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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Khusharni

Okay, I understand sometimes why Sona stays quiet infront of RR because she doesn't have to stoop to her level and ruin her day, I get that.

BUT THAT LADY WAS GOING ON HER PHONE AND SHE DIDNT SAY ANYTHING. AND THEN THEY JUST GO ON TO THE NEXT SCENE! HOW CAN THEY DO THAT?!
I'm so furious with that scene and it makes me even more mad because Ishwari for the sake of her bhabhi, stayed quite. I mean, there's a limit to how much Sona should take. This is straight up nonsense and Sona should have stopped her or at least Ishwari should have. I don't know why the writers put that scene in, it really had no purpose, yet they did and I can't believe they did. They are ruining Sona by letting her take such insults everyday from a lady who can't even teach her kid how to respect women.😡😡
Why should she have to wait for Dev to see this nonsense to say stfu to RR? Sona is suppose to be this girl who fights for what she wants and doesn't take anyone's nonsense, what happened to that?!
I hope they show her say something back AT LEAST ONCE, because seriously that was unacceptable for me. I need her to say go up to RR, and say STFU because she is there to do her job, not take annoying insults and disrespectful taunts.
Just had to rant, don't mean to offend anyone.


This is what my complaint is with the show. At times the conflicts are so contrived/dramatic and unrealistic that it ends up weakening the chars. In this instance Sona looks like a complete weakling who cannot even defend her phone privacy. Ishwari just shrugs. The whole scene left a bit of a bad taste in my mouth. It made both Ishwari and Sona weak and Ishwari bad as well in allowing RR and giving tacit approval.
Edited by spacenoxx - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld


These days even our own family members dont check calls or messages that we get. The so called personal space is not just meant for men , it is also meant for women. Dev is also always checking his phone .. would she have dared to do that with him ?? !! When they all doubt that something is going on between these two,why target the lady and make her show as some weak person.

Why is it necessary to show women weak ? Does that mean strong women dont come with good moral values ?? Only if she is quiet , submissive , can cook well , be nice , be polite , dont speak loudly etc will she be given the credit of being a good lady ??

This serial stood out from others for the reason that it broke the so called concept that "THE WAY TO A MANS HEART IS THRU HIS STOMACH" . Here the lead lady doesnt know to cook and the man is OK WITH THAT ..he has no concerns about it . He fell in love with the human being she is .

So in that case why portray her like the way they showed yesterday and contradict her character ?? It was irritating and absolutely humiliating !!


WORD. A strong female character is what attracted us in the first place, even today, I like Sonakshi's character much more than Dev.. But that scene was included just for the thrills and seemed totally unnecessary and irritating.. it has had the opposite effect on me, by just making me pissed off with all the characters involved RR, Sona and Ishwari.
We were getting old Sonakshi back in the recent episodes where she politely stood her ground even when she disagreed.. this scene was a step back.. hope it's not repeated in the future
Edited by Malvika07 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Indian TV has such a ridiculously skewed definition of 'good' and 'bad'. You become the ideal bahu only if you are enlightened enough to never retaliate to any insult, be ready to sacrifice even your own husband and kids for others happiness etc 😆 Common CVS. You are not really competing with the TRP toppers anyway. There is a difference between being respectful and dignified and being a certified doormat. You have long crossed that line. Even if Sona was a servant at the Dixit household, RR had no business doing what she did yesterday. And for gods sake, can she stop working there? Before a marriage or proposal or whatever, Dev needs to recognize that the poor girl deserves to work in a professional set up and not be a glorified servant at his house. But am not sure he ever will. For all the love he professes, I don't think he realises that there is something called self respect and there are ppl who fiercely guard it. Doesn't make you any less of a human. But Dev wouldn't get that. That also explains his behaviour with Ranveer and the fact that he fails to see Sona deserves better.
Edited by rogerrocks - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: rogerrocks

Indian TV has such a ridiculously skewed definition of 'good' and'bad'. You become the ideal bahu only if you are enlightened enough to never retaliate to any insult, be ready to sacrifice even your own husband and kids for others happiness etc 😆 Common CVS. You are not really competing with the TRIP toppers anyway. There is a difference between being respectful and dignified and being a certified doormat. You have long crossed that line. Even if Sona was a servant at the Dixit household, RR had no business doing what she did yesterday. And for gods sake, can she stop working there? Before a marriage or proposal or whatever, Dev needs to recognize that the poor girl deserves to work in a professional set up and not be a glorified servant at his house. But am not sure he ever will. For all the love he professes, I don't think he realises that there is something called self respect and there are ppl who fiercely guard it. Doesn't make you any less of a human. But Dev wouldn't get that. That also explains his behaviour with Ranveer and the fact that he fails to see Sona deserves better.


