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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: tia.o

Sona is again trying to win points by going with family's wishes. But Dev, seriously? Is this how you will run your company? Why don't you take a decision and stick to it? The company is yours. Use your brain and don't run your company by either your mother or your wife's suggestion. If they give a valid suggestion, take it. But don't take their suggestion just because they said so. At the end of the day, you are responsible for all the employees who work in your company. If your company fails because of your mismanagement, all those people will loose their job. What a moron!!!


Tia , this is why its called typical Indian Sas Bahu style serial. The lead men are always shown as business tycoons...but the decisions of their offices are always done by the super women of their house . At a time they can cook food for a family of 10-15 ppl...take care of their husbands office.teach their kids , massage the legs of all the oldies of the house and at the end of the day when their husbands return from a hard days work they manage to look like a bollywood heroine ready to romance and make him happy...😡

Hope this one doesnt go on those lines...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I am totally with you Tia except that today I can't say my blood boiled instead I was literally on floor 😛.
Sona : I can't go out again today since Maa will not like it na.

Me : Do hell Sona. So much of Bijoy-Asha's effort of 26 yrs gone to drain. Congrats 👍🏼

Sona : Nahi mere kehne ka matlab yeh nahi tha Mamiji.. Umm amm imm omm emm ..😒

Me : Great going Sona. Keep repeating these filler sentences to invite more insults from GKB instead of just leaving the place or asking direct question that if she wants to break Neha-Ranveer's marriage ?

Sona : Vicky should learn things on his own blah blah..

Me : Logic with Ishwari ? Really Sona ? 👏 The same Ishwari who had no logic in not accepting you before marriage, no logic in asking Dev to resolve issues in the middle of the night, will understand your explanation about a Corporate Job profile ? 👏 Definitely would be more interesting to see Sona putting Rhea's example instead but no..


They are missing some obvious things in the show and I just hope they will not keep the loose ends open for long. So many pending issues to directly kill Ishwari's image in Dev's eyes, why are they not using em ? Pre-nup, Ishwari's reaction on Sona's infertility, Ishwari's two-faced attitude with Sona - 1 when Dev is around, 1 when he is not around, now this double-standard. If all these can't open Dev's eyes, I really wonder what will !


By now I badly want a showdown between Ishwari-Dev. Too difficult for me to see the torture Ishwari puts onto Dev. Latest I heard Dev-Sona's intimacy will be taunted by Ishwari. I don't care anymore about Sona, so I am not bothered about that, but I really want Dev to shout at Ishwari saying Sona has only 7% chance to have baby, and if Ishwari continues this attitude, they will never have babies - will you please let us have some sex maa 😡


But one thing is, I never thought after all those high-volume drama, the show would be back in its realism so nicely. Ishwari's not wanting to share the keys, not wanting to share Neha's or family's internal problems with Sona, Ishwari's hurt seeing Dev's attention getting divided now, Ishwari's jealousy seeing Sona's importance in Dev's life and decisions, Ishwari's taunting her son and making him feel guilty, her using the greatest weapon of all - tears to move and confuse Dev, her confusion on what she wants from Sona - are indeed very real 👍🏼 Supriya P - take a bow lady ⭐️
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hope ur imagination of Dev's response becomes true tomorrow. Really hope he shields Sona from all the bs his mother is spewing on her for no reason.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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It is realistic. But it's not acceptable and this is precisely why I criticise. We can't continue to turn blind eye to women's mistreatment because it's realistic.

It takes long time for women to integrate into a man's family, but it shouldn't.

Women are insulted and humiliated at their in-laws, but they shouldn't.

Just because it's reality, doesn't mean it's right and until people refuse to put up with it and criticise, then how would the young, impressionable girls know that this is not right, nor normal? They already know the reality, I don't need to tell people that. They see it around them.

But I need to point out double standards because if someone keeps seeing a wrong for very long time, it becomes normal for them and that's a shame.



Originally posted by: AA1122

Hey Tia.. This is Archana and read your posts regularly.. Most of your thoughts resonate with me too!!

