Take tips from each other

Asha: Take tips from Ishwari , no matter what, she does understand her kids and their breaking point .😉

Sona :Take tips from Ria/Nikki , nobody better than them can be your allies next time when u plan something special for u two , remember the resort night 😳!!!

Ishwari : Look at Neha n and what your daughter's life has become and put Sonakshi in her shoes and think about it once .

Neha: Sona is beyond her comprehension as she fails to understand how Sona can be happy about sharing her husband with his family , but if she ever able to figure out Sona , she could take tips from her . Likewise Sona could learn one or two things from Neha , if you chose to be a giver always , it would bring nothing but bitterness at later point in your life , sometimes you need to stand up for yourself and if it is about handling these son-mother duo its better to be vocal about your thoughts if you want them to pay attention towards you !!!

Dev: I dont even want to talk about how you could not tell your family to wait till your wife comes for the celebration but let me give you a tip ,if you really want both women in your life be happy, please stop hiding things. If you really feel lucky and proud (I am not even saying HOW LUCKY YOU ARE ) , let your family (especially your mother) know , what Sona think about them , and the sacrifices Sona made from the day she entered in your life - All the efforts she made to fit in your family be its trying to learn cooking , or your family customs , or letting go off her childhood dream of a simple furniture , or her lifetime dream of travelling around the world and still didn't make any fuzz about it . For once I want you to be vocal about it in front of your family not in your bedroom!

A Happy thanksgiving to all , those who are in US enjoy your shopping on black Friday 😆

Problem wid dev is he voices his love for his mother alwaz n let everyone know ..but love gor sona is restricted to him n sona only ..it came out to fore on d engagement nyt so everyone saw ...rest it is alwaz subtle

Engagement night , he expressed influence of alchol...We all saw...next day itself...he was again mumma's boy...and denied to marry Sona.

I have been upset with both Dev n Sona for some time now. But yesterday's episode and the spoiler pictures of the cheek kiss got me thinking😆

Why is Sonakshi not behaving like a normal person when she is hurt? If she is angry she reacts. But whenever she is hurt she just recoils and nurses her wounds privately. What is pulling her back from showing Dev how much hurt she is by his actions.

Dev is sensitive about everyone in the family. He works tirelessly to provide them what they wants and also tries his best to make them happy even at the cost of his happiness. But he is very insensitive and inconsiderate when it comes to Sonakshi. Is it because he considers her a part of himself so expects her to do the same when it comes to his family? Is Sona's unwillingness to show him how hurt she is behind his in sensitiveness? How long can a person go on giving without getting anything in return? Dev was going on like that and he was Mr. Obodhro before he met Sona. What will make her see that she is doing the same as Dev and Neha . They did because of compulsion due to circumstances. But what is her compelling factor to follow the same?

This takes me back to one of Sam's analysis where she explained Sona's need for validation. Her pride in being perfect. Today I have to completely agree to that. She was driven to the point of lying to herself when she tried to prove to her father that she had indeed moved on from Dev, that she is her father's pride. She was trying to be the perfect girlfriend to Dev during the courtship period. And now she is trying to be the perfect wife too.

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This really makes me wonder if she believes that Dev loves only her perfection. She is scared that once he get to know her flaws he might leave her just like before. So the infertility reports that Dev hid from her might act as a trigger to break this illusion of hers. Dev have already idolized his mother. He is not after another. What he wants is a partner. And only if she comes out of this illusion can she become that partner for Dev and for any hope. Because Love is not an obligation, a duty or even a responsibility.

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