Unshared Pains - 26 Sep - Page 2

Originally posted by: deepsel

A painful yet beautiful episode highlighting how some pains can't be shared with the circumstances and how some happiness can be with the same!!

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and how when its to do with ur loved one's, circumstances put aside the fact that pain when shared can be lessened but happiness when shared can be doubled 😳

A tough pill:

Given by the most positive doctor I have ever seen😡 for Dev to swallow. When he said " It will be a miracle if Sonakshi conceives" I was like 😲 " dude you have selective amnesia ? you just said 7% chances are there and any doctor will give positive advices even if the chances are 1% and here you are walking off praying miracles 😡" (Looks like banda used to sleep a lot in his final year of degree and now our Dev is suffering from half baked truths🤔)

This Doctor is surely a pessimist in life

And why the hell do doctor's in all shows give the news and leave their own room..no next patient? Who wil solve this mystery for me? 😆 It's a stupid one I knw 😆 but dissection karo to aise points bhi nikal aate hai 😉

Dev as usual just kills the emotional scenes and decided to hide the real diagnosis from Bijoy as well. (Wah baba you started trusting ur SIL so much that you didn't feel like asking the doctor directly?)

Even the FIL showed, I am angry but I know I can trust you on this 😳

On top of that..I have got one more opportunity to taunt u on stress part, How can I let it go?😉

Arrival of Sangeet dress and stress (Bua) : 😆

I can't help but laugh seeing that pink sangeet dress which Sona was all awwing and ooing when in reality Erica hated the costume😆 But a cute trio hug masked that scene😳.

That hug was for seconds but I will remember it for long 😛

So the most anticipated?! troublemaker in the form of Bua arrives with her DIL with extra pair of sanitizers and disinfecting wipes Typical grandma character nitpicking everything .. TRP junta khush ho jao 😆 But I enjoyed seeing her taunts to GKB as well 😛

Though today Ishwari and Mamaji took Sonakshi side justifying her work with Bua I could not feel happier at all, maybe thursday's episode is still lingering like a bad aftertaste in my mouth and Ishwari's image is badly smudged inside me

I understand Ishu I guess, her problem is not Sona..it never was. Her problem is her own thoughts and she herself.

Sorry a lil offtrack..will share a small story. I am an ardent devotee of sai baba. Sai Satcharitra Chapter 3 talks about a story. The character here I feel is like Ishwari. I hope it makes sense. Here it goes:

The story of the Rohilla illustrates Sai Baba's all embracing love. One Rohilla, tall and well-built, strong as a bull, came to Shirdi, wearing a long Kafni (robe) and was enamoured of Sai who stayed there. Day and night he used to recite in a loud and harsh tone Kalma (verses from Holy Koran) and shout "ALLAH HO AKBAR" (God is Great). Most people of Shirdi, were working in their fields by day and when they returned to their homes at night, they were welcomed with the Rohilla's harsh cries and shouts. They could get no sleep and felt much trouble and inconvenience. They suffered in silence this nuisance for some days, and when they could stand it no longer, they approached Baba, and requested Him to check the Rohilla and stop the nuisance. Baba did not attend to their complaint. On the contrary, Baba took the villagers to task, and asked them to mind their own business, and not the Rohilla. He said to them that the Rohilla had got a very bad wife, a Zantippi, who tried to come in and trouble the Rohilla and Himself; but hearing the Rohilla's prayers, she dare not enter and they were at peace and happy. In fact, the Rohilla had no wife and by his wife Baba meant DURBUDDHI, i.e. bad thoughts. As Baba liked prayers and cries to God better than anything else, He took the side of the Rohilla, and asked the villagers to wait and suffer the nuisance, which would abate in due course.

Dev's dilemma:

Dev is obviously torn unable to share the painful news to either Sonakshi or his Godly Maa and it was aptly justified by his fear in the form of imagination of both Sona leaving for his happiness and Maa questioning his insensitiveness to her feelings by stopping the legacy knowingly.

