses, or is having an affair ...or even when he mentally or physically abuses her,she stays put in the marriage.

So Abhi accepting the marriage or not, his humiliating her every now and then or having an affair right in front if her does not negitiate from the main point that he is her husband and his act of kindness towards her family and her mothers happiness and health keep her put and in this so called marriage.

Originally posted by: -Tia-

Indi, I get the Indian woman wanting to get her marriage work emotion. But here Abhi has already sent her off of his life once and told her very clearly he has no interest of ever being a husband to her and their arrangement is temporary. And he has Tannu right around the corner.
If Abhi had a regular husband bond with her and then had strayed with Tannu, it makes some sense Pragya wanting them to work. But right now, he is just not ready to acknowledge her no matter what and she still thinks this way...
For Abhi this marriage means nothing and He has never ever told Prags of any hope for them!

Hey Tia ... please don't be so harsh ... you are breaking my heart ... you make it sound so final ..." For Abhi this marriage means nothing and He has never ever told Prags of any hope for them! " ... I'm deliberately blocking out that part 😆... see, I'm a romantic at heart and have convinced myself that Abhi has feelings for her ... maybe Pragya is thinking like me ... 😳!!!!

Seriously, I feel Pragya's concern is only for her mother. And even though Sarla is being a nuisance with respect to the marriage, I'm sure she would understand and not drop down with a heart attack if Pragya were to tell her the truth!!! Would Sarla want her beloved daughter stick to this marriage? Didn't her marriage also break up ??? Pragya should realise that the woman must have been strong to bring up and educate two daughters as a single parent!!! Again, the whole issue returns to Pragya!!!


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Originally posted by: -AriaNe-

strange isnt it?? if she thinks like this then she could had married suresh evn if she knew that he never loved her.. now i dont see any difference between suresh n abhi..atleast sureshwould had repect her as his wife..

Dear its not the same, her whole attitude changed with her voicing her opinion and rejecting Suresh as her mom had that attack or fainting spell and even on her saying that she doesnot want to get married to Abhi, her mother forces her hand by emotionally blackmailing her in to getting married to the person she rejected.

The situation were different at Sureshs time and when it came to marrying Abhi, as she promised her mom she would get married to any Tom, Dick or Harry her mom got for her and thus, shes married to one to please her mom, is in the relation to please her mom.

Originally posted by: kubare

Tia it does not matter if the husband has a mistress or not , in the old school thought, a marriage was a marriage and the female bared with all the abuse of the husband , the in-laws etc just to please her family. It still happens in this day and age too. Wives living and raising a family knowing the husband has mistresses, or is having an affair ...or even when he mentally or physically abuses her,she stays put in the marriage.

So Abhi accepting the marriage or not, his humiliating her every now and then or having an affair right in front if her does not negitiate from the main point that he is her husband and his act of kindness towards her family and her mothers happiness and health keep her put and in this so called marriage.

Originally posted by: kubare

Tia it does not matter if the husband has a mistress or not , in the old school thought, a marriage was a marriage and the female bared with all the abuse of the husband , the in-laws etc just to please her family. It still happens in this day and age too. Wives living and raising a family knowing the husband has mistresses, or is having an affair ...or even when he mentally or physically abuses her,she stays put in the marriage.

So Abhi accepting the marriage or not, his humiliating her every now and then or having an affair right in front if her does not negitiate from the main point that he is her husband and his act of kindness towards her family and her mothers happiness and health keep her put and in this so called marriage.

It's frightening and sad ... but I'm afraid you are quite right! Even in this day and age we have women living under those conditions ... and not a word of protest from them!!!! That's why I want to see a brave Pragya stand up against Abhi ... don't make it easy for him ... even if at the end she has to walk out!!! Want her to show pride and self esteem, even if she's falling for him!!!

(OK, I really don't want them to break up ... but I want him to suffer some heartache 😳!!!... this is reel life here😆 ).

Indi, I did not mean to be negative.

Originally posted by: indi

It's frightening and sad ... but I'm afraid you are quite right! Even in this day and age we have women living under those conditions ... and not a word of protest from them!!!! That's why I want to see a brave Pragya stand up against Abhi ... don't make it easy for him ... even if at the end she has to walk out!!! Want her to show pride and self esteem, even if she's falling for him!!!

(OK, I really don't want them to break up ... but I want him to suffer some heartache 😳!!!... this is reel life here😆 ).

Indi, same here, I would lovem, love to see a brave Pragya,who stands up to her hubby's abuse and humiliations. The one who doesnot make it easier for him and makes him face the mirror about his own wrong doings and hypocracy.I want her to show some backbobe instead of being a door mat. She needs to get her self respect back and her pride.

I want her to make his life as miserable as hes made hers and I really want him to suffer...though she can forgive him later...much much later 😆 😆

Originally posted by: -Tia-

Indi, I did not mean to be negative.

The thing that gets me is Abhi has told Pragya out. He has asked her to leave every single day. Now she is only back because of her own "majboori=Maa's health". He is just being a nice human and not hurting her mother. She was thrown out of Mehra house directly by Taaliyah, which was something that Abhi also wanted in a way.

Does Abhi have some emotions and pulling for Pragya? Absolutely. But at this point, he is not entertaining them at all, because he believes Pragya to be a traitor. When that is the case, he is only seeing Tannu with himself all the more because Tannu might be shallow (he knows that too, to some extent) but not a traitor like Pragya to his knowledge.

If Pragya really wants this marriage to work (even from an Indian woman point of view), she should get the truth about her and Tannu to Abhi. She can only think of a life with him once he is also in that track.

I either expect Pragya to stay indifferent to the idea of marriage life with him or work proactively and get her dumb husband's brain working so that he figures out what's right and what's not!

Pragya does not have any obligation now. Abhi will not hurt her mother. Period. She can be assured of that now, given how he supported her the very next day Puliya marriage was broken, he will do nothing against her mother.

So, why can't Pragya tell him the truth in a way he gets it? Why can't she get Purab to tell Abhi the truth about that letter? Or about Tannu giving her Maa a heart attack or about Purab's initial indecision?

Tia Abhi may not hurt her mother...but the truth of their marriage being nothing might. Look how shes behaving with Bulbul. She isn't forgiving Bulbul because shes blaming her for being the cause for ruining Abhi Pragyas marriage life. She got a Heart Attack just because of it...Sarla as a mom is obssessed with Pragya's marriage and her happiness in her marriage...therefore Pragya has decided to be a door mat and take all the abuse from Abhi...as she in her weakness for her moms medical cobdition is Thankful, greatful to himfor pretending all is honky dory in their marrued life for her.