But I do find your analysis very critical! I don't agree with the way the tracks dialogues go sometimes but I do feel this is pretty realistic!

It takes a long time for women/men to integrate into the other's family and for the families to accept the DIL/SIL as well.. Of course there are exceptions wherein the gelling happens effortlessly but then for a daily serial that won't provide the masala!

No offence please :)

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Now it becomes an ego war to Ishwari. Its not abt Vicky has been appointed as a trainee. .its abt sona influences dev in his decisions.
Ishwari always wanted to prove to radharani that she is bhagwan to dev.he will obey her blindly without raising any questions. .
But what happens intrigued her more and she wants to prove once again that she is THE decision maker of the Ishwari niwas not sonakshi. .
Don't know how dev approaches this matter but the scene is surely need to sona to realize or smell something abt Ishwari's behavior. .

And its very much realistic. .when we accept our relatives in our work these problems r in one way or other way arise .
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Dear Tia , as much as I want Dev to speak the way you imagined . I doubt if he would ...if he did then nothing like it. I feel he will bend and bow towards his mom's adamency and will soon have to face some problem at his company because of which he will loose his image . Only then Ishu will understand her mistakes.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Well, time will tell. But it seems when his mother taunts about his wife, he doesn't seem to get it. He actually believes Ishwari loves Sona.

Originally posted by: flat_everest

He has to..he has sen enuf now..not one but thrice in a row sona and his relationship had been brought into trashes by his mummy ..if he s the real dev dixit who has been no shit man, he ll hav tk speak loud to that old lady saying please shut d eff up and don't define what did I discuss with my wife and what not...dis s d limit ...if not he has no bloody right to convince his wife abt his undying love for her..

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: tia.o

Well, time will tell. But it seems when his mother taunts about his wife, he doesn't seem to get it. He actually believes Ishwari loves Sona.


He s getting it...the look he exchanged with sona yesday after morning musings by mummy said dat..but as usual Ge is not considering it as a potential problem..the credit for this goes to both beautiful ladies demselves..one moment they spread so much positive vibes like halwa parosna scene next moment both try to proove dey are right ... tomorrow to avoid problem sonakshi s gonna say sory and Vicky idiot s going to do victory dance ..but I hav a hunch dev ll stay upright with his decision..Sona has to fight d emotional atyachar or stay awY from being a nosy Parker..let Neha go to hell or Vicky eat d company..see ur family dear..that includes bose and bose ka damaad..


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Thanks for a wonderful post again Tia.

I havent watched the episode yet.

i so so wish that all the things she is asking happens before - Neha, Riya and mamaji...

Want Neha to be there to see how her mom behaves with Dev, Sona and because this is exactly what she ran off from...Ish wanting(actually demanding) Dev to be more responsible towards his family than towards Sona(still dont understand why Sona is not the family yet...for gods sake she is married to Dev...today she said it...Sona is outside...really Ish??? were you the outsider when you were newly married? did you go on spread the problems, issues, insecurities that your in-laws had? With those dialogues, I think you might have done that and you fear the same...

Want Riya to be there to see how her mom was all OK when she started as an intern...but not OK when Vicky idiot starts as an intern...I actually want Riya to ask Ish this...not Dev not Sona and not anyone else...this will be a tight slap on Ish...

just because Sona suggested Vicky start as an Intern, she is all against that Idea...by your logic, just because you ordered Dev, should Vicky be the CEO of the company which Dev alone built? When you asked Sona to be away from Dev's business because she knows nothing on how he built it...doesnt it apply for you too? I know you worked hard to make Dev what he is today...but it was because of Dev's ability too...

Want Mamaji, because, he is the only sane person to shut up Vicky, RR and Ish all together...


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Seriously...Ishwari will say ... Mamaji did so much for us blah blah...
THen Dev should say, it is ok i can give money if Vicky wants to setup a separate business for the "Ehsan utarna" but if he has to join my company .. she needs to learn first ...period



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