Dev's confrontation with ishwari

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Posted: 8 years ago
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The flashback yday throws some light on Dev;s current behaviour. But somehow, while his blaming Ishwari for his current state was right,he also blamed Sona for leaving him. How could he not remember that he himself first asked sona to leave him. Sona was evicted from her house. In fact to be fair to sona, she did try to call dev when vicky landed up at her house. She dint believe dev could do such a thing. But vicky's manipulations got the better of her.And ofcourse another shock awaited her, when she finally reached dev. The prenup agreement that dev had signed. How was she to know that Dev had signed the papers without reading them, that he had no knowledge of what was in them ? The papers clearly showed her that dev haf never trusted her and thought she was after her money. What else wud u expect a independent, self-respecting woman to do in such circumstances? To me, she had no choice but to leave him, for her self respect and honor.
And Dev he conveniently forgets everything. Forgets mistakes he committed. Forgets how hard sona tried to gel with his family . No Mr Dev Dixit, someone needs to show you the mirror. Elena could have done it.

In fact, along with Ishwari, he himself is also equally responsible. What Sona said was absolutely bang on. He really acted in a spineless way where his wife was concerned. Innumerable occassions he watched silently as sona was subjected to taunts and insulted by GKB. All the lies and deceptions he told to keep his mom happy, the blame was squarely put on sona by ishwari. He forgot his own promises to sona. Sona had trusted him again after their first breakup. The first breakup happened also becoz of ishwari, and again the same thing happened. ishwari's self pitying attitude , her playing the victim always where dev sona were concerned, its still not over. She is still the same.Her son is never to balme, always its sonakshi.

If one thinks from sona's pov, she showed a lot of patience. She really tried to make ishwari happy. When did she ever ask dev to choose between herself & his mom? In fact she always accepted to him that for him, his mom wud always cum before her.
But dev with his myopic view and selective memory does not remember this.
Wonder if cvs plan to show any redemption or self realisation for dev? As also for ishwari ?



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Posted: 8 years ago
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We need to actually wait and see what all's gonna happen further... DevAkshi had a lot of expectations from each other... But those were not fulfilled and they got separated, they are still iving with that wound and pain... When ever a confrontation on this will happen, it's gonna be hell emotional and interesting.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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before signing prenup dev said that he wants to leave with her and he asked vicky to throw these papers why didnt sona listen then??
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Well said sona never forced dev to chose between wife and mother in fact sona always try to balance things she tried to adjust no matter ishwari did she just tried to ease out .
It was ishwari who went on obsessed with dev mere beta types and ishwari just a manipulative selfish old lady who only wanted dev to fulfill his duty never thought about his wish only she did was throw responsibility on dev .

Ishwari never wanted a wife for dev not only sona no other girl would make ishwari happy she wanted dev be alone with her as if dev was toy.
What dev said to her was true she never understood him .
Sona was not wrong she balanced between her parents and in laws family when her dad was insulted she tried to uphold his dignity by repaying dixits the money they invested on sourab company but ishwari twisted everything to make sona bad in the eyes of dev gkb added fuel .

Dev was stuck with the situation he only wanted his mom to be happy in frustration he fought and ishwari just asked sona to go separate with dev but sona who knew ishwari never excepted her as bahu and even infertility added to her grief thought ishwari took this advantage and wanted to rift devakshi but dev came midway and just fought but ishwari instead of clearing the doubts of sona let sona walk away it was Nikki and mamaji who tried to mend things but mom and son didn't care .
How can dev blame he knows what ishwari has done couldn't even balance and prenup added to rift further .

Sona only tried to bridge a gap who treated ishwari as her own mom it's ishwari who never understood her now also she blames sona for rift between son and mom .

One good thing dev did was right he kept a gap with his mom that's the best decision he made .
Sona did one blunder when dev said he chose to live with her she could have patiently heard him but sona was already stuffed with many things like she and parents became homeless and prenup added the fuel to her burnt house .

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