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Posted: 8 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: ASHREENA

It is always nice to say we won't be with someone like dev because we are free liberated independent individuals until we are faced in the situation... Yes sometimes we do and say the most hateful and unjustifiable things to each other but when the dust settles we some how always regret what was said and done...

Dev and sona never stop loving each other but all this hate will soon settle an time will heal them...and it is ishwari secret will bring them as one..


that is my point..we do hurt our loved ones..but we can't hold the grudges for lifetime..time is the best healer..and whatever we say in anger it doesn't mean we all mean that..it's Just a hit of a moment..That's all..we can't afford o loose of our love for that one moment only..devakshi had lost each other before two times just for this Mistake.i don't want this time It to repeat again
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: NN07

Exactly !

Beautiful post .. In a forum full of hate posts & negative ideas .. Your post is a sheer delight for me !
Everyone is busy bashing Dev for what he said but nobody could sense what he felt ..
It was an emotional breakdown .. He was hurt & broken & he knew that he had no right to stop her even if she was in love with Jatin ..
It was his helplessness speaking ..
We, in real life too, often say things we don't mean when we are hurt ..
And as long as the other person knows you, it really doesn't matter much ..
Sona understood why he said all those things .. She knew he was hurt ..
So what's the big deal ? Why can't others understand if these two are okay with that ..
Relationship & love doesn't end because of some words said by somebody who is hurt as hell !

And about Sona .. I totally agree with you .. People nowdays only think about themselves & expect the same from others ..
One who thinks about others too is called foolish ..
But no .. Sona is not foolish .. She's caring .. She's kind .. She's full of love & forgiveness .. She's a GOOD person above everything ..
Being good is her strength .. Either learn it or ignore .. Demeaning it is like displaying your own inability to be good ..


Thank you so much for this post Survika .. Lots of love :)


Bingo..i just second ur words dear..

so glad to That u have understood what i mean..

Sona Is strong and her goodness Strength..Dev is emotional..and his Emotions are his weakness..this two balane and complete each other


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: dhank

I agree just right wrong no emotions left..I felt so hard emotions of dev..n Shaheer toh muah..nailed it..


Shaheer erica they killed it totally
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Amazing post. Just showcased the reality of human thinking. You are absolutely right.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Very nice post dear...
Yesterday's outburst was required for story progress further...

I can relate to Dev when he was saying all those things because I am a kind of person with extreme reactions...In 6 yrs of my married life, i think twice in my anger I have said such things that I never meant to say...It was that I was hurt to an extent that I had to vent it out...but my hubby didn't left me...he said he knows what I am and that I was extremely hurt (reasons were obviously different than Devakshi)But what I mean to say is you actually hurt the person you love and consider them as your own...He forgave me, is he a doormat or spineless???He loves me hence he understood where I am coming from..he knows I am a short tempered person and in anger wil say anything...he has accepted me with that flaw...

Devakshi will very soon learn that and accept each other and this time like never before...

I have seen today's children saying mean things to their parents but parents still forgive them...does that mean our parents are all the names that we are giving to Sona and Dev??

2 people madly in love can wait their entire life to get back with each other...7 yrs in nothing...being practical is good but not feeling emotions of your loved ones is the biggest failure in any relationship.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: survika1111

Dev U Have No right To Be hurt,,Dev u have No Right to be jealous..U have no right to Be possessive..U have No right To Ask Any question sonakshi..U have No right To Stalk Jatin-Sona..U Have no right to cry..u have no right To Burst Out..U Have No Rght To Be Mad..In short u have No right To LOVE..U Have No right To have a Heart..

Sonakshi U have No right To interfr In Dev's family matter..u have No right To think About dev..U have no right to care about dev and his family..U have no right Hide anything from Dev..U have no right To Cry with Dev's pic..U have no right to be sorry For hurting him.In short u too have no right To love..U too have no Right to have a heart

This world is Cruel Dev..They only see The Outer Rudeness..No one can See the inner Storm..Ppl Can say u are hurting Her..they can't see Ur hurt..There is No place for love my dear..there is all about Rights..There Is all about manners..All about Logic..If U have Separted some One from ur life u have no right to love her..Here people believes In "OUT OF SIGHT..OUT MIND" She has Gone away from ur sight ..so u have no right to Hold her thoughts in ur Mind..U can't show the world Ur broken inside cause the world only see What u r breaking..People will raise ur finger On u with Lots of accusation But i doubt Anyone will give u hand When ur down..World will Blame u for Uncountable Mistakes but i doubt they will Even ask about u even Ur dying in pain.. This world is so cruel Dev It only Knows How to hate..It is wearing a glass of darkness..It can't see The Love..It is too blind To Come in To the light..This world Only know thE language Of hatred..it will Hate u till u die..If u try to show ur love the will call u fake..if u Try to Shed ur tears they will call u fake..cause the problem is Ur not fake..the world is fake..Litraly Fake..It's a stage..u just need to act here..real emotions has No place ..Be fake Dev..Be Fake..that's what the world deserve..


