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Yes I Support Dev. đł
I know he will tell the truth, maybe not now but he will. đ
1. He knows Sonakshi needs and deserves to know the truth about her. But timing is important too. In life, we too have many things which if not done on time can take away its essence but bad timing can do a damage for which there might not be a damage control.
Again CV's showed us how Time plays a very Important Role in making a person take a decision in his/ her life. We might say this is right, this should have been done but time is an important factor ...For a watch might show time but situations determine a persons time.đ˛
2. He needs time to prepare himself for communicating this news to Sonakshi. Right now he's himself is in a state of shock. Therefore, he himself needs to take situation in his hand and not fall a prey to it. He needs to gather some mature thoughts and methods to break this news to Sona. If he does it now, it will be in a raw manner and will focus more on problem with no focus on solution.
3. We all might say that we should Live in the present...but we make our decisions foreseeing the future. We just cannot disassociate ourselves from thinking about the repercussions of our act and perform the act. (Reminds me of Krishna explaining this to Arjun in Mahabharat, "Karma Karo parth")
4. And I won't blame him coz a human mind always first thinks Negative. Later when we get deep into it and there's no way further, we think of back tracking or move to the next step of what can be done to improve the situation or accept reality and handle it than escaping from it.
We can't run from problems always. We have to face them so he will face the situation soon, give him sometimeđł
A little away but a little connected to the topic, just want to add a small piece below:
I remember a training I went thru once. They told us a concept of circle of Concern and Circle of Influence by Stephen Covey. This concept holds very true in our lives. Today I felt it will be important to see when will Dev realize
that regardless of whether or not you have influence, you will have to tackle every problem as it emerges.
For those who don't know about it,,.A little brief It states:
We have 2 circles, one inside the other. The outer circle is the circle of Concern and the inside one is the circle of influence.
While we concentrate on the circle of concern, we forget that we have control only over circle of influence.
The basic idea is that instead of spending a lot of energy thinking about and getting angry, sad and brooding over about things you cannot influence like Sona's medical problem here because the problem won't end with your concern, Dev should spend his time and energy on something he can influence like what is the solution to Sona's medical problem.
I am sure he'll sure start thinking on these lines..N I support him even today when he's not done that.
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