Decisions determine destiny!!!

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A quick philosophy.. 😉
When you define yourself as someone based on your decisions, then you will know your destiny...
If you let the circumstances define you, then you can get lost and completely go out of your character...🤓

Baaba (Bijoy Bose) takes away the gold medal for today👏... He didn't interfere in Sona's decisions.. It could be his experience speaking otherwise for Sona's situation and he could have known people of that sorts.. But he didn't let his own experiences influence Sona's decisions.. He didn't push his philosophy hard on her.. And he didn't pass any judgement.. He just shared his wisdom in an excellent manner👏🤗... What a way to keep one's kids to come to you for support whenever the kid feels lost or worried🤗... Amidst this he didn't fail to convey the strong message to his daughter about how he's always on the guard for his kid and if need be, he will not wait to attack the enemies who's making his daughter feel low about herself👍🏼... Can this baaba be anytime taken away from the kid's life?! It's a big loss to the kidoo... As a father, Bijoy would have been the first hero to Sona.. And he's not been threatened with a newfound hero in his daughter's life.. He didn't simply judge the situation to conclude and didn't use the circumstances against Dev.. He sure must have been hurt on knowing his upbringing of a strong girl being shook by this boy.. And he has every right to be angry with Dev who pushed his daughter into this state.. But he just stayed calm not wanting to upset Sona more.. Instead he reminded her of her real power to see things for herself, by putt ing forth his perspective.. And probed her to get into the root of it... Not to run and hide just because of certain norms expected from her as a girl... The value that he brings to his daughter's life as a father is irreplaceable👏... He's confident in his own skin as a lovely father and very secure about his role...
Here his consistent decisions determine his destiny and he knows what's in store for him...👍🏼

And Sonakshi is doing absolutely great under such a clear support system...⭐️

Ishwari, if you think that someone can come and replace your position.. feel like being threatened🥱.. And you are in need of a constant way of reminding your son about your role then it's time to start thinking about where's the gap.. it's neither because of your son's innocent soul that is straightforwardly accepting any X or Y in his life 🤪nor because of Sona's fast-food type nature that have done some magic on your son's life😆... If you are not confident in your own motherly bond with your son and need to prove it with your cooking and caring for him every now and then.. And that too not without being compared with another person who can do the same (and you are doing it for yourself okay..)... Then you sure gotta be insecure.. Go do it all to retain your chair... Because you need those sleepless nights to plan for ways to secure your seat.. day and night, you're gonna be tired of doing only this🤪... Your random move based on circumstances determine your unstable destiny where you never know what you are to expect...


And Dev is completely getting lost under such confused support system...🤪

Should I look for an institute for you, Ish to enroll in "Management in scheming and plotting" course to make things easier?!😆


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Love your style of writing..succinct and beautiful!
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Wonderful post. Till now i saw many times many people were saying that Bose family is present in this show as filler or comic relief. NO. They are here to teach us actual LIFE LESSONs on how a family should look like and function like.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: gemini54

Love your style of writing..succinct and beautiful!

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The show has a mixed of characters which make us want to wonder about them one way or the other.. I am looking forward to see the Bose family's maturity in handling situations which are not in their favor..
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Originally posted by: LiveLife321

Wonderful post. Till now i saw many times many people were saying that Bose family is present in this show as filler or comic relief. NO. They are here to teach us actual LIFE LESSONs on how a family should look like and function like.

Bose family is THE one every one of the aspiring parent want to be.. As the saying goes anyone can become a father/mother of a child .. It takes lot more to actually become a family for the child..😃
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Originally posted by: Push-pull

Bose family is THE one every one of the aspiring parent want to be.. As the saying goes anyone can become a father/mother of a child .. It takes lot more to actually become a family for the child..😃

So true. And see the Irony of life, one side a family is the strength of their kid and on the other side a family is the weakness of their kid. Sona is such a blessed child and Dev is such a cursed child.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: LiveLife321

Wonderful post. Till now i saw many times many people were saying that Bose family is present in this show as filler or comic relief. NO. They are here to teach us actual LIFE LESSONs on how a family should look like and function like.


I thought there was something wrong with me when I used to enjoy every scene of the Bose family... I used to be engrossed with them. but could not make a connect between them and the show... Now things seem to be falling in place... I love the Bose family...
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Originally posted by: LiveLife321

So true. And see the Irony of life, one side a family is the strength of their kid and on the other side a family is the weakness of their kid. Sona is such a blessed child and Dev is such a cursed child.

If only Ishwari knows how much her love for her son is making him so alone in this world... Being alone is not at all a problem.. but feeling lonely amidst so many people... It's sure a curse... All the while when Dev was focused only on his family, he might've not even felt bad for being alone... Sure he had his own struggles but he found one or the other ways as workarounds.. now that he has felt a companionship and fallen in love with the flow of it, it's gonna be lot more difficult to get out of the loneliness.. and when he's forced to choose that option.. what else can we say.. He's a man of weakness and limited strengths of his own...
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I thought there was something wrong with me when I used to enjoy every scene of the Bose family... I used to be engrossed with them. but could not make a connect between them and the show... Now things seem to be falling in place... I love the Bose family...

I would really applaud for the Bose family when they would stand by her during her difficult times👏.. And I would really love to see a Sona who holds her strength in front of the Dixits' and only breaks down in front of her family.. In front of Dev?! I don't want sona to breakdown in front of Dev..🤔
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Originally posted by: Push-pull

I would really applaud for the Bose family when they would stand by her during her difficult times👏.. And I would really love to see a Sona who holds her strength in front of the Dixits' and only breaks down in front of her family.. In front of Dev?! I don't want sona to breakdown in front of Dev..🤔


True that... Sona should only breakdown in her own room as every strong person does. In the confines of themselves. On the contrary I want Dev to breakdown in front of her. He would have hurt her so badly... And only genuine tears from the man would be a small form of remorse. btw, a strong man is he who can shed genuine tears of remorse. It is not weakness.

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