Age gap.. really a problem?

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Pori

@Pori

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Posted: 13 years ago

Hey everyone, dont get me wrong here. I have been wondering over this age gap issue for a couple of days and there are some questions that I have. Is age gap really a problem? I mean years back when young girls were married off to men twice their age, people did not talk then? It was okay to do that. So what is the problem now? Why can't a man and woman involve in a relationship keeping their age differences apart if they can understand each other? Think of the other as their better half? Ofcourse, we are in the 21st century now, things as such has happened in the past.. for eg dadi bua's generation or the generation before her.. well just pour in your thoughts and i hope i find my answer😳

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vasanthi16

@vasanthi16

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Posted: 13 years ago

Age gap is not the issue here...how the CVs r trying to portray it and their narrow viewpoint of it is the problem...they have completely botched it up !!!

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rehan2188

@rehan2188

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Posted: 13 years ago

i agree 👍🏼... if Two people are comforable wid each other n dey cn share their problems their thoughts n rather each n every small things dat affects either of dem n cn understand each others mood swings dere is no point of age gap... ppl will tlk till some time den dey l lso find d topic boring coz for them dis is just a matter of gossip... even after few years wen dey c dat dey are so happily married or happily commited day might feel dat dey were destined to b together...

d only thing Wanted in such relation is : STRONG WISH TO BE TOGETHER NO MATTER WAT HAPPENS...😊

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rehan2188

@rehan2188

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Posted: 13 years ago

@VASANTHI : i feel dat dey have just started wid d age gap issue... dey need to run d show so such out of d blue sequences were opt to b dere... as time goes dey l catch hold of d real differences... it l be really good to watch d real issues being faced wen dey both are at d eternity of their love... dere love growing soo strong... such a great emotional commitment... wen dey l not find ne age gap between dem i uess dat l b d best time dey deal wid real issues...

well it just my thinking ... no offence 😊

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vasanthi16

@vasanthi16

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Posted: 13 years ago

Hey non taken... Just hope they can carry forward the story with sensitivity and sensible scenes.

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tanis

@tanis

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Posted: 13 years ago

Granted age gap has adjustment issues but don't think its a major issue, if both persons committed to make it work. More likely CVs will find obstacles if they want to stretch the serial. Its a beautiful and bold theme - much will depend on how subject is addressed (Read: mature & sensitive!!) , for it to transcend boundaries or remain another mediocre serial. Cast is good, so just need a good script I guess :)

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cooljaya11

@cooljaya11

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Posted: 13 years ago

i think age gape is the major prb .

cuz in starting cuople of days everything is like fairy tale but after tht prb will start like like and idslike

.i mean after thte marriage is like compromising marriage not the real meaning of love .

of course it happen s in same age cuople also but 22 years is too much gape yaar after all when ashu start his doc carrier .ndhi was born .and if he married in age of 22 years then may be he has a girl the age of nidhi

.dont take it wrong

i m not narrow minded but i seen some cuples who had 15 years gape they r not happy now so i wrote it

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aditi305

@aditi305

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: cooljaya11
i think age gape is the major prb .
cuz in starting cuople of days everything is like fairy tale but after tht prb will start like like and idslike
.i mean after thte marriage is like compromising marriage not the real meaning of love .
of course it happen s in same age cuople also but 22 years is too much gape yaar after all when ashu start his doc carrier .ndhi was born .and if he married in age of 22 years then may be he has a girl the age of nidhi
.dont take it wrong
i m not narrow minded but i seen some cuples who had 15 years gape they r not happy now so i wrote it

I think I agree with you. Couple with age gap may be comitted to eachother but when you are married and small things of everyday keep telling that their thoughts, likes n dislikes, their comfort level or where they are uncomfortable then the problem will start. I guess how much is the age gap should we know. I think 15 yrs is huge gap.

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