Sona 's guarrenty papers was on ishwari!!!

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Posted: 8 years ago

#11

Knowing the Dixits and to wat lengths they can go for their selfish reasons, Sona asking Dev for guarantee is sad but understandable. I just hoped Sona wud hv told Dev in details about Ishwari's threats (sood-asal crap) and her reasons for this agreement wat she told Asha. She knows Ish will do any manipulations to get wat she wants.

She was angry with Dev's actions on entering Soha's room thru window so she didn't want to give him any justifications.

If Soha ever makes a decision tht she wants to live with Dev n family, Sona wud not stop her. This document limits Dev n Dixits actions but if Sona herself agrees bcoz of Soha then these docs doesn't even come in the picture.

Edited by randommusings - 8 years ago

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shailu

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Posted: 8 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: sowiee

See I m not supporting ishwari.. but wanted to say that yup u guys are taking age factor of Dev n Soha for comparison...

But ishwari couldn't risk her children life security she did that.. ishwari knows that whatever Sona say Dev will do... According to ishwari Sona has more influence on him ... She was afraid so she did that ??? Was that right ????..

See I don't consider Soha as a 6 year kid n Dev as a 27 year man in this matter.

Because Soha was new to this parenthood life so as Dev was new to that love life... Both were taking baby steps.. they are dependent on others for this steps...

And both the mothers took the help of paper works rather than persons belief..

Secondly, Sona knows that Soha is her daughter she can't oppose he mother's wish. Still because of her fear she did this.. she had a doubt on her daughter somewhere that what of Soha chose Dev over her ... So she did this...

Same here even ishwari was afraid that what of Dev chose Sona rather than her. She did that ..

I m not satisfied with what both the mothers did...

Ish prenup was tricky thing signing was done for property.

Ish mistook sona would claim property so she tricked dev to sign later sona did the same .

Ish did what she felt was right she did for her kids but here sona is fighting for the kid not property it's a way different thing she wants to put a speed breaker to ishwari so that the psycho won't snatch the kid manupilating the kid whose is just 6 and dev can never go against his mom knowing that sona put a restriction Oder to be in control of the situation because she doesn't want soha to be confused and hurt in the end she is infact doing it for soha more than anything by doing so dev will in guard seeing to that soha is good and he will see the real face of ish and then we might see dev in a different avtar all together infact sona will help dev to be a better father who fights for his rights that to from ish whom he blindly follows

Edited by rockstar.sj - 8 years ago

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shailu

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Posted: 8 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: randommusings
Knowing the Dixits and to wat lengths they can go for their selfish reasons, Sona asking Dev for guarantee is sad but understandable. I just hoped Sona wud hv told Dev in details about Ishwari's threats (sood-asal crap) and her reasons for this agreement wat she told Asha. She knows Ish will do any manipulations to get wat she wants.

She was angry with Dev's actions on entering Soha's room thru window so she didn't want to give him any justifications.

If Soha ever makes a decision tht she wants to live with Dev n family, Sona wud not stop her. This document limits Dev n Dixits actions but if Sona herself agrees bcoz of Soha then these docs doesn't even come in the picture.

Do u think dev would get it if sona would have revealed what ish said the other day .

Dev is ignorant to such words which involves ish the way he treated his mom after knowing what she did 7 yrs back we all expected him to fight but he is the same so this document will help him fight for his rights in future .

Sona did the best thing in life dev like ppl deserves such papers to control his psycho mom

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shailu

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Posted: 8 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: Shaavi

My question is not about SOnakshi knowing the DIxits. It is about SOnakshi knowign her own daughter Soha. Why does Sonakshi not trust her own daughter. If she says that her daughter knows right from wonrg and takes her own decision, why is she not loetting her daighter make the decision when the time comes. Why is she taking that independence out of her. Does Sonakshi fear that Suhana will love Dev more than her.

If so how is Sonakshi's fear any different than Ishwari's. Today what Sonakshi did is the same thing what Ishwari did 7 years ago. Both the mom's did not trust their kids and blamed a third person for it.

