Mother's need no spectacles

Yes the title was One of Ishwari's dialogues (guess where? [;)] )
""Mothers do need specs to put a thread into a needle if they become old but they never need specs to see their children's face & understand that something is troubling them-""

Yesterday I was taken aback when Ishwari clearly sees through dev's facade. .
Yes dev babu -u can fool around everyone (including urself) saying "suhana ke liye-sirf suhana ke liye" but not Ishwari.
She knew how his son never ever (couldn't)get over of Sonakshi.
For the past 7 years dev emotionally cut off relations with every dixits but lived merely with the memories of Sonakshi. .

Ishwari's words "for the last 7 yrs u r having relationship only with Sonakshi though it is the relationship of hatred" & her words frm yesterday "when did u wipe Sonakshi's memories ?..u r living with it "..

U guys will disagree but somewhere I suspect that more than insecurity Ishwari is now afraid of dev getting hope and getting hurt in the end.Because she from the first thinks Sonakshi can't remain or handle a relationship. When they parted Ishwari's belief in her own belief became strong. The irony is till now she denies the fact that she has a major hand in their separation.
(When dev asked her "tumahri shikayat kya hai? Sona unable to manage the relationship or she hasn't die in the process? ..
Iswari answered to that "how could u blame only me in all these?")

ASHA -the mother. .
Asha too like Ishwari thoroughly knows her sona's soft corner on suhana's father converted into admiration but the difference between her &ishu maa is -Asha is happy if sona is happy with dev .
As she is not having extra baggage of insecurity-terrible past she trusts her daughter with dev and ok with their decision whatever it will be..

SONA- the mother
For every mother their every child is the tiny form of their partner.
Every now and then they remind them."bilkul apne papa ki tara"
"Papa pe gaye hai" are the very common dialogues of every house. *sometimes in pride sometimes with irritation [LOL] )

But these lines are the life strings that help sona to pass the past 7yrs. Soha is dev for her -her love -her life..
So when soha accepted dev she also kind of accepted him.she is impressed by the love her daughter is getting now -which once she used to get (and which one she deprived for 7yrs [:^(] ) from dev..
She clearly knows what soha wishes now - her mummy papa together - but sona is hell confused how to explain her girl that it is impossible because she is not gkb type. She doesn't want to badmouth abt her dad or his family. I literally rolled my eyes (like dev [;)] ) when she gave icecream examples..

P.s.. Ishwari , dev, sona, bijoy, gkb, her red [:x] all r responsible in the separation of the inseparable pure souls devakshi. But only dev &sona are accepting their faults (dev to Ishwari and soha ) (sona to jatin) but the elders when will they realize? ? [:s]

Lovely lovely post. Made me very emotional. Excellent

Originally posted by: rahul74

Lovely lovely post. Made me very emotional. Excellent

Thank u soo much 😊

Originally posted by: cscs

Agreed.

Somehow yesterday i felt its not only insecurity but fear that Dev will get hurt again. Ishwari has always seen Dev broken, when Sonakshi left him. N according to Ishwari Sonakshi is the problem of all the miseriesof Dev. Bcz before her existence her son was "happy". She never understood their love and specially what Sona meant to Dev.

Asha has always been the first one to understand Sonakshi's needs. Even after breakup she wanted to give time to Sona and she was the only one who made her accept Dev's love as it is. n yesterday was no exception.

Loved your post.

Well said 👏 👏 Ishwari knows her son in and out but in Sona's matter only she is in the denial mood.she understood dev's deep love but she thought her son fall in love with the wrong person who in return didn't love her son that much.
When Ishwari understood the true love of sona and her struggles she can relate to her point of view..long way to go..

Awesome post.

Yesterday I was taken aback when Ishwari clearly sees through dev's facade. .
Yes dev babu -u can fool around everyone (including urself) saying "suhana ke liye-sirf suhana ke liye" but not Ishwari.
She knew how his son never ever (couldn't)get over of Sonakshi.
For the past 7 years dev emotionally cut off relations with every dixits but lived merely with the memories of Sonakshi. .

I full agree Ishwari at this point, she can understand Dev, but I could not understand why she does not want Sona in his life. If has a mother or Ishwari, Sonakshi's entry in Dev's life hurt's Dev, disagreeing Sona in Dev's life is correct. I cannot understand her POV for not disagreeing Sona, is it insecurity, not fit for Dev, come to grab money, hiding /not sharing any decisions what Dev-Sona are deciding, moving towards Bose family.

