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Posted: 12 years ago
#71
I personally do not believe any one person is right or wrong here. It is a matter of individual perspective.

there is such a thing as letting sleeping dogs lie. Of course, in the show, Aradhna would be conveniently unmarried or maybe widowed. However, what happens if she indeed lived with her husband, and what if she had never told her husband about this past relationship, in the belief that past is past. In the process of fulfilling one men's death wish, another woman's family life may well be destroyed, her husband may well feel that she has betrayed him by not sharing her past with him. Now, Baba will in die in peace. But what will happen to Aradhna? I think this is worth considering too!

Ashutosh is at the moment concentrating on extending Baba's time with them by adopting a course of treatment that is the lesser of the two evils. He is not concentrating on Baba's death bed wish because he is not thinking of Baba dying, if this is denial, then so be it. I think most of us in his situation would try to focus on treatment to start with. Obviously, if Baba expressly told Ashutosh that he wanted to meet Aradhna, Ashutosh would not ask him to shut up or ignore his wishes. Nidhi is acting on the basis of information that she has secured by snooping around. I am not saying that her approach is wrong but, it is not necessarily true that her approach is the only right one, Adhutosh wants to respect Baba's privacy. I am unable to see that as a crime!

I don't know if anybody here has seen Astitva, Mahesh Manjrekar's film with Mohnish Bahl and Tabu. in a way, it illustrates the exact point I made above!



Edited by sharadrocks - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#72

Originally posted by: ithasme

@Deepa: I like when Ashu becomes dominating.. The ending of convos btween ashni when ashu ignored her is alright.. I didn't see anything wrong in it.. I hv seen nidhi doing such ignored behaviour towards Ashu earlier... @Sharadrocks, hahaha.. Good observation...


i wonder how would u feel if nidhi does the same...

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Posted: 12 years ago
#73

Originally posted by: kaks0211

I dont know why what Ndhi is doing is to be described as Yuck...Nidhi is not trying to get BB married to Aradhana or something...she is only trying to fulfill BB's desire to meet and apologise to Aradhana for something he has done before...what is the harm in trying to fulfill her Nana's last wishes...


i dont understand this either kaks ...
even if she gets BB married to aradhana ,i dont see anything wrong in it ...(as long as aradhana isnt married already !)...
Edited by jayanti_dj - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#74

Originally posted by: Roza_DU

Kakali, just watched Thursday's epi..
Agree to your view that they have been dragging the track...may be because of some inevitable reasons...however, the stage is ready for the new entrant...
Though Ashu was being rude with Nidhi, but if you consider his mental state then his behavior seemed to be natural & was Ashulike..May be he'll realize Nidhi's point of view later that BB only wants to apologize to Aradhanaji for hurting her feelings...meeting Aradharaji will only make BB happy & guilt free..I think BB will thank Nidhi in front of Ashu..marnese pehle log un sabse maafi mangna chahte hai jenhe unhone dukh diya hai... I can relate to BB's emotion.. hope cvs will make the whole scenario meaningful, short & precise..

Also they shouldn't repeat Ashu Nidhi's bickering on every issues..yesterday Ashu's gestures, body language & his words give us the impression that he is damn irritated with the way Nidhi is handling BB, though he knows that Nidhi is trying her best & every now & then he thanks Nidhi for making BB happy ...there is some thing wrong in the execution of the scene...pata nahi directorji keya kadte hai..galat direction only galat message deti hai..

Such mein Rozaji... Nidhi does everything to make BB happy. But, if Ashu finds the things that Nidhi is doing, OK, then only he is happy with Nidhi; if something he doesnt find OK as per his thinking, he starts chiding Nidhi... This is not fair...😡
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ithasme

Koyel: yaar, Plss dnt misunderstand me.. RS himself told that they are trying bring entirely new love story of old age couple who will be helped by huh... Nidhi.. So hw cn u say that BB just wanna say smething & than there will no need of that aradhana character?? They want to target a new viewership by showing old age couple love story.. It will be boring.. What i find yuck is Nidhi.. Do you even knw what relation she shares with ashu's BABA?? I am sure you knw it bt still u are backing her?? I hv problem with nidhi nt with BB-Aradhana.. What i dnt understand sme just blindly support whatever nidhi does.. Bt if ashu does smething wrong.. It's Boom boom bang..Why?? Why can't anyone of you look @ ashu's side.. Tell me.. Is it bcoz nidhi is career woman?? So back her no matter what.. Why none are ready to accept ashu's desire?? Like in my topic a memeber(sharadrocks) said will nidhi fullfill ashu's desire only when ashu will go into lige threatening battle?? Look @ nidhi's relation with BB..



ashu's desire can wait ..nidhi did not deny him a child ..
its not as if she said that she doesnt want a baby at all ..
she just asked for 2 yrs ...he certianly can wait for 2 yrs to have a child

and most importantly its not as if ashu's biological clock is ticking or something.
Edited by jayanti_dj - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#76

Originally posted by: jayanti_dj


i dont understand either this either kaks ...
even if she gets BB married to aradhana ,i dont see anything wrong in it ...(as long as aradhana isnt married already !)...

I echo you... What is wrong in this yaar... Right now, Nidhi is trying to help BB with his wish to apologize to Aaradhanaji. So, what is wrong if Nidhi helps BB with this? And, even if BB and Aaradhanaji wish to get married also, and Nidhi helps in this, what is wrong in this? Why cannot the parents have their choices/wishes and what is wrong ifchildren help the parents fulfill their wishes?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Isn't it funny.. BB is nidhi's mom's father... Ppl aren't ready to look into this matter.. Saying they will happy even if BB gets married to aradhana.. Huh! @Deepa: I felt bad for ashu when nidhi denied ashu's most strong desire or happiness.. She took 2yrs frm him.. He didn't give it.. It ws taken by emotional way.. Can u bet on that ashu's desires of having biological child be shown??? Hw confident are you in saying that nidhi will fullfill ashu's desire?? One more thing BB didn't ask or told nidhi to fullfill his desire... I wud hv been happy if any non related character(Outsider) hv come into this play rather than nidhi or ashu..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ithasme

Isn't it funny.. BB is nidhi's mom's father... Ppl aren't ready to look into this matter.. Saying they will happy even if BB gets married to aradhana.. Huh! @Deepa: I felt bad for ashu when nidhi denied ashu's most strong desire or happiness.. She took 2yrs frm him.. He didn't give it.. It ws taken by emotional way.. Can u bet on that ashu's desires of having biological child be shown??? Hw confident are you in saying that nidhi will fullfill ashu's desire?? One more thing BB didn't ask or told nidhi to fullfill his desire... I wud hv been happy if any non related character(Outsider) hv come into this play rather than nidhi or ashu..


i dont see any reason why nidhi wont fulfill ashu's desire.
As for Bb,i see a old man who literally spends whole day alone.waiting for his son and his wife to cum back.i dont see anything wrong in bb aradhna marriage.there is much more to a marriage than physical relationship and babies.marriage to me is companionship.and sharing life.for gud times and for bad.

PS.no i dont think its funny.
Edited by jayanti_dj - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Deepa: i hope wat u said abt that nidhi will fullfill ashu's desire comes true.. Regarding BB.. Again.. Plss dnt mix up my pov..i hv clearly mentioned i hv problem with nidhi doing this for BB-Ardhana.. I dnt hv problem if BB himself takes inititative abt it or any non related(outsider) helping him out.. No doubt it will be maha boring to see extremely old couple doing lovegiri...
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Posted: 12 years ago
#80
why you all are fighting mam and sir?
Edited by pillutillu - 12 years ago

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