It's very easy for Dev

randommusings

@randommusings

Sparkler

32

Posted: 8 years ago

#11

Now Dev feels about unilateral decisions, wat about the decision he took alone when he agreed to drop Dadi bua. He had himself given hopes abt SR but later he agreed to Ish's demand and went to drop Dadi bua without asking Sona.

Sona was in the same situation, Ish put her at spot when she asked abt fast n Sona had to immediately react to it. The abstinence clause came later on...Why Sona didn't tell Dev the sequence of events.

3

Reply

Quote

Vimal M

@VIMAL.SM

Stunner

36

+ 4

Posted: 8 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: Tinkerfairy

How come Bijoy rudely talk with dev you know i mean so what he has broken her daughter hearts didn't even assure his FIL that he will take care of her 😭*sarcasm*

Bijoy can be rude ,somehow he was also right for highlighting patriarchal tradition about only wife keeping fast .

If Dev has forced Sona.Then what Bijoy did was right.It was Sona's own decision to keep fast.Even Dev is against it.Sona said to Bijoy that it was her decision.Yet Bijoy taunted Dev.Which I find it wrong.

Bijoy saw how Dev was against Pre-Nup in-spite of Ish wanting it.At least for that.Bijoy can give Dev a chance n behave good with him.

3

Reply

Quote

Destiny_015

@Destiny_015

Sparkler

30

Posted: 8 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: Tinkerfairy

That why i have said sona's should get her brains back.

But Dev is also not a saint ,he's also hiding her biggest truth😆😆I was face palming my face for his double standard
when he said you had taken decision solely without consulting him for vrat ,because he couldn't get some action .what about sona .he also taken decision for both of them.

He is not right by keeping her in dark. But he can't exactly drop such a news just days into their marraige. Some time space in needed for such a matter. Come on , the magnitude of both the maters have kinda hell and heaven difference.

5

Reply

Quote

cscs

@cscs

Sparkler

33

+ 5

Posted: 8 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: VIMAL.M

If Dev has forced Sona.Then what Bijoy did was right.It was Sona's own decision to keep fast.Even Dev is against it.Sona said to Bijoy that it was her decision.Yet Bijoy taunted Dev.Which I find it wrong.

Bijoy saw how Dev was against Pre-Nup in-spite of Ish wanting it.At least for that.Bijoy can give Dev a chance n behave good with him.

He accepted dev for his daughter's happiness, the same what ishwari did.

And Dev is an atheist, i know Bijoy dnt know that but Dev wouldn't have kept fast in any situation. Its not about any "patriarchal rule", but believes.

2

Reply

Quote

cscs

@cscs

Sparkler

33

+ 5

Posted: 8 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: --Destiny--

He is not right by keeping her in dark. But he can't exactly drop such a news just days into their marraige. Some time space in needed for such a matter. Come on , the magnitude of both the maters have kinda hell and heaven difference.

That's what i am saying we cannot compare situations.

1

Reply

Quote

Tinkerfairy

@Tinkerfairy

Voyager

16

Posted: 8 years ago

#16

That why i have said sona's should get her brains back.

But Dev is also not a saint ,he's also hiding her biggest truth😆😆I was face palming my face for his double standard

when he said you had taken decision solely without consulting him for vrat ,because he couldn't get some action .what about sona .he also taken decision for both of them.

He is not right by keeping her in dark. But he can't exactly drop such a news just days into their marraige. Some time space in needed for such a matter. Come on , the magnitude of both the maters have kinda hell and heaven difference.

But how this is different from other things , Logic applies for same , I am sorry to say i am still hell blaming dev for hiding this from sona .It's her RIGHT to know ,Her Body condition , Her decision to marry him or not.By just presuming she will leave after knowing this truth ,he has taken away her choice .

About Timing during marriage he didn't told her , why because he didn't want to ruin her happiness ,he want to live in present but now when will be right time for Him,I thought he was going to tell her after marriage How long he's going to lie to her, sorry but hiding the truth is also Lie .I know this sound rude but Somehow this marriage is also based on lie.

Edited by Tinkerfairy - 8 years ago

1

Reply

Quote

Tinkerfairy

@Tinkerfairy

Voyager

16

Posted: 8 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: cscs

even I am agreeing bijoy was rude , How come bijoy will know about it unless dev will try to blend with them. Here toh he's not even trying to make efforts with them . You can't just get respect You have to EARN it . Atleast as much as i hate it but atleast idiotic sona is trying to impress Ishwari but dev is not even making an effort .

This is all the side effects of rushing for the marriage .

3

Reply

Quote

cscs

@cscs

Sparkler

33

+ 5

Posted: 8 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: Tinkerfairy

I agree they rushed into marriage and before marriage Dev tried to gel with Bose family but Baba Bijoy is not gonna give in soon 😆 I so want Dev bonding with bose family and i hope we get some scenes in future. And sona is living in dixit house so she has more chance to impress ishwari (I hate it) thn dev to impress bose. O.o He needs to pay surprise visits at their place and try to gel with them.

2

Reply

Quote

WeRockTheWorld

@WeRockTheWorld

Sparkler

31

+ 6

Posted: 8 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: Tinkerfairy

How come Bijoy rudely talk with dev you know i mean so what he has broken her daughter hearts didn't even assure his FIL that he will take care of her 😭*sarcasm*

Bijoy can be rude ,somehow he was also right for highlighting patriarchal tradition about only wife keeping fast .

What if Dev decides to keep fast along with Sona??

2

Reply

Quote

Tinkerfairy

@Tinkerfairy

Voyager

16

Posted: 8 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

What if Dev decides to keep fast along with Sona??

very right question ,Now If he has decided to keep fast along with sona after bijoy taunt , that means he also doing same thing what sona trying with ishwari. same situation ,different perspective.

then only he's going to understand Her POV

but I don't think he will keep fast .😆 .

Crux is both need to understand each other POV , respect it and Move along .

2

Reply

Quote