Mar 03 Epi: Trust Issues Yet Again

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@CXYZ

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Posted: 8 years ago

Hi friends,

Here's my take on the March 03 episode ...

Mar 03 Epi: Trust Issues Yet Again

cheers!

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dhank

@dhank

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Posted: 8 years ago

good analysis as usual...👏

here s my take ...I titled it acchaa baaap?????

I always hated this word widely used in our films,tv ACHHA beta, bahu etc...u r just beta bahu, bhai thats it... what is d defn of achha ??? it varies 4m person to person what is achha 4 1 may b not so accha for other..

coming 2 our show ishuworry is not so acchi maa IMO...not only she ruined devs life but she differentiated among her own daughters...now I feel dev sisters r more unfortunate than him..deprived of both mom n dads love..or should I say lucky???😆coz ishwroys is not love but selfish obsession IMO..

bijoy might b accha father 4 sona but 4 sourav no...he mocks him att..sometimes I feel ishu is better than bijoy she ignored her daughters but never her belittled or mocked them..ignorance is better than insult..isnt it??

BIJOY IS GOOD 4 SONA EVEN???HE CANT C HER DAUGHTER IS UNHAPPY JUST LIKE ISH🤔

a dad has to prove his daughter that he is good whats more worse than this??dev u dont deserve this

u deserve happiness ..free advice to dev..better stay @ farm house marry or no marry...if yes marry a calm girl like Natasha may b...(u can prod kids😉) so have ur own family live in peace..away 4m dixits n boses..coz soha doesnt need u she is happy in so called perfect bose family..

I m sure whenever suhana needs u... u will b there,,n will never differentiate bw ur other kids n her...like ur mother..

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@ND26

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Posted: 8 years ago

Perfect 👏

Exploring every character's feelings & actions, seeking answers to their inconsistent behavior so well, Fab 👏

Love your method of analysis that you explained, the result is 👍🏼

Thanks for your persistence and consistently balanced and rational analysis 🤗

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@CXYZ

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Posted: 8 years ago

Thank you dear, appreciate your kind words 🤗

Originally posted by: ND26
Perfect 👏
Exploring every character's feelings & actions, seeking answers to their inconsistent behavior so well, Fab 👏

Love your method of analysis that you explained, the result is 👍🏼

Thanks for your persistence and consistently balanced and rational analysis 🤗

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Divya5377

@Divya5377

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Posted: 8 years ago

I read your article word by word.Here is my take,i'm not herr to go against what you said but just my thoughts

Sona - She never picks up argument or fight to begin with,she is a very sensible and strong character i have seen.Take the scene where Dev made her go-around places,she tried to be clam her objective is always leading Soha's happiness,that is a true mother had it been ish this would have never happen.Next day scene of passport office,what are you up to Dev she made it very cleae that she wont stop you but take it slow since it should not impact Soha,he blasted Sona..no practical human would take it unless she is Mahan and made it very clear to Dev that he cannot snatch Soha and handle it slowly/calmly.Her intentions are good,clear and honest.Take yest scene,Dev is aware that Sona had no wrong intentions,it should be clear by the way Soha told that my mom wants me to spend time with you,you are angry i get it..you are angry with whole situation but is it right to blame Sona?I'm very happy that Sona retorted back else he will take her for granted.

Dev - I should say he lost it,telling kid to sneak and meet het Grandma...Sona very clearly mentioned to take it slow..I'm sure this attitude is going to back fire him badly..i want to see it...i dont want to share my thoughts about him..for me he has lost it totally

Ish - she is a very insecured,cunning and selfish mother i have ever seen.No words for her,can share my thoughts when i have time

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Sky21

@Sky21

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Posted: 8 years ago

I am surprised you didn't say Dev also could have called Sona or tried to contact her to find out how she was doing, he knew her family was homeless. Instead Sona is being accused again and again for not trying to inform Dev AGAIN. She did her best but was asked to get out and never return. She did no wrong according to me.

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hanishank

@hanishank

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Sky21
I am surprised you didn't say Dev also could have called Sona or tried to contact her to find out how she was doing, he knew her family was homeless. Instead Sona is being accused again and again for not trying to inform Dev AGAIN. She did her best but was asked to get out and never return. She did no wrong according to me.

even i got this doubt...

atleast Sona tried once to reach Dev...but Dev never...then how come the whole blame goes to Sona???

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@ND26

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Posted: 8 years ago

There's a very fundamental flaw here - Sona did not look up Dev to enquire about his well being or to sort out their issues. So why this expectation from Dev? Both of them had parted on bitter terms & did not contact each other for the next 1.5yrs.