And yes, it is going to bite Sonakshi in the back when Soha does love Dev and call him "paapa" and say I want to live with dad or that dad is a good person and i trust him.

Sona trust soha very much but ishwari is way dangerous who can emotionally blackmail and create situations that fear is on sona because she lost dev because of ishwari she trusted dev but situations turned 360 degrees that's the reason .

Soha knows Bose family are insecured and she won't hurt them .

Situations are making sona nervous not soha .

Trust me soha won't even ditch her mom she might say papa to dev when he starts respecting sona understanding sona and dev will not allow sona to fall infact soha will unite both and strong bond will be formed .

Even if soha wants to be with dev sona won't mind because she wants soha happiness she is nowhere near ish if she was like her these meetings would have been easy she would have banned it completely

In this process dev will learn more of sona than soha

Edited by rockstar.sj - 8 years ago

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Hari73

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Posted: 8 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: sowiee
Yes sona' s hand was on ishwari..
Same as ishwari ' hand on Sona in prenuptial...

So according to ur saying prenuptial was even a goodove by ishwari...

Because according to ishwari Dev then was acting according to Sona ... Ishwari even knows that Dev will accept everything of Sona... So she did prenuptial...

So tell me was prenuptial is great ???

Because only through this gaurantee Sona can keep power on her daughter as prenuptial is the only agreement which can keep ishwari n her daughter's power on their assets...

Here scenario is different. Dev and sona separated. Dixits should be greatful sona allowing soha to meet them. If I was in sona's place, I would not even allow them to see. Dixits are utter selfish, self centered people. They don't value others feeling. According to me these agreement are just paper which has no value. Dixits does not deserve happiness.

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shailu

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Posted: 8 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: Pramila.harish

Here scenario is different. Dev and sona separated. Dixits should be greatful sona allowing soha to meet them. If I was in sona's place, I would not even allow them to see. Dixits are utter selfish, self centered people. They don't value others feeling. According to me these agreement are just paper which has no value. Dixits does not deserve happiness.

There is no comparison between ish and sona .

Sona is sensible and awesome mother who puts kids wish at front seat

Ish is foolish psycho manupilative and cunning fox who puts forth her wish first before others .

It's always herself she wanted a money bank for kids that's dev so checked off sona but sona will never do so infact she controlled the situation which will not allow ish to poke her nose this time

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Priya

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Posted: 8 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: sowiee
Yes sona' s hand was on ishwari..
Same as ishwari ' hand on Sona in prenuptial...

So according to ur saying prenuptial was even a goodove by ishwari...

Because according to ishwari Dev then was acting according to Sona ... Ishwari even knows that Dev will accept everything of Sona... So she did prenuptial...

So tell me was prenuptial is great ???

Because only through this gaurantee Sona can keep power on her daughter as prenuptial is the only agreement which can keep ishwari n her daughter's power on their assets...

The prenup and this paper are completely different things.

1) the prenup's objective was to protect property and assets. This guarantee, on the other hand, has the objective of protecting a child from people Sona knows for a fact have the ability to go to any extreme to achieve their motives.

2) Ishwari's decision on getting the prenup made was not really based on any action of Sonakshi which made her feel she's just marrying Dev for money. In fact it was because of Ishwari's baseless insecurities that Dev will choose to listen to Sonakshi over herself.

On the other hand, Sonakshi's guarantee paper was based on her personal experience she had with the Dixits as well as Dev's inability to keep his promises if it interferes with obeying his mother and fulfilling her wishes. She knows Ishwari's talent of emotional blackmail and also knows how Dev can do anything for his mother after some long speech full of analogies and in this case could probably decide to force his right on Soha because his mother wants it. We have even seen Dev doing this by sneaking into Soha's room and sneak her out of the room without permission. We all know that if Ishwari hadn't asked him to bring Soha home ASAP Dev would've given Soha enough time to adjust and understand everything going on around her before asking her to go to Dixits house.

Maybe the situation could've been dealt with a little better by Sona but I still think her decision is understandable and is not baseless.

Edited by Dystopia - 8 years ago