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Neha's missing something.. Sona asked Dev "is she missing her family?"😉 Dev knew that's the normal situation and thats what any normal girl would be missing after they go to their in-laws family.. And here he knows thats not the case with his sister.. He knows her well enough to understand what's she's gonna miss..😊

She came home to her family and she didn't miss her family.. Not the sisters, not the mother and not her brother... She's way beyond the thought of missing any of the emotional attachment that she has with her family.. May be her emotional attachment lies somewhere else for now for which she's deprived of ag present.. The comfort of her own room or space... Ranveer is there to be called her own now but there's not much that she could have felt better that makes her want to go back to the place where she's yet to make a space for herself... 🤔

Yellow yellow dirty fellow😆.. Just for the rhyming feel😆.. Dev and Ranveer in shades of yellow and getting into an argument.. There's very little time till when they can hold their temper under control... The more Dev pushes him the more he's gonna retract... And in all this how long is Neha gonna hold herself together?!🤔

Sonakshi is made to be capable of being another Ishwari😆!!! When Dev chose not to tell about his 'flat' gift, the way Sona asked him "And you didn't tell me" I thought may be they gave Ishwari's dialogue paper to her🤪... Dev clearly said it.. "Because you are not gonna agree to it" This is the thing.. Dev's sharing gets limited here... He should be wanting to tell/share.. If you force or expect him to tell everything then naa.. You are bound to have your share of disappointments😉... The 'want' has to be there... Sona as a friend didn't have the expectations and didn't make him tell everything.. He had the pull on her making him 'wanted' to tell everything.. If Sona starts pushing him too much to tell then she's gotta know what she's doing.. Hope she remains as a friend to him amidst all this chaos that she's putting herself through... Girl, you gotta keep it simple too.. 😉

Dev knows Neha very well in that way.. She doesn't have room for other emotions when the base emotion related to her physical comfort gets a hit.. And he sure knows that it might come out as a negative impact if that part is not taken care of.. Unless he gets a strong feeling that Neha is a changed person just like him after falling in love...

Like Ishwari said did Ranveer really made the transformation in Neha?! And does Ranveer really know her in and out? Gotta wait and watch!!! Till then I wouldn't mind seeing Dev trying whatever he could because he's got nothing to lose until Neha asks him stop!!! Dev and Ishwari might be impressed with Ranveer's way of doing things on his own with own principles.. But what if Neha isn't!!!😕

And when Ishwari is so proud of Ranveer for bringing in a change in Neha, the same is not acceptable in case of the changes that Sona brings about Dev😆😉!!! Neha has a lot of room for improvement but Dev doesn't.. In her book, Dev is just perfect and no room for change required in him😉.. Because if that happens the first hit will be on her state and her bubble breaks... She has to make the adjustments for the changes coming her way!!! Can she?! She's too worried that if she raises her hand someone else comes to hold it.. Just like that she can lose the hold of her hands on her son's!!! She can't stop her son from raising his hand and can only try stopping others from holding it... Can she?!❓

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Push-pull

Sonakshi is made to be capable of being another Ishwari😆!!! When Dev chose not to tell about his 'flat' gift, the way Sona asked him "And you didn't tell me" I thought may be they gave Ishwari's dialogue paper to her🤪... Dev clearly said it.. "Because you are not gonna agree to it" This is the thing.. Dev's sharing gets limited here... He should be wanting to tell/share.. If you force or expect him to tell everything then naa.. You are bound to have your share of disappointments😉... The 'want' has to be there... Sona as a friend didn't have the expectations and didn't make him tell everything.. He had the pull on her making him 'wanted' to tell everything.. If Sona starts pushing him too much to tell then she's gotta know what she's doing.. Hope she remains as a friend to him amidst all this chaos that she's putting herself through... Girl, you gotta keep it simple too.. 😉

Over all its a wonderful episode. The only dialogue that irked me was "And you didn't tell me?". It was just unlike Sona and more like Eshwari. I just hope writers are not in the process of making one more Eshwari out of Sona :-). One Eshwari in this show is enough to scare us. If she thinks he did the same mistake like before(lehanga drama) then she too did the same mistake like before by judging him without understanding his pov(ranveer's job offer drama). Any way at the end of the day they understood that we can always Agree to Disagree. Hope they wont forget this in future.
Irrespective of all relations and responsibilities in life, i feel everyone will have their own personal space. We only allow others in to that space when we are sure that they are not going to be judgmental about our povs and when we think they will listen to us with open mind. Till she was a friend to Dev, she was always listened to him with open mind. Thats the reason why he never hesitated to share his personal issues with her. I just hope she wont loose that wonderful quality of her which keeps her different from others.

And when Ishwari is so proud of Ranveer for bringing in a change in Neha, the same is not acceptable in case of the changes that Sona brings about Dev😆😉!!! Neha has a lot of room for improvement but Dev doesn't.. In her book, Dev is just perfect and no room for change required in him😉.. Because if that happens the first hit will be on her state and her bubble breaks... She has to make the adjustments for the changes coming her way!!! Can she?! She's too worried that if she raises her hand someone else comes to hold it.. Just like that she can lose the hold of her hands on her son's!!! She can't stop her son from raising his hand and can only try stopping others from holding it... Can she?!❓

Bang on. Eshwari ji given us and Neha so much gyaan about how Ranveer broguht good change in Neha. Lets wait & see when maa will understand that its easy to give gyaan to others and difficult to follow. Hmmm.. In Eshwari's book of love, she has different set of rules, theories & gyaan for Neha and Dev.