The world is so cruel Sonkashi..It can onlY see it'S own Benefit..No one is here to Take a Step For others..Worl will only think about It's betterment first and if anything is risy for It ..It will Run away..The world is coward..It can't see That any Person is doing sth for others..it Disturbs them..it changes The so called defination of some particular Terms whic is unbearable by The world..The world and it's People has made their own Rules twowards realtionships..U can't think about other .U just need to think about ur self..u have no right to fight Others battle..u have no right to wish other's good..cause that's a foolishness according to this mean world.u need to be selfish..than u can live here peacefully..u'll get many here who will talk with higher tonea bout right and wrongs..1 but when the time will come to stand for that u'll found the sitting in corner by Ckosing their eyes ..cause they think if their eyes r close Other will Not be able to see Them..They Doesn't believe Love can be selfless..they beleive love comes with term and conditions..They don't know DISTANCE CAN MAKE LOVE STRONGER..they Only know If I M at risk I should Cut my way off..U just Need to be selfish Here..so be selfish..

U don't have right to love,u don't have right to live If ur not fake or ur not selfless..if u want to live without facing any question the follow The world's So called rules..Which has been made by a bunch of stupid people who themselves sometimes gt stuck In them..Be careful all..This world Is all about hatred..so learn to hate people If u want to Love Urself only..




The one in bold nails it all .. there are no terms and conditions in Love... feel sad for ppl who think otherwise in real life,

all of us are flawed, and love is all about accepting the flaws of the person..

yesterday scene has a high notch of frustration on DEV side and what impressed me is Sona understanding him..

They both some where know that in process of co-parenting they have come closure again. Previous flirting was there when they were still separated, now both feel other person is there for them.
Both treat the other's family as there own..The line of separation is being erased slowly.

But still he has no right to Q her.. so he was frustrated ...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: purva

Wow.. a topic created solely to bash forum member's opinions.. calling them disgusting, calculative.. questioning their intelligence. Great job 👏 keep it up guys 👍🏼 Now I hope speaking about fans and their opinions won't be such a big deal anymore 😃


PREACH👏 and couldn't agree more :)
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: survika1111


Yeah love is about doing a sacrifice and not being lobey dovey.. That's the way they are.. He was not raising finger in her character.. He knows how she is.. Any person whoove a girl like crazy can bhv like insane if they see her with some other.. Every person react differently.. If sona was in his place she would feel the same but she would react in some other way.. This us really wrong to blame someone just because he is out of is control..not bcz he is bad person.. But he is shattered.. I do not know hiw much u have analyst tess characters. But as much i have unterstood dev is a person with extreme emotion.. Whi will always react extreme in every situation.. And tgese kind a people exists.. Whatever dev said was rude.. But he surely didn't mean thT sona is charaterless. Even sona understands the fact.. She knew he is hurt so his behavior is like this.. This is reality.. We talk so many offensive things ti our loved ones may that os lover husband family or kid whn we r in anger.. Bur do we really mean all that.. No!! Same is here.. If i wrre at sona's place i would feel bad too.. But at the same time i would definitely understand why this outburst is. Just the way she understood


EXACTLY!!! I mean we should see the person's broken heart when they use love as an excuse to throw acid on an ex girlfriend. Its all love na? Toh it should be immediately forgiven, chahe jaan hi kyu na chali jaye!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sharica

Very nice post dear...

Yesterday's outburst was required for story progress further...

I can relate to Dev when he was saying all those things because I am a kind of person with extreme reactions...In 6 yrs of my married life, i think twice in my anger I have said such things that I never meant to say...It was that I was hurt to an extent that I had to vent it out...but my hubby didn't left me...he said he knows what I am and that I was extremely hurt (reasons were obviously different than Devakshi)But what I mean to say is you actually hurt the person you love and consider them as your own...He forgave me, is he a doormat or spineless???He loves me hence he understood where I am coming from..he knows I am a short tempered person and in anger wil say anything...he has accepted me with that flaw...

Devakshi will very soon learn that and accept each other and this time like never before...

I have seen today's children saying mean things to their parents but parents still forgive them...does that mean our parents are all the names that we are giving to Sona and Dev??

2 people madly in love can wait their entire life to get back with each other...7 yrs in nothing...being practical is good but not feeling emotions of your loved ones is the biggest failure in any relationship.


Exactly Being practical is great..i think i am more practical person than enotional..But when it;s about someone i love..I put my practicality aside..I hurt persoms who, i love and got hurt back by themselves but it doesn't mean i wil hold grudge forever for those words delivered in anger..Or they don't forgive me..

7 ears is actually nothing ..Lifetime is less for waiting if u love someone truely..Not only drama tis all happened but in real life there are are plenty of examples of that..

Thank you so Much dear
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Posted: 8 years ago
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See the thing is, there aren't terms and conditions in love and we agree with that. The problem here isn't that, its the fact that only love will never last unless it is backed by mutual respect and understanding, which none of them have anyway. Continue justifying the irredeemable character that only disgraces indian mentality. I honestly don't know why I waste time over this place. I still don't understand how anyone can even speak a word in Dev's favour now.

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