Sonakshi is being Silly

Sonakshi is not being practical.

Agree with you on this .

It's strange to see her being all ignorant about Dev preference and liking .A practical solution would be to move the swing to a corner or order a smaller one than the current one which can fit in the room .

I don't understand the big deal about managing clothes .He needs help to manage his clothes if you don't want to let his mom inside your personal space then you need to start helping him or allow him to buy a new wardrobe.I see a stubborn Sonakshi here

Dev could also suggest keeping jhoola at other end..but no..he wont speak a word and discuss with mom...

Being a dear wife u have to remove all obstacles in ur husband's way but putting such a big jhoola in way and totally senseless about his continuous hurting. With swing. And room looks so untidy and disarranged and expecting ur husband to do hus things is totally ignorant about his stress of work. If u don't allow ishu then u take ur husband's responsibility. Don't say mera kaam me apna kaam wo. Not done as a wife.

She did try to remove jhula but gave the hathi vs. khargosh dialogue remember !

CVs are hellbent in making all characters bad...

We have known since very beginning how Sona likes everything dreamy, rosy-rosy! So, after marriage if she wants to have one corner to herself and Dev in such a huge mansion, it should be ok, right?! Infact it is such a sweet cute thought.
I don't see how it is an obstacle :/ It is only an obstacle for ma because it is Sona who brought the jhoola (If anybody else had brought the same jhoola.. it will be perfectly fine with her) and obstacle for Dev because he only says he is flexible but still has to get used to it. Plus now he is full of guilt for addressing Asha as aunty. If not for the guilt, he would have adored it yesterday with Sona's gesture.

As far as Dev's interest is concerned: 1) He dosent have any :P 2) Sona only wanted that they will settle their things in their room together. She only wants Dev to learn. Remember "You make me want to be a better person" It will only create a hassle for few days but not hurt anybody's sentiments for sure! 3) She asked him countless times if he is ok with her changing few things and also took evrybody else's views 4) She wanted to remove it after Ishwari said he may or may not be ok with it but Dev had stopped her. Thats why she gained confidence to keep it.

I really appreciate the efforts she is trying to put into her marriage :) Dev can atleast try to be a little more brave for her love in return. Even he knows Sona will always stand by his decisions no matter what as long as he dosent hurt her and nobody else has the power to hurt her. She considers Dev as her world, had even confronted Ishu and GKB during the breakup, stood up for him even though she knew she will be insulted. She is brave and intelligent enough to know when to use her bravery. She gives required respect to all the realtionships. :)

Earlier the room looked like Dev's. Now it looks like Sonakshi's. Where is room of devakshi??

I agree with your post. I was afraid to make a post like this.
But today I found Sona more wrong than either DeV or ishwari
Sonakshi is pushing things. She is turning into another ishwari.
I have been married 20 years now. I got married very young.
My in laws did everything for my husband. My husband loves me a lot but whenever he needed anything he would approach his parents
It took me 10 years to take control of our lives.
Today my husband lets me take ownership for everything including defending all the things I do, supporting me in front if his parents
My in laws realized it and backed off
It takes time and the answer is not forcing your husband to do his own things when he is a super busy.
Sonakshi will achieve more in bringing Dev away from ishwari is by supporting him in his day to day life more than ishawari.
There was nothing wrong in Dev suggesting that they get another wardrobe so that they can have more
Space.
It is ok for her to get a swing but not Dev for the wardrobe which is more practical

And I also found it wrong that she talks about training Dev with her parents and bijoy was making fun about it.
Poor asha is still training Bijoy to make tea.
His own wife does everything for the whole family and he is joking with Sona to train Dev more in cooking after all this.
Also it is clearly visible that Dev does not like sleeping with like lights on and Sona is aware of that because she said that is why I chose dim lights
Where I found Dev wrong today was when he actually called asha aunty. He could have avoided addressing her and just carried on a conversation. It would have been better than calling her aunty