WORD!! Very well said. Every point makes perfect sense.

Also you get brownie points for using "Doormat"😉😉😉 I use it for Dev buy it is equally applicable to Sona.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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My only question to writers is, when are we going to see Dr.Bose out of Dixit's house? I was not annoyed with RR's behavior in y'day episode because we all know what kind of person she is and she don't even think for a second before doing these kind of cheap things. What annoyed me more was the way Sona reacted and how Eshwari ji was sitting & watching that whole drama? First Sona's "Ohh no" and then how helplessly she was pleading RR. Similar kind of situation was there in previous episodes where she was mixing atta and her mom called her to remind her about her meeting with Kunal. She attended her call & spoke with her mom by keeping the phone on speaker. Can't she at least cut the call now?

Dear writers, What are you guys trying to convey us through this scene? If the whole purpose of this scene is to create nail-biting drama then let us say your idea is really pathetic and flop. Please give us a break and tell us where is Dr. Sonakshi Bose? For god sake, She is Dr.Bose and not a maid at Dixit's house? People are loving this show for its QUALITY CONTENT and for its CLASS. We request you not to degrade its quality with these kind of scenes in future.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Thank you for this post! I was appalled and so freaking angry at that scene! 😡

And then how this GKB went on to imply Sonakshi ka 'chakar chal raha hai' like what the hell 😕 And I can't believe Ishwari didn't say anything?! Sick of how Sonakhi just seems to be taking everything in stride to keep the calm, I say enough is enough!

Tbh I want a change of scene for Sona, I want her out of the Dixit house. Need to see DeVakshi pining away for each other and Sona and I both need a break from this GKB 🥱
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: LiveLife321

My only question to writers is, when are we going to see Dr.Bose out of Dixit's house? I was not annoyed with RR's behavior in y'day episode because we all know what kind of person she is and she don't even think for a second before doing these kind of cheap things. What annoyed me more was the way Sona reacted and how Eshwari ji was sitting & watching that whole drama? First Sona's "Ohh no" and then how helplessly she was pleading RR. Similar kind of situation was there in previous episodes where she was mixing atta and her mom called her to remind her about her meeting with Kunal. She attended her call & spoke with her mom by keeping the phone on speaker. Can't she at least cut the call now?


Dear writers, What are you guys trying to convey us through this scene? If the whole purpose of this scene is to create nail-biting drama then let us say your idea is really pathetic and flop. Please give us a break and tell us where is Dr. Sonakshi Bose? For god sake, She is Dr.Bose and not a maid at Dixit's house? People are loving this show for its QUALITY CONTENT and for its CLASS. We request you not to degrade its quality with these kind of scenes in future.

Thank you for asking the ultimate question.that is bothering me since so many Episodes.I mean the question you asked." Where is Dr. Sonakshi Bose? "
Nowadays her regular time table happens to be
A scene in the morning with Elena or any other Family member
Reaching Dixit house wishing good morning. Venue may change either Dev's room or his Exercise spot.or the Dining table or wherever it might be.
Just trying to tell a reluctant Iswari not to strain herself or offering to help her in domestic work.
Asking her why she is miffed with her
Enduring GKB even when she crosses all the limits.( Case in point yesterday's Phone sequence)
In the evening again a date with Dev in the car or in his house or at a cafe
It is highly possible in her day's schedule one preaching session will be included.
Good night conversation with Dev

I don't know what creativity is shown in moving the story forward. Nothing except the above scenes
Rehashed again and again.
Still a small glint of hope is there that the initial promos which promised a great story ahead will certainly unfold. Atleast for Shaheer's sake I hope so.




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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hope some one from the CV team reads these posts . So many ppl have said abt this . Very much want that professional Sonakshi back . They have anyways taken the risk of showing a strong professional woman , then why dont they continue with that image for Sonakshi. I really hope they dont make her like all the DILs of other serials ( Super women, who cook so many different variety of food , clean the house, keep every one happy , have a smile on the face , cry alone, hide her saddness,wash the clothes , etc etc and at the end of the day when her husband comes home ,still look all dressed up as if she is going to go for party😡 )
Edited by WeRockTheWorld - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I checked Twitter some have tweeted to Mamta mam reg the issue.Hope CV's take a call soon.Want some more shades in Sona character.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: VIMAL.M

I checked Twitter some have tweeted to Mamta mam reg the issue.Hope CV's take a call soon.Want some more shades in Sona character.


Let us hope for the best

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