Disappointments from the Break-Up track

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I knew break-up was on cards while watching the show , and I was prepared for it ... I was suffocated with Ishwari's insecurity track , and wanted Sona to be out of this house before any more damage was done ... I knew it will be heart-breaking to watch these two suffer but I was ready for it , as I expected some good things will come out of it , like ...

  • Looking at Ishwari in a new light - I know its very hard for old habits to fade so soon , and this guy had spent his whole life worshiping her, but the fact that Ishwari was not happy about his relationship and hearing herself talking about she was lying all the while , would have made him see through the facade of Goddess image he worshiped , and realize the human side of his mother . But so far I haven't seen him giving any thought on that matter and in todays episode mere the mention of his mother made him snap at her. Until and unless you admit there is a problem , how can you find a solution ?

  • Dev repenting his impulsive decisions - Instead of wallowing in a world of self-pity and jealousy, Dev thinking about what went wrong and how to correct it . His sleepless nights and stalking,and breaking stuffs is not a way out .


  • Dev's emotional maturity - This guy may be a pro at handling a business empire , but when it comes to human emotions he is not less than a child ... Somebody had to literally spell him out about relationships all the time ... Whether its about Natasha's case , or understanding the emotion of love , or realization of his own love , mother's displeasure on his relationship , he seek guidance from his mother, his sisters, mamaji or Sona and they have to explain him and give him a perspective ... I really expected this break-up will give him some sort of emotional maturity and will make him capable of taking his own decisions. But after seeing tomorrows precap I am really disappointed ... Here also mamaji had to enlighten him in his own relationship ?

I also had a few other expectations like Ishwari realizing the depth of their relationship and influence of Sona in his life , Dev taking his anger out on GKB and show her placešŸ˜‰ , but with the way story is progressing , I think its better to keep low expectations ... The only character who haven't disappointed me so far is Sona , she also has a long journey ahead of her to finally realize she cannot replace Dev in her life and fight for her love and to realize love is not like a fairy tale as she imagined . In her story ,before even thinking about "tiny Mr.Aubodhru" she should be prepared to handle two other adult kids "Ish-Dev" ... !!!



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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: desigirl987

I knew break-up was on cards while watching the show , and I was prepared for it ... I was suffocated with Ishwari's insecurity track , and wanted Sona to be out of this house before any more damage was done ... I knew it will be heart-breaking to watch these two suffer but I was ready for it , as I expected some good things will come out of it , like ...

  • Looking at Ishwari in a new light - I know its very hard for old habits to fade so soon , and this guy had spent his whole life worshipping her, but the fact that Ishwari was not happy about his relationship and hearing herself talking about she was lying all the while , would have made him see through the faade of Goddess image he worshipped , and realize the human side of his mother . But so far I haven't seen him giving any thought on that matter and in todays episode mere the mention of his mother made him snap at her. Until and unless you admit there is a problem , how can you find a solution ?

  • Dev repenting his impulsive decisions - Instead of wallowing in a world of self-pity and jealousy, Dev thinking about what went wrong and how to correct it . His sleepless nights and stalking,and breaking stuffs is not a way out .


  • Dev's emotional maturity - This guy may be a pro at handling a business empire , but when it comes to human emotions he is not less than a child ... Somebody had to literally spell him out about relationships all the time ... Whether its about Natasha's case , or understanding the emotion of love , or realization of his own love , mother's displeasure on his relationship , he seek guidance from his mother, his sisters, mamaji or Sona and they have to explain him and give him a perspective ... I really expected this break-up will give him some sort of emotional maturity and will make him capable of taking his own decisions. But after seeing tomorrows precap I am really disappointed ... Here also mamaji had to enlighten him about his own relationship ?

I also had a few other expectations like Ishwari realizing the depth of their relationship and influence of Sona in his life , Dev taking his anger out on GKB and show her placešŸ˜‰ , but with the way story is progressing , I think its better to keep low expectations ... The only character who haven't disappointed me so far is Sona , she also has a long journey ahead of her to finally realize she cannot replace Dev in her life and fight for her love and to realize love is not like a fairy tale as she imagined . In her story ,before even thinking about "tiny Mr.Aubodhru" she should be prepared to handle two other adult kids "Ish-Dev" ... !!!



don't know about ishwari and redemption but it's not all over for dev...that day is not very far when he will fall and rise again to become emotional mature guy... i m sure he will rise and he will rise like anything and we all will go in awww of him...
break up track is far from over... it will end directly on sona's shaddišŸ˜†šŸ˜†šŸ˜†
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: rash2222

don't know about ishwari and redemption but it's not all over for dev...that day is not very far when he will fall and rise again to become emotional mature guy... i m sure he will rise and he will rise like anything and we all will go in awww of him...
break up track is far from over... it will end directly on sona's shaddišŸ˜†šŸ˜†šŸ˜†


Lets really hope for that ... But the only person who could help him doing so , is Sona whose presence is missing from his life now , so I dont know yaar ...😭
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: rash2222

don't know about ishwari and redemption but it's not all over for dev...that day is not very far when he will fall and rise again to become emotional mature guy... i m sure he will rise and he will rise like anything and we all will go in awww of him...
break up track is far from over... it will end directly on sona's shaddišŸ˜†šŸ˜†šŸ˜†


That's a pipe dream really. Devakshi happening yes ofcourse.