When Sona in real was trying to share her happiness about the new dress and how her dreams are coming true slowly , my heart went to Dev who was controlling his tears on other side of the phone when their main dream was infact crushed a moments ago

" I can't lie to you but can't say the truth too" stated Dev's poor condition when he just cut the phone unable to answer after Sona enquiring about her report (This should definitely trigger something in Sona if not conveniently ignored by the CVs🤔)

I like that Dev kept his promise and atleast didnt tell her a lie...he just couldn't. Though just few moments back he did that to Sona's parents. Shows the difference.

+ Line highlighted in Pink is my thought as well.

When she said say that you will look beautiful reminded me of that scene in episode 88, whenever I ask you do I look 26, you should no baby not over 18😳

And the suddenly changed Godly Maa gets jewels for her grandkids and Sarees for her DIL much to the grumbling Ria and guilty Dev who conveniently remembers about his Maa's sacrifice and his promise of giving her happiness in the form of her grandkids and decides to share the painful news😕

Precap:

Mesmerizing Dev and Gorgeous Sona entering for their sangeet and a glimpse f their romantic dance😳

Frankly that pink dress was not horrible as we all scared, infact both Dev and Sona were looking perfectly yummylicious😆 (trick of camera angles?!😉)

The dress isnt that great but the lady wearing it is surely looking yummylicious 😳

P.S:

*Don't worry Ria and Nikki, that saree will be torn into 4 pieces by your mother and given a piece to each of you as she believes in equal sharing😃

* I have missed the valuable lesson of talking to my 8 yr old boy regarding taking family responsibility ditching his childhood and giving me grandkids. 😭

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P.P.S:

To hell with Ishwari's equality, am just drooling on the pics of Mr& Mrs Aubhodro Yes am still pissed at Thursday's episode😆

Originally posted by: ashakd

Okay an honest confession to make. I skipped the friday and monday episode, saw the precap for tomorrow and am still well equiped to talk at lengths about these two episodes...😆 such irony I tell you.

Dev not sharing the news is the right thing going forward. With a wedding breathing down their throat, no time for rona --dhona.

Dev has money power, and experience tells me, money will handle any infertility. Added with trust in God. ( though cvs willingness tops the chart) 😃

Bua why did you not come during Neha's wedding???? missed you.

I honestly dont like the 8 year old lessons we are seeing. My daughter is 8 years old and I always wonder what have I missed in my parental skills ?

Dev- time for you to be upset now, when Sona enters Ishawari niwas , she will be the one handling all this tension alone, coz you will again be obivious to anything happening around you.

Deeps missed having you around. glad to see your post. Will come back with more tomorrow.

Originally posted by: cscs

Can't comment on the episode as i haven't watched it yet. But your PS 😆 I am also stuck with Ish mata's "equality" concern. I am deeply irked by her behaviour that i have started cracking lame jokes on 15 lacs lehenga as compensation of alimony 😆

Anyways her whole life she treated her daughters secondary to her son in every way, be it love, concern or giving opportunities. And now she is all worried about their rights. Yes daughters have full right in the property and for that she could have directly asked Dev to divide the property.

And btw either she talks about how Dev should not get married and he is still 8 years old kid or she directly jumps to her grand kids 😲 There is no stopping station of Dev's wife in between😕

Originally posted by: gigi16

* I have missed the valuable lesson of talking to my 8 yr old boy regarding taking family responsibility ditching his childhood and giving megrandkids.

👏 👏 Well well well Ishwari and her emotional blackmailing started long way back. The obsession won't go away so easily. And the way she was defending Sona, split personality?? Btw: Amazing post.

