Will a break up really help???

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yes seeing d current scenario these seems inevitable.Till now Sona has lost every change and initiative ie.Neha's case,Vicky's job ,Bose orientation class because of Dev and Ish and now also d jhoola.If d separation happens all d other tracks comes to a standsill.Even now Sona has not understood Ishwari's insecurities coz Ish is least worried right now coz Dev and she are a team.To see her reality Dev has to b in her team coz then only Ishu will go berserk.Sona till now has no problem with Ishu or the Dixit her main problem is Dev treating her as an outsider.For Dev to become a Man he needs Sona's help we very well know what he became during the last break up.The prenup is about Dev and Ishwari not about Sonakshi.Ishu doesn't trust her Son at all she very well knows Sona is self righteous and is not behind Dev's money.She doesn't trust Dev and that's d main problem for her insecurities(obsessision). The Cv's do d unexpected so this is my wild guess.And the jhoola will be brought back by Dev only 😃So separation can't solve any problem 😊
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JyotiBThakur thumbnail
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Its too early to predict about a breakup or separation as of now... There are many tracks going on simultaneously.
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Originally posted by: JyotiBThakur

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">Its too early to predict about a breakup or separation as of now... There are many tracks going on simultaneously.</font>

Yes, that's why I think to support this tracks d presence of Sona in Ishwari Niwas is very important.
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I personally doubt if he will bring the swing back to their room...he will never go against his mom. Remember he accepted her in his life is because his mom agreed ...so only the things approved by his mom will be ok for him too...
Regarding the separation , yes he needs it ...I am not sure if he would learn anything from it...but what ever the outcome it is Sona will be clear about Dev's character ..this time she has to be very strong and stand put with her demands...and not budge...We need to see if Dev really likes her or not ...for him she is his property and no one other than him has rt on her...last time we saw all that stalking is because Ritwick was around , if not I doubt ...if he would have shown so much interest...Now she is married to him and hence he has the confidence that she will not belong to any one so wont be that much bothered...

I dont like to see them separated but for Sona to realise what place she holds in his life they need to be separated and am sure she will be feeling bad because for Dev Sona is more like a toy something that gives him peace of mind and is a stress buster...now the stress buster itself is causing the stress and thats what is annoying him.
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The first breakup only proved that Dev loves and needs Sonakshi in his life
but both failed to realize that they have not sorted any of the issues out so if situations arise they could handle it together .
had Dev and Sonakshi sat down and spoke about the haste decision Dev took to breakup instead of talking to her first he would have learned that in a relation it takes two people to make it work .
Neha's issue was thrown onto them and Dev decides he can handle it but he also told Sona when they were apart he longed for her every minute causing him to stalk her but Ranveer has never made an attempt to do anything now Sona feels Ranveer and Neha loves each other and they should get back together while Neha , Dev and Ishwari feels Neha is better at home already there is difference in opinion which is good but Dev does not see the bigger picture at that .
Ishwari is a major problem in DevAKshi's life she is causing unneccessary hurdles for the couple
they need to talk to each other they need to trust each other they need to learn to start doing stuff as a couple both needs to approve of it eg their bedroom decor .
yes they newly wedded and will make mistakes but a second separation what will be the change and why do they need a separation together they need to learn how to cope with every day tasks and choices
Dev will change but it certainly won't happen overnight and Sonakshi too must understand it would be difficult getting him out of his bad habits her aim is correct but her approach is defeating the purpose at the moment
she needs to start making a stand getting tough
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: JyotiBThakur

Its too early to predict about a breakup or separation as of now... There are many tracks going on simultaneously.


Jyoti why should there even be a separation
Dev and Sona are married they need to sort their issues out
there will be a lot they newly wedded so two different people now living together
will have issues
separation is fine when dating not when married
I really won't want CV's taking that route
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Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

I personally doubt if he will bring the swing back to their room...he will never go against his mom. Remember he accepted her in his life is because his mom agreed ...so only the things approved by his mom will be ok for him too...

