Originally posted by: randomramblings
sorry i totally disagree here. Asha is the most matured character. no one is asking sona to forgive dev or forgive ishwari. she has a right to express her opinion and she is entitled to it. at the same time she has no right what so ever to demean dev, comparing him to bijoy as a benchmark .
coming straight to the point, is sona wife of bijoy to decide him as a benchmark for husbands goals? the answer is NO
asha is his wife, only she has the right to state what kind of a husband bijoy is to her.
all that Cv's tried to show was, for sona bijoy is a benchmark for husbands goals because she felt her baba is the worlds best husband while conveniently ignoring the fact that asha might not feel the same about him .
today asha showed a mirror to sona. you cannot decide for the relationships that you dont own.
she might use bijoy as bench mark for being a good baba to herself, but she cannot measure dev using him as a yardstick in the role of soha's dad because for soha her measuring stick may be different.