Originally posted by: Cspcheziyan

Yes the title was One of Ishwari's dialogues (guess where? 😉 )
""Mothers do need specs to put a thread into a needle if they become old but they never need specs to see their children's face & understand that something is troubling them-""

Yesterday I was taken aback when Ishwari clearly sees through dev's facade. .
Yes dev babu -u can fool around everyone (including urself) saying "suhana ke liye-sirf suhana ke liye" but not Ishwari.
She knew how his son never ever (couldn't)get over of Sonakshi.
For the past 7 years dev emotionally cut off relations with every dixits but lived merely with the memories of Sonakshi. .

Ishwari's words "for the last 7 yrs u r having relationship only with Sonakshi though it is the relationship of hatred" & her words frm yesterday "when did u wipe Sonakshi's memories ?..u r living with it "..

U guys will disagree but somewhere I suspect that more than insecurity Ishwari is now afraid of dev getting hope and getting hurt in the end.Because she from the first thinks Sonakshi can't remain or handle a relationship. When they parted Ishwari's belief in her own belief became strong. The irony is till now she denies the fact that she has a major hand in their separation.
(When dev asked her "tumahri shikayat kya hai? Sona unable to manage the relationship or she hasn't die in the process? ..
Iswari answered to that "how could u blame only me in all these?")

ASHA -the mother. .
Asha too like Ishwari thoroughly knows her sona's soft corner on suhana's father converted into admiration but the difference between her &ishu maa is -Asha is happy if sona is happy with dev .
As she is not having extra baggage of insecurity-terrible past she trusts her daughter with dev and ok with their decision whatever it will be..

SONA- the mother
For every mother their every child is the tiny form of their partner.
Every now and then they remind them."bilkul apne papa ki tara"
"Papa pe gaye hai" are the very common dialogues of every house. *sometimes in pride sometimes with irritation 😆 )

But these lines are the life strings that help sona to pass the past 7yrs. Soha is dev for her -her love -her life..
So when soha accepted dev she also kind of accepted him.she is impressed by the love her daughter is getting now -which once she used to get (and which one she deprived for 7yrs 😭 ) from dev..
She clearly knows what soha wishes now - her mummy papa together - but sona is hell confused how to explain her girl that it is impossible because she is not gkb type. She doesn't want to badmouth abt her dad or his family. I literally rolled my eyes (like dev 😉 ) when she gave icecream examples..

P.s.. Ishwari , dev, sona, bijoy, gkb, her red 😡 all r responsible in the separation of the inseparable pure souls devakshi. But only dev &sona are accepting their faults (dev to Ishwari and soha ) (sona to jatin) but the elders when will they realize? ? 😕

Originally posted by: grace4317

<font size="2">Cspcheziyan...how beautifully have you expressed each mother's emotion here, especially that of Ishwari...after yesterday's episode I (who used to understand Ishwari to some extent) also started thinking what was really Ishwari's problem...she was ready to get Dev married to another girl; but then why is she now still against Sona, especially after knowing about Soha. Also, earlier her insecurities was related to the financial part too; Now with Sona also handling her own business, what else could be the reason?...And here comes your post...your bolded words gave me the answer...Yes, she knows Dev hasn't moved on from Sona at all and so she doesn't want to see her son suffer again...And to add to it, GXBs brainwashing & her insecurities herself have their own contributions to her thoughts.</font>

Superb comment yaar 👏 👏
I am very happy that my post somehow cleared ur some doubts.
And thank u so much for ur genuine appreciation. .

Originally posted by: chemgirl

Awesome post.

I really don't understand Ishwari...despite being a woman, mother and that too mother to 3 girls , she never understands Sona...She wants her son and granddaughter but very conveniently doesn't want Suhana's mother...that was very clear yesterday...also she knows when Dev is in pain but cannot realize that she herself is responsible for the pain and not Sona alone.

Asha on the other hand understands Sona better than she herself does...she knows that Sona is melting...Dev's love for Suhana is resulting in a soft corner for Dev in Sona' s heart...after all it was Dev's love for his family that Sona fell in love with in the first place...Asha wants Sona to realize what is happening but no matter what her decision is she will accept it.

Thank u for ur beautiful reply 👏
Yes Ishwari cannot understand sona because she didn't even try itto
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