Originally posted by: Push-pull

Deeps.. 🤗

Didn't feel like posting anything.. But using your post to laugh it out.. After all it's your thread where I can say anything and still steal a hug from you... 😉🤗

phir aapko double dose lelo 🤗🤗 haq banda hai😉😆

The imagination scene of Sona was so funny.. I don't know why they made Sona act like that.. Purposely to show that it's his imagination?!😆

Frankly that scene just whisked away in a moment and you are correct maybe coz it was Dev's imagination😆 or maybe wrong scene insertion in-between bua's antics spoiling the essence of that emotion😳

I can't take this Ishu at all.. Has she forgotten whatever her mental or emotional state was on hearing her son getting married.. Now she's a different woman in a different avatar.. If this was the Ishu that they wanted, What's the reason the makers showed her like that in the interim period??!!😲 To drag the episodes? Or to give some acting test to the actor? 😆 And this Ishu's flashback with her 8 year old 😲 what?! Did you also talk about your grand kids with 8 yr old but not ready to talk about his marriage when he was 28 yr old?!😲😆

Exactly, that " whole equality" prenup signature spoiled her image beyond repair and now limelighting her mahanta in defending Sona just defies all logic beyond my pea size brain can understand.

@bold: Don't worry CVs have a FB for that too and we might see that in upcoming episodes🤔😆

Oh whatever.. The new entry aunty has come with a bahu attachment to show a demo to Ishu on how to treat her bahu.. I so wish that bahu learns something from these city girls while going back home.. 😆🤣

She already started😆

In all this, that moment when Baaba called Dev, I wanted Baaba to be the supporting shoulder for Dev.. If not for Dev it would have been Baaba who would have got to know the news first, if Sona is out picture😉..

I don't know why I felt like Dev asking Baaba to meet him and share the news along with his pain to see his loved ones hurt with the news.. Dev-Baaba bonding

I feel we might get that scene before marriage and Bijoy might see a completely different Dev then. Finally a man to man consolation for their common love ?! But well I stopped expecting things😆

But the rest of the episode made it a comedy segment for me.. And comments about the doctor.. 👏🤣 Dev go to another doctor okay... 😃

Haso haso dil khol ke haso😆 kuch tho fayda hua naa😉

Originally posted by: desigirl987

Deepa ,As always you are back with a lovely post !!!! Yes it was sad to see Dev suffering like this ... But even when he is thinking about both perspectives and imagining the reactions of both women in his life , more than his own torture and distress he is dreaded of his worst nightmare - A Life without Sona ... It doesnt matter if talks right away or not but the thought that he decided to speak to Ishwari and convince her , even at the cost of disappointing her proves that ... Its true that love make us strong but it's our weakness too ... Sometimes we would rather keep quiet and suffer by ourselves than ruin the moment of happiness ... He very well know he had to talk to both Sona and Ishwari , but he may keep it to himself for the time being for their sake ...

PS: Even though I hate the buaji , I dont think they have added any masala in her behaviour she is the very annoying elderly relative who gives us visits during functions and interfere with everything and everyone including our parents out of respect bear them , and tell us to be nice to them as its the matter of only some days 😉 .

PPS : I had made a post with wishful thinking that may be her visit is for the good , as GKB may get some taunts , and humiliations for living off Dixits ... CVs please make my wish come true

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

I just saw the episode and the whole thing was hilarious..Intentional, unintentional- atleast it was funny and i can take that over disturbing drama i guess 😆 For one, Ishwari was paranoid at the mere thought of Dev ever marrying anyone..I remember this FB where Dev promises her that he'l never marry and will always stay with her ( creepy scene that was)..And now they have conveniently inserted another FB where Ishwari wants kids just so it can go with this infertility track..So putting 2 and 2 together, am assuming Ishwari has issues with his wife but not his kids..She is okay with him having kids (infact wants him to) but she is averse to the idea of him bringing another girl home..So was she planning to adopt a baby with Dev so they can raise him/her together? Or just go for a surrogate? This establishes my earlier theory about this being a reverse Oedipus complex story 😳

P.S. Pretty sure thats not what the writers intend to show but they show conflicting FBs to suit their current tracks and i cant help but find it hilarious 😆