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I could not resist writing this after seeing today's episode. It was something that Dev spoke to Sona that touched me... and moved me to make this post. This is for newly married couples or those embarking on marriage or a relationship
What once was will soon be what was never to be if one is not watchful, alert and aware.
Dev used to miss Sona's "'tumi, tumi..and bengali banter. "" and for the first time felt irritated when she spoke in Bengali. He has begun to take Sona for granted and so what once was liked is no more liked. A lesson for many people who start off in love, get married... and then things begin to get sour.. if you begin to dislike something of your partner that you once liked.. it means something has gone wrong - with you, not your partner
There is a phrase in scripture that says - ""it is good to be angry, but do not let the sun go down on your anger'. When i was a young man, i never understood what it meant. During one of the counseling sessions, i was then taught that it was referring to living each day,one day at a time. If one is angry, before the day comes to a close, they have to deal with their anger and let it die. Deal with anger the way it needs to be dealt with. It is just an emotion of an individual to express but not a weapon to destroy things or people or relationships
i am pleading with those of you who have been in love, have got married and are still new into your marriage. Please do not take your partner for granted. Let the freshness of that first day always remain, all life long. Value the preciousness of moments, words, smiles, touch, tears, togetherness, absence, likes, dislikes.. . Live each day one day at a time.
Finally just as the serial has given food for thought, it also gives us solutions. The lyrics - "tu mujme, mujse zyaada hai".. is the solution to marital bliss. Your partner has to be the central focus of your life. No excuses.
I have been in a relationship with the same woman for over 38 years ( 4 years of courting and 34 years of marriage and counting). Has my marriage been an ideal one? heck no..there were many rough patches.. but i can say it is getting better with each day! 😊 We keep learning.. through whatever medium that come our way, including KRPKAB. 😊😊😊
GOD bless!
What once was will soon be what was never to be if one is not watchful, alert and aware.
Dev used to miss Sona's "'tumi, tumi..and bengali banter. "" and for the first time felt irritated when she spoke in Bengali. He has begun to take Sona for granted and so what once was liked is no more liked. A lesson for many people who start off in love, get married... and then things begin to get sour.. if you begin to dislike something of your partner that you once liked.. it means something has gone wrong - with you, not your partner
There is a phrase in scripture that says - ""it is good to be angry, but do not let the sun go down on your anger'. When i was a young man, i never understood what it meant. During one of the counseling sessions, i was then taught that it was referring to living each day,one day at a time. If one is angry, before the day comes to a close, they have to deal with their anger and let it die. Deal with anger the way it needs to be dealt with. It is just an emotion of an individual to express but not a weapon to destroy things or people or relationships
i am pleading with those of you who have been in love, have got married and are still new into your marriage. Please do not take your partner for granted. Let the freshness of that first day always remain, all life long. Value the preciousness of moments, words, smiles, touch, tears, togetherness, absence, likes, dislikes.. . Live each day one day at a time.
Finally just as the serial has given food for thought, it also gives us solutions. The lyrics - "tu mujme, mujse zyaada hai".. is the solution to marital bliss. Your partner has to be the central focus of your life. No excuses.
I have been in a relationship with the same woman for over 38 years ( 4 years of courting and 34 years of marriage and counting). Has my marriage been an ideal one? heck no..there were many rough patches.. but i can say it is getting better with each day! 😊 We keep learning.. through whatever medium that come our way, including KRPKAB. 😊😊😊
GOD bless!
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