Learn from the mistakes

Originally posted by: FLW70

Nice post...right now Ishwari is doing all these things cunningly ...in her insecurity ...possessiveness ...or may be because of instigated by RR...whatever may be the reason...but the day she will realise ( I hope she realises n that day comes very soon)...how will she face herself n Devakshi ...

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

Very nice post. Today I made a bashing post on Ishwari after reading the updates.. But when I saw the episode, the picture was quite mixed..

Today I could finally see an Ishwari who is TRYING ! The scene where she gives in to Sona and agrees to teach her Besan ka Halwa was so cute as it's Besan ka halwa, first ingredient Besan 😆

And then the scene with GKB.. She didn't fake taking Sona's side.. In fact she was assuring herself too that it's just first time, doesnt matter.. 👏

And then in front of Dev, yes she was happy just for a sec that Dev recognized it's not made by her, but when she said it's not that bad, I felt she said it from her heart.. And before coming to Dev, she was also skeptical and kept looking at Sona with a sad face.. 🤔 She didn't quite enjoy the whole part of Sona getting hurt.. She gestured Dev to pacify Sona that was nice too And there was no smirk or evilness in her behavior today.. She was just pretty embarrassed about the whole situation.. Which is indeed quite embarrassing really 😆

I agree that her not informing Sona about the taste was not good.. But Sona's not calling Ishwari to taste the Halwa once it was done was also bad.. If I learnt something from someone, won't I get it reviewed by my teacher once I complete it ? 🤔 Very bad move from Sona's part not to involve Ishwari for tasting it first.. Honestly, if I teach something to someone, I would be pretty irked if the person makes some unnecessary changes to that specially when her skill is zero in it and I am good at it and also if I am not informed/asked to verify the outcome once the work is done.. And Sona did both .. 2 score down.. 😔

And TOTALLY agree with the part that few things are better left unchanged ! It's very important to give space to every relationship.. 😳 Dev is really choking Sonakshi on Ishwari's throat.. What's this taking Sona everywhere, not doing anything without Sona.. OMG, this is really suffocating.. And is Dev THAT dumb telling Ishwari that Sona wants to change EVERYTHING about him now ?? 😵 Stupidity at its best.. Honestly, it's Dev who is worsening the situation.. Agree he is in love blah blah, but let's not override the existing relationships.. Take your mom out for ice-cream in that particular shop only, spend some time with her for shopping, don't alter the birthday shopping plans.. Sona is pretty mature than Dev, which is why I was shocked today that why she is trying to mess up the FEW special things Ishwari has with Dev.. Make 10000 other dishes na.. Why Besan ka halwa man 😆 Try some different dish and excel in it and let Dev appreciate it like hell life-long, I dont think Ishwari will mind..

In some places, it's better to lose in the competition to win the final war.. There are some areas where Ishwari excels, like cooking, let her always rule there.. And then there are some where Sona is unparalleled.. Ishwari won't dare challenge those areas.. From my personal experience, I am very bad at cooking, so I never even tried to make anyone happy in my family with cooking, and I left it on my MIL 😊 And I BET this is working so good so far 🤗 She is SO happy feeding everyone including me and she makes all the food which I love when I visit her, and most importantly, happily.. I confess how I suck at it (which I do), and how good she is, and she is happy

Thanks for sharing ur personal experiance , and agree with you there . I am so fortunate to have a a very nice, sensible MIL , she knows I am a good cook and always seeks my opinions too when she do the cooking when she visits me ,but there are some signature dishes of her which my hubby loves , although I can find it in google, I call her and ask for the recipe and even if it comes out good , I would tell her he said its not as good as you make ... I know it would make her smile 😊 .

😎 Sometimes it's not about competition, it's about appreciating the skills where people excel and let it be.. Relationships work well this way and very seldom it hurts anyone !

Originally posted by: randomramblings

Sona dear you made a gravest mistake.

1. you knew that you cannot cook, then why try the special recipe of Eshwari?

2. if you really wanted to impress Eshwari, wouldn't it have been better you asked her to show you how to make it and then stand next to her like any other obedient student and see how she makes it . seriously !!! you want to make it on your own ever after hearing her telling Bhola bhaiyya that cooking is an art, and more so cooking in a way that Dev likes!!!.

3. any one who attempts a receipe for the first time, will never try to make alterations to the proportions of the ingredients. how could you miss this simple point.

4. Last but not least, could you not taste your own preparation before you plate it???? You very well know that you suck at cooking. What was the necessity to be over confident...

Get a grip girl, we very well understand that you want to bond with Eshwari but think first on what should be your plan of action as Dev always says before you act.

Originally posted by: Devakshilover

Absolutely agreed

Originally posted by: ...MonaCo...

Good post...👏 I see Sona and Dev overenthusiastic at times, and like you said, they are shoving the changes way too fast down Ishwari's throat... Copy pasting my response from another thread:

Ishwari probably just was upset that Sona refuted her authority in making the halwa as Dev likes it. It's not that her recipe was wrong, it was Sona's conscious decision to reduce sugar and ghee, that caused it to be "bad". Ishwari was hurt (an

God I'll be honest, I will be too). If you ask me something, you better do it the way I teach you, and if you know a better way to do it, deal with the consequences. I guess that was Ishwari's attitude today - kiya hai to khud hi dekh lo, ya bhukto. At the same time, she didn't want Dev to be rude to her, she just wanted to make a point. Sona is a novice when it comes to cooking, and she knows that.

And biggest question is, why didnt she taste the halwa herself? She would've known it is disgusting too.

Ishwari didn't do anything slyly here - she didn't ruin Sona's halwa just to show her bad in Dev's eyes. She simply let Sona bear the brunt of a choice she made, to make her point.

And If I got it right, her whole point to make halwa was to bond with Ishwari, so she should have kept her smartness aside. I may be mistaken but she wanted to impress Ishwari, so she should have not messed with her recipe. My POV.