Ishwari should seriously do some self introspection

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Honestly... today's episode of epic. really well taken but it was heights of unfairness. It was projected as if Dev was a villian because of his love story and to top it all Dev transferred it to Sona.
Now, Sona is the villian for all of them. When in reality Ishwari is dying with jealously on this new built relationship. I agree that there could be some things done to make things a little better for Ishwari. Instead of announcing their love, they could have gently asked for permission. Sona could have asked for Ashirwad and Permission instead of saying " ab tho main appki bahu banne vaali hu". Still a lot of people do not like that kind of aggression from DIL.

But what Ishwari did to get rid of her knowingly (more) or unknowingly was horrific. She should really sit back and do some introspection. Does she not like Sonakshi or does she not like any other woman in Dev's life?

The way she felt happy when Dev ridiculed that Halwa, she probably wants someone who Dev he hates as his wife so Ishwari can play the mediator between them...Is she planning to live as long as Dev lives so she can be with him forever??

It totally feels like Emotional Atyachar in the name of motherly love. Unfair.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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right I agree. yes mothers are possessive of their sons and probably resent their DIL a little. but every mother knows that the son would marry some day because of love or arrangement. but ishwari seems to be living a delusional world where only she exist with her son and nobody else.

ishwari relationship with dev is positively unhealthy and until unless she realises the boundaries and importance of every relations a human can have as a social animal either she or dev are bound to be eternally unhappy.


I hope she realises her mistake soon and how much unhappiness she is causing her own son
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Yup...its totally because of ishwari maan that dev is unable to take any rational decision at all!!! when it comes to anything related to his maan,all his senses are blinded n numbed!! and this is Mr.Dev Dixit for u..this is exactly the flawed character that has been portrayed!! maataaa..ufff...koi toh iska screw tight krdo!! 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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My dad and grand mother went through a similar story like Ishwari and Dev. My dad lost his dad when he was 7 yrs old and his mother went through hell to bring the 2 kids up They were possessive towards each other but my GM never did come in between my Mom and Dad. Yes, there were probably times when she got more attention than my mom did from my dad but this serial is extreme.
The way Ishwari treated Sona's parents was insulting. When her daughter loved Ranveer, she did not think she "Challavu chakkar with him" but she could easily say that to someone else's dad about their daughter. Would Dev or Ishwari agree if Ranveer's parents said that about her?

Such screwed up relationship... And when Mami is talking about Sona, the 2 girls could not defend her or none of them could pursue their mom to talk more about Sona. Usually mothers share things with girls when it is about Son or his wife. But that relationship never existed between the 3 girls of the house and Ishwari.
Edited by kalyas - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I'm not kidding around when I say that Ishwari really needs to see a therapist. Her rash decision-making, and thoughts are not healthy for your mind. Totally agree with you.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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she needs a psychological therapist to help her overcome her insecurities
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: kalyas

Honestly... today's episode of epic. really well taken but it was heights of unfairness. It was projected as if Dev was a villian because of his love story and to top it all Dev transferred it to Sona.

Now, Sona is the villian for all of them. When in reality Ishwari is dying with jealously on this new built relationship. I agree that there could be some things done to make things a little better for Ishwari. Instead of announcing their love, they could have gently asked for permission. Sona could have asked for Ashirwad and Permission instead of saying " ab tho main appki bahu banne vaali hu". Still a lot of people do not like that kind of aggression from DIL.

But what Ishwari did to get rid of her knowingly (more) or unknowingly was horrific. She should really sit back and do some introspection. Does she not like Sonakshi or does she not like any other woman in Dev's life?

The way she felt happy when Dev ridiculed that Halwa, she probably wants someone who Dev he hates as his wife so Ishwari can play the mediator between them...Is she planning to live as long as Dev lives so she can be with him forever??

It totally feels like Emotional Atyachar in the name of motherly love. Unfair.



Ishwari needs psychiatrist help for many reasons, below few listed -

1) she hates to share her son with his GF - wow
2) she insults Sona on face that she came for job and her own daughter Neha marries teacher to whom she went to study
3) she says children decide regd marriage and elders hv to just give blessing then what happened in Nehas case ?
4) if her MIL wouldn't hv shared her son, how ms Ishwari would hv given birth to Dev...



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Posted: 9 years ago
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She seriously needs rehab, therapy and counselling.
Alternatively she can go to Siberia salt camp for vacation!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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At this point I'm not able to think straight!
I think they ruined the plot somewhere yesterday. Till yesterday every character had some flaw or the other...and Ishwari's has too much of them. Sona being pushy/forceful was also getting there..but then all of a sudden the writers have decided to shift the focus on Dev. And what did they do with him???...his character has taken a deep plunge. And am not sure how they are going to justify this. Am hoping that they have something concrete for us to actually understand & relate to his actions.

She should really sit back and do some introspection. The time will definitely come for Ishwari to do the same & she should repent every single move she made which has created so much chaos in Dev & Sona's life.

Does she not like Sonakshi or does she not like any other woman in Dev's life? I hope that the writers stick to the fact that she doesn't like Sona. If Ishwari agrees for another woman to walk into Dev's life or if she doesn't want to share Dev with anyone then I might just throw up! 🤔
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Actually she has started doing that.. this introspection only is forcing her into sleepless nights.. she does not realise that pill do not solve a problem.. she will continue to be tormented till she herself gets the answers she is looking for - why am i not happy for my son?

she will do all sorts of things to reach the answer, including trying to clear her guilt of breaking Sona's heart.. after all Ishwari is also a woman.. it will take time ( and we just have to bear up with this discovery process) till one day, the truth unravels.. she will begin to see her own selfishness as clear as crystal clean water.

it is said that human beings are made in the image of GOD.. and there is no one fundamentally bad.. GOD has placed HIS control system inside every human being and that is the heart.. at some time or the other, the heart will have its way in life.. for most it is at the fag end of their life, but blessed are those whose heart directs them right from the days of their youth..

it is important to clean one's heart each day before going to bed. cast out all the muck and filth that we collect during the day...


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