Regarding the separation , yes he needs it ...I am not sure if he would learn anything from it...but what ever the outcome it is Sona will be clear about Dev's character ..this time she has to be very strong and stand put with her demands...and not budge...We need to see if Dev really likes her or not ...for him she is his property and no one other than him has rt on her...last time we saw all that stalking is because Ritwick was around , if not I doubt ...if he would have shown so much interest...Now she is married to him and hence he has the confidence that she will not belong to any one so wont be that much bothered...

I dont like to see them separated but for Sona to realise what place she holds in his life they need to be separated and am sure she will be feeling bad because for Dev Sona is more like a toy something that gives him peace of mind and is a stress buster...now the stress buster itself is causing the stress and thats what is annoying him.

Ritwick was more of a catalyst to make them realise their feelings.Even if R was not he would have interfered in her life one way or another.Separation might b easy but to really see the changes in Characters they all have to b under one roof.Even if Sona comes back to Dev after d separation with constant pleading from Dev d other characters remain d same and even Dev so d story to move forward they all need Sona.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jade0001

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">The first breakup only proved that Dev loves and needs Sonakshi in his life </font>
<font face="Georgia" size="3">but both failed to realize that they have not sorted any of the issues out so if situations arise they could handle it together .</font>
<font face="Georgia" size="3">had Dev and Sonakshi sat down and spoke about the haste decision Dev took to breakup instead of talking to her first he would have learned that in a relation it takes two people to make it work .</font>
<font face="Georgia" size="3">Neha's issue was thrown onto them and Dev decides he can handle it but he also told Sona when they were apart he longed for her every minute causing him to stalk her but Ranveer has never made an attempt to do anything now Sona feels Ranveer and Neha loves each other and they should get back together while Neha , Dev and Ishwari feels Neha is better at home already there is difference in opinion which is good but Dev does not see the bigger picture at that .</font>
<font face="Georgia" size="3">Ishwari is a major problem in DevAKshi's life she is causing unneccessary hurdles for the couple </font>
<font face="Georgia" size="3">they need to talk to each other they need to trust each other they need to learn to start doing stuff as a couple both needs to approve of it eg their bedroom decor .</font>
<font face="Georgia" size="3">yes they newly wedded and will make mistakes but a second separation what will be the change and why do they need a separation together they need to learn how to cope with every day tasks and choices </font>
<font face="Georgia" size="3">Dev will change but it certainly won't happen overnight and Sonakshi too must understand it would be difficult getting him out of his bad habits her aim is correct but her approach is defeating the purpose at the moment </font>
<font face="Georgia" size="3">she needs to start making a stand getting tough </font>

Earlier even I was in for break up but then what's d difference between Devakshi and Neha and Ranveer's case.Neha has to learn that it is two to tango that a relationship to work both the partners have to work for it.A separation will not really solve the main issue only a proper communication will and this hurdles are there own doings.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Nope...separation is not a solution for every problem...Imagine if every married couple takes this route for things that the can sort out amicably...of course in Devakshi case a little difficult but can be done. It wont happen overnight...but it. will.
Clearly both Dev and Sona lacks clear communication between themselves. The biggest obstacle for progression in their relationship is those people nearest and surrounding them ...Iswari, Neha, GKB!

They have to learn how to handle issues and solve them, without running away from it, repent and reconcilation.

There are many ways to skin a cat...walking out is not an answer!


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Silambu

Nope...separation is not a solution for every problem...Imagine if every married couple takes this route for things that the can sort out amicably...of course in Devakshi case a little difficult but can be done. It wont happen overnight...but it. will.

Clearly both Dev and Sona lacks clear communication between themselves. The biggest obstacle for progression in their relationship is those people nearest and surrounding them ...Iswari, Neha, GKB!

They have to learn how to handle issues and solve them, without running away from it, repent and reconcilation.

There are many ways to skin a cat...walking out is not an answer!


Very true if they don't talk about d problems how will they solve are they going to get separated all the time and come back after Dev's stalking and Ishu's pleading 😆 Sona is not any damsel in distress she just needs Dev's support other things will fall in place. 😊

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