Sona went to the Dixit house aftwr 1.5 yrs only because of the baby.

So how does that make her better than Dev?

As regards Sona's attempt to contact the Dixits, while the intention was good it almost seemed half-baked as she didn't convey any specific message about the existence of little Suhana. For someone who used to be so good at knowing how to communicate effectively & clearly and who knew there were the likes of GKB/Vicky in that house, that intercom call was hardly proof that it was indeed Dev who had refused to meet her.

Originally posted by: hanishank

even i got this doubt...
atleast Sona tried once to reach Dev...but Dev never...then how come the whole blame goes to Sona???

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sia.krpkab

@sia.krpkab

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Posted: 8 years ago

I agree to the fundamental flaw - yes there is a fundamental flaw in Dev's brain - selfishness! Period.
Sona and her family were homeless! Any person with even an iota of consideration should be running from pillar to post to help his known ones.. this was his wife and her family.
Plus he and his family turned her away!
What makes you think that she would go there to ask about his whereabouts? Wasn't that a big thing that she went to him with the baby.. sure, the question Soha asked could have been the other way round too which would have turned Sona speechless - Why didnt Sona call Dev to let him know about Soha?
But then at least Sona tried.. the bigger point is that even after Dev knows the whole truth (including his mother turning away Sona), has his attitude changed? Zilch! Going from bad to worse.

I am Anti-Dev and waiting for if I can ever become Pro-Dev again.

Originally posted by: ND26

There's a very fundamental flaw here - Sona did not look up Dev to enquire about his well being or to sort out their issues. So why this expectation from Dev? Both of them had parted on bitter terms & did not contact each other for the next 1.5yrs.
Sona went to the Dixit house aftwr 1.5 yrs only because of the baby.
So how does that make her better than Dev?
As regards Sona's attempt to contact the Dixits, while the intention was good it almost seemed half-baked as she didn't convey any specific message about the existence of little Suhana. For someone who used to be so good at knowing how to communicate effectively & clearly and who knew there were the likes of GKB/Vicky in that house, that intercom call was hardly proof that it was indeed Dev who had refused to meet her.

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Enlightened21

@Enlightened21

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Posted: 8 years ago

#10

Hi Suchi...I am a regular reader of ur posts. And let me tell you...Though you give an episode-wise analysis, You very well articulate the feelings of each character, unbiased...I was really amazed by the below part/lines you have written in some of your recent posts.

Feb 28 KRPKAB Epi: Soha-licious!

Your Side note on Dev-Ish-Sona relationship and your quote, 'You Will Never Truly Understand Something Until It Actually Happens To You', which is what the makers are trying to show now through season 2.

Mar 01 KRPKAB Epi: A Case of Mistrust & Distrust

Your Right & Wrong analysis on Dev-Sona scene, Your portray of Sona's emotional turmoil and your take on 'what was happening between Dev & Sona was a case of Mistrust or Distrust?'. As you have explained, Mistrust is a 50-50 feeling & Distrust is 100% sure feeling. I think, for Dev it's more of a mistrust which arises from his bitterness that Sona never tried to fight for him & stand by him, as she had promised to him on various occasions. And as he doesn't want to go through the pain again, he choose to mistrust Sona. Whereas, in Sona's case it's more of a distrust, as she still believes that what all had happened on that fateful day was all because of Dev which she now and then reiterates by calling him a bad husband.

Mar 02 KRPKAB Epi: It's All About the RIGHT Approach

Your quote,Our Real Strength Lies Not In Independence, But In Interdependence... To Ask For Help Is Not A Sign Of Weakness, It Is A Sign Of Wisdom'...which was quoted by Dev Babu on next day's episode...😊

And your Statement, For some parents, they simply consider it to be their duty, their responsibility and in some cases, their inherent birthright to do so. A 200% true statement, which i am experiencing through my father and my MIL. I am mother to a 16-yr old teenage boy and still now my father will not allow me to go alone or even with my son or sister, to the town, until i make a big hungama on it...😡 Similarly, whenever we have a celebration and my hubby happens to join our guests having food, my MIL will be behind him, ye le lo, vo le lo bolke, which makes him embarrassed. He scolds her everytime for it; but next time also she repeats it...😆. As, you said, they feel it's their birthright to behave so.

Mar 03 KRPKAB Epi: Trust Issues Yet Again

A Bang on Analysis on each scene as usual, especially the detailed look on Dev-Ish was like cherry on the cake.

Finally the quote on Ishwari. And I believe as the story progresses we will come to know that Ishwari's actions should be viewed as a mistake, as there should be some reason that made her to be such an insecure & obsessive mother.

Edited by grace4317 - 8 years ago

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