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Ok guys... I know the whole forum is heartbroken and sad. Today our DevAkshi are not one. But they are Dev Dixit and Sonakshi Bose again. They are separated. And my love Sona don't deserve the way she was treated today. She is the only right person in all this. I am going to make a separate post on Sona for what i feel.
Here i am once again to share my POV on Dev's character. I must tell you before writing that i am not in his favor at all. He was plain rude to our Sona. He was mean. He was selfish. And he was a complete let down today. But when i think of the real world, people behave the same way in our world. Don't you think so.
Ok let me tell you what i feel made Dev do this. Or be rude to Sona.
1. When mamaji said Ishwari don't like Sonakshi. Tell me where were you when this happened he told him he was with Sona. And reality strike that this was the reason she took sleeping pills in stress. Mamaji clearly said this happened because of it only.
2. When Doctor said its good you bought her on time. Else it could have been a cardiac arrest. She had an overdose of sleeping pills. Here he got scared... A thought that he could have lost his mum today came in his mind.
3. He heard his mother saying she's not happy in her son's happiness. She failed as a mother. This again made him guilty.
4. The guilt of hurting his God as he said i was hurting my God for so long and couldn't even understand.
Can we really think he would have behaved normal in these circumstances. The man who only think of his mother before anything else just realised he could have lost her today. Only thing he can think is he was at fault. It was all his fault.
Was he really in his senses. First of all when he was talking to mamaji and said i don't want to talk about Sonakshi now, just want to know how is my mother now. For me till this time the thought of breakup was not in his mind. But when doctor said she took sleeping pills overdose. It could have been a cardiac arrest. That's it. Here came the blow and what he only thought was to set the things like it was earlier.
When you are in a situation like this in real life. You don't know how will you behave. What will you say to person who'll come infront of you that time. You lose all your senses. This happened with Dev's character today.
Dev Dixit is a man with many many many flaws and i have accepted this character the way it is and i think we all have.
We all know this is a fictional show. But that does not mean the characters should behave the way we want them to. What will be the difference between our show and other shows if the makers will start portraying the characters the way we want to see them and not the way they have written the characters. We didn't want perfect characters. We wanted to see reality. We wanted to see real characters. And real characters are not God but human beings with flaws and Dev is one such human with many many flaws in him.
We love this show because they show us the harsh reality of real world. They way real world people are. And today we want them to portray the character according to our wish then how will it remain realistic. And if we wanted realistic show then why are we not accepting the reality.
Look this is the time we are angry and taking out our frustration on CVs and Dev's character. Same is happening with Dev's character and he reacted.
I don't know how many of you will agree or disagree with me. But i want you all to share your POVs here.
And i have a strong opinion that Dev was totally wrong. The way he behaved. He was plain rude. And arrogant Awbodhro. A pure let down to me. Now he'll have to try hard. He'll have to suffer more than what Sona has gone through even before their relationship and after that for so many days. I want him to realise her worth. I want him to go through the pain she has gone through. To experience the humiliation she has experienced.
And now i am looking forward to their struggle. Where a strong, confident and amazing girl and an emotionally vunerable and flawed man will make their relationship work out.
Once again want to tell you all i am not at all justifying the character or his actions. But i have accepted him with these flaws. I have accepted the harsh reality.
One more thing i want to add here. Do you all really feel if he would have calmly told Sona that they should breakup, she would have left him? And the answer is no. Never. She would have been still there for him. He gave her strong reasons to hate him now. To move on. Else sshe would have been stuck with him. And now he will not be able to move on or think beyond her but this heart break will make her more strong and determined to move forward leaving behind the past.
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