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Posted: 8 years ago
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today i was overwhelmed with sona...she is one of the greatest female characters that i hv ever seen...it is one thing to love and trust a husband...but sona has redefined a wife's understanding toward her husband's pain...sona cud see the way her husband is deeply embedded in his family so much so that his mom merely needs to twist a finger and dev will go into guilt mode and blame himself for everything...

today it is not about whether sona has understood the extent of influence that his mom has on him...but today sona has realized dev needs understanding from someone who does not expect anything from him and who can he turn to except his wife whom he loves...wen dev was saying sorry for the cancelled trip sona knows it is himself for whom dev shud feel sorry...

dev has always shouldered his family's responsibilities and he is not one who will ever feel tired of that but sona today made him aware that she is always with him...she is even ready to share his guilt which although has no base...i liked it how sona did not lecture him on how he not shud blame himself and all...instead she just extended her hand so that he can hold it at a time wen he is feeling lost and filled with despair that even after his lifelong effort he has not been able to secure happiness for his family...

the extent to which ishwari can manipulate him to view things as ishwari desires is amazing...now it is only a matter of time for sona to realize the chemistry between mother and son...it is a chemistry that is defined and shaped only by ishwari...today sona is only offering her understanding but that day is not far wen she will show him the mirror of his relationship with ishwari...dev's every emotion is controlled and defined by ishwari...according to her convenience she makes him feel guilty, happy or sad...today she needed him to feel guilty so that he cancels his trip...the day dev will learn that it is not he who cancelled the trip but ishwari's obsessiveness only that day it will not be turn of sona to hold his hand but dev to hold her hand to ensure security of their own conjugal life...

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I so agree with you. She is such a darling. How easily she understood Dev's emotions, his anger, guilt and frustration. She is the only one who understands him. Dev Dixit is blessed to get a partner like her and he too appreciates it.
Coming to Ishwari and Dev's relationship, I am sure she is understanding how Dev is being emotionally manipulated by his mother. She is gonna be a support system for Dev.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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From today onwards I am pretty sure that sona's golden nature will be able to fight with ishu's insecurities. Hope it ishu should also understand sona nd free herself from growing insecurities.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: adoremevirgo

today i was overwhelmed with sona...she is one of the greatest female characters that i hv ever seen...it is one thing to love and trust a husband...but sona has redefined a wife's understanding toward her husband's pain...sona cud see the way her husband is deeply embedded in his family so much so that his mom merely needs to twist a finger and dev will go into guilt mode and blame himself for everything...

today it is not about whether sona has understood the extent of influence that his mom has on him...but today sona has realized dev needs understanding from someone who does not expect anything from him and who can he turn to except his wife whom he loves...wen dev was saying sorry for the cancelled trip sona knows it is himself for whom dev shud feel sorry...

dev has always shouldered his family's responsibilities and he is not one who will ever feel tired of that but sona today made him aware that she is always with him...she is even ready to share his guilt which although has no base...i liked it how sona did not lecture him on how he not shud blame himself and all...instead she just extended her hand so that he can hold it at a time wen he is feeling lost and filled with despair that even after his lifelong effort he has not been able to secure happiness for his family...

the extent to which ishwari can manipulate him to view things as ishwari desires is amazing...now it is only a matter of time for sona to realize the chemistry between mother and son...it is a chemistry that is defined and shaped only by ishwari...today sona is only offering her understanding but that day is not far wen she will show him the mirror of his relationship with ishwari...dev's every emotion is controlled and defined by ishwari...according to her convenience she makes him feel guilty, happy or sad...today she needed him to feel guilty so that he cancels his trip...the day dev will learn that it is not he who cancelled the trip but ishwari's obsessiveness only that day it will not be turn of sona to hold his hand but dev to hold her hand to ensure security of their own conjugal life...


Bang on Post! I think Sona was sad, mad, angry, depressed.. all of the above. and rightly so!

but the moment, she heard Dev utter.. "is ghar mein mera kuch bhi nahin hai kyaa"... she melted. her sadness over not going on her trip was not bigger than her broken man! Sonakshi keeps proving her love for Dev over and over.. selflessly! She is a strong girl and she keeps proving it in every situation👏 Kudos to Erica for portraying Sonakshi's strength in such a subtle way⭐️

It's high time CVs showed Dev taking baby steps towards showing his love for Sona.. not just physically or by buying her things or taking her to Paris in most stylish way. But, by standing up for her, standing by her.. when accusations are thrown at her! Seriously... "yeh tumhaare baare mein nahin thaa" will not work for me😡 tomorrow.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Totally agree with you.. Sona is such a nice , sweet and understanding wife. She hide her tears Infront of Dev and support him.
Erica u played very well 👍🏼
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: cscs

I so agree with you. She is such a darling. How easily she understood Dev's emotions, his anger, guilt and frustration. She is the only one who understands him. Dev Dixit is blessed to get a partner like her and he too appreciates it.

Coming to Ishwari and Dev's relationship, I am sure she is understanding how Dev is being emotionally manipulated by his mother. She is gonna be a support system for Dev.


i think sona shud do more than support...she shud help dev realize that there is only a limit upto which he can do for his family...she shud teach him that he cannot let himself feel guilty for every mishap in his family member's life...sona shud help him come out of the manipulative grips of his mom and at the same time assure ishwari that dev is in gud hands...ishwari's concern for his son comes from the fact that the two of them hv been dependent on each other for so many years that she believes that dev and also she himself cannot hv a life separate from each other...dev is married now and as a married man one big aspect of his life cannot be controlled by his mom or even his mom does not hv right over that aspect of his life...this is wat both dev and ishwari need to learn...and sona has to be their guiding light...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: vibg


Bang on Post! I think Sona was sad, mad, angry, depressed.. all of the above. and rightly so!

but the moment, she heard Dev utter.. "is ghar mein mera kuch bhi nahin hai kyaa"... she melted. her sadness over not going on her trip was not bigger than her broken man! Sonakshi keeps proving her love for Dev over and over.. selflessly! She is a strong girl and she keeps proving it in every situation👏 Kudos to Erica for portraying Sonakshi's strength in such a subtle way⭐️

It's high time CVs showed Dev taking baby steps towards showing his love for Sona.. not just physically or by buying her things or taking her to Paris in most stylish way. But, by standing up for her, standing by her.. when accusations are thrown at her! Seriously... "yeh tumhaare baare mein nahin thaa" will not work for me😡 tomorrow.


i totally agree with ur last line...dev needs to understand that now sona and he needs to function as one unit...there cannot be anything in his life that does not concern sona...whether he is hurt, guilty, happy, depressed or any other state of mind sona has the right to expect him to share his feelings with her...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I loved the fact that Sona once again emphasized that the Dixit family is her family... it did not escape Dev's notice.. and that is what prompted him to say, you are the best... Mrs Dixit.
Such a beautiful character where the woman has become a complete part of her man... the vice versa is to be proven true now where Dev truly becomes a part of her!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: adoremevirgo



i totally agree with ur last line...dev needs to understand that now sona and he needs to function as one unit...there cannot be anything in his life that does not concern sona...whether he is hurt, guilty, happy, depressed or any other state of mind sona has the right to expect him to share his feelings with her...



just like sona stood by him today and saved his spineless face in front of her parents today. dev needs to stand by sona.. cause MU what she said to her prents is not an option!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Wow beautiful post , you penned it down so well !!! Loved it ... I dont think Sona know it yet how Dev got the realization about Neha's situation all of a sudden when his mom fainted !!! But hope she connects the dots soon and see these emotional manipulations he was going through all these years ...

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