Devs redemption.. Possible...

Devs maturity ... Not happening. His char has been made this way. He will take a decade or more to be remotely called emotionally mature. One can't become mature overnight.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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It was expected that they will handle this phase of their life with a little maturity considering how mature their relation/love was and the kind of understanding they both used to share with each other. I am disappointed to see the way both of them are showing grief.šŸ˜•
I mean i understand kind of situation lead Dev to break up and the way he handled it, gave biggest shock to Sonakshi. But now that after few days their senses are back. Both of them know how madly other person is in love, cannot they leave everything else aside and talk to each other like any other mature person??

But here these two are crossing all limits of being crazy like teenagers😲 god knows who will show them the right path and when? šŸ˜”

Edited by komal.100 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Beautiful, beautiful post. When the show started we knew there will be a break up due to Easwari insecurities..showing angst, anger and jealousy are ok as long as there is realization and growth at the end..here Dev is just stagnating at one place where he is not even willing t o understand or take responsibility for his actions that to me is not progress..showing Sona hurt and angry is justified in my opinion and her wanting to put all this behind and try to move on is the way real life happens..here I hope the makers don't butcher her character too by showing she is doing it to spite Dev ...all in all this looks like a mess created with really no show of how to redeem..and in all this Easwari is living in her own bubble😔
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Honestly, I just watched the episode and I am kind of speechless.. I SO agree with your points.. I expected an angry Dev to vent out his frustration and anger at everyone, but here he is channelizing it towards people in Sona's life including Sona ??!?!?!?!!?!!
I mean, I think I am done with this.. Instead of being ASHAMED of what he did, he has the guts to spoil people's lives..

Dev has touched a new low now.. And I am not sure if I continue shipping Devakshi now ! Sona deserves a better person in her life šŸ‘ŽšŸ¼ A guy who doesn't even have an IOTA of shame of what he did to Sona, sorry I can't root for a char like that..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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@pehchaan Kaun my girl hugs for your post as always please read my thoughts on other posts and comment
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: gemini54

Beautiful, beautiful post. When the show started we knew there will be a break up due to Easwari insecurities..showing angst, anger and jealousy are ok as long as there is realization and growth at the end..here Dev is just stagnating at one place where he is not even willing t o understand or take responsibility for his actions that to me is not progress..showing Sona hurt and angry is justified in my opinion and her wanting to put all this behind and try to move on is the way real life happens..here I hope the makers don't butcher her character too by showing she is doing it to spite Dev ...all in all this looks like a mess created with really no show of how to redeem..and in all this Easwari is living in her own bubble😔


šŸ¤— Gemini trust me I am so sad today šŸ˜’ this was the only show I was holding onto šŸ˜’

I hate Ishwari more with each passing day, and along with that, the CVs of this show !? I mean they are hell confusing šŸ˜• Is Dev ever gonna realize his mistake ? I expected Dev's helplessness to be triggered from an emotion of guilt, emotional turmoil to ponder over his decision and trying to re-write it, irrecoverable grief and a try to maintain the selfless act in front of his family... But now Dev's helplessness is triggered by his jealousy, Sona's try of move-on, his possessiveness and unable to continue controlling Sona.. šŸ˜• I mean I am kind of speechless..

I am really waiting for the episode where he breaks down and has a face-to-face interaction with his bare inner-self, no cheating, no dodging judgments of his actions, no consolation or justification of his acts to himself. Honestly I hope a day will come when he will get a knee-jerking revelations of himself when he comes to talk to his own-self.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: komal.100

It was expected that they will handle this phase of their life with a little maturity considering how mature their relation/love was and the kind of understanding they both used to share with each other. I am disappointed to see the way both of them are showing grief.šŸ˜•

I mean i understand kind of situation lead Dev to break up and the way he handled it, gave biggest shock to Sonakshi. But now that after few days their senses are back. Both of them know how madly other person is in love, cannot they leave everything else aside and talk to each other like any other mature person??

But here these two are crossing all limits of being crazy like teenagers😲 god knows who will show them the right path and when? šŸ˜”


Thats exactly what I am expecting after all these chaos ... But right now none of them are thinking clearly ...


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