Wonderful analysis.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Over all its a wonderful episode. The only dialogue that irked me was "And you didn't tell me?". It was just unlike Sona and more like Eshwari. I just hope writers are not in the process of making one more Eshwari out of Sona :-). One Eshwari in this show is enough to scare us. If she thinks he did the same mistake like before(lehanga drama) then she too did the same mistake like before by judging him without understanding his pov(ranveer's job offer drama). Any way at the end of the day they understood that we can always Agree to Disagree. Hope they wont forget this in future.
Irrespective of all relations and responsibilities in life, i feel everyone will have their own personal space. We only allow others in to that space when we are sure that they are not going to be judgmental about our povs and when we think they will listen to us with open mind. Till she was a friend to Dev, she was always listened to him with open mind. Thats the reason why he never hesitated to share his personal issues with her. I just hope she wont loose that wonderful quality of her which keeps her different from others.

Bang on. Eshwari ji given us and Neha so much gyaan about how Ranveer broguht good change in Neha. Lets wait & see when maa will understand that its easy to give gyaan to others and difficult to follow. Hmmm.. In Eshwari's book of love, she has different set of rules, theories & gyaan for Neha and Dev.
Wonderful analysis.

At this point in time I would literally want Sona to be out of that house no matter how it happens.. And have her stop roaming around looking for someone to be healed in that house.. Dev is more than enough for to keep her hands full...
Anyway Ishwari is not gonna take her lightly and gonna give tough time to her simple and understanding nature... And Dev will have the faintest clue about it.
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Originally posted by: Push-pull

At this point in time I would literally want Sona to be out of that house no matter how it happens.. And have her stop roaming around looking for someone to be healed in that house.. Dev is more than enough for to keep her hands full...

Anyway Ishwari is not gonna take her lightly and gonna give tough time to her simple and understanding nature... And Dev will have the faintest clue about it.

So true. this is the first and foremost wish of mine too(i think for many too) at present. I felt like knowingly or unknowingly every one at Dixit's house are taking Sona's presence for granted. I can understand dev's pov in hiding their relation from others, he can have his own set of reasons but i really feel Sona doesn't deserve all these taunts from GKB/Eshwari. Let her join back to hospital ASAP and may be thats when the actual story will kick start.
Even while handling dev, i really dont want her to enter in to their messy situations or cleaning the mess. Let her be his support/guide by presenting her povs without being judgmental in case if she feel that he is not doing right.
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Originally posted by: LiveLife321

So true. this is the first and foremost wish of mine too(i think for many too) at present. I felt like knowingly or unknowingly every one at Dixit's house are taking Sona's presence for granted. I can understand dev's pov in hiding their relation from others, he can have his own set of reasons but i really feel Sona doesn't deserve all these taunts from GKB/Eshwari. Let her join back to hospital ASAP and may be thats when the actual story will kick start.
Even while handling dev, i really dont want her to enter in to their messy situations or cleaning the mess. Let her be his support/guide by presenting her povs without being judgmental in case if she feel that he is not doing right.

I adore Sona.. And I empathize with Ishwari.. I can understand Dev and his shortcomings.. Though I wouldn't want a hit on Neha 'S character I would like to see Dev being correct about his decision for her in this case. Just so that his two favorite women can shut themselves up at times. 😆
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I adore Sona.. And I empathize with Ishwari.. I can understand Dev and his shortcomings.. Though I wouldn't want a hit on Neha 'S character I would like to see Dev being correct about his decision for her in this case. Just so that his two favorite women can shut themselves up at times. 😆 Word 😊

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Radharani is the least of my worries in the whole bunch of the Dixit house.. I would like to enjoy the raging effect of Ishwari because of the strong effect of Sona on Dev.. And I was very much waiting for the way they are gonna handle Ishwari and her inner emotions.. Looks like I am now seeing a typical MIL in action against her DIL...😆 anyway hoping to wait and watch...
It should have been a complete deal between Dev and Ishwari... Just hoping that it's not too late now as well.. Sona knowing the real thing behind Ishwari, better leave it to the mother-son duo to handle their conflict of emotions... 😉
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Originally posted by: LiveLife321

So true. this is the first and foremost wish of mine too(i think for many too) at present. I felt like knowingly or unknowingly every one at Dixit's house are taking Sona's presence for granted. I can understand dev's pov in hiding their relation from others, he can have his own set of reasons but i really feel Sona doesn't deserve all these taunts from GKB/Eshwari. Let her join back to hospital ASAP and may be thats when the actual story will kick start.
Even while handling dev, i really dont want her to enter in to their messy situations or cleaning the mess. Let her be his support/guide by presenting her povs without being judgmental in case if she feel that he is not doing right.


Well written (original post and responses) :)

Somehow after watching yesterday's episode I ended up feeling bad for Sona being caught in the midst of this complex Dixit family dynamic. Strangely enough I did not get that feeling because of that scene with Ishwari because that one actually made sense. She does not know they are in a relationship so she can feel emotional about her son not eating something she knows he loves and which she made with a lot of effort. My mother is that way too, she makes stuff that is unhealthy but will obviously be hurt if we avoid it completely.

I felt bad for Sona after her cafe date with Dev actually. The vibes from the scene indicate a relationship driven by him - when to get into it, when to make it public (even when it seemed to mean a lot to her to go public but he dismissed it rather casually), when to stay apart with little room for her to influence any major milestone. Even all the love that he showers on her somehow could not banish that feeling..

I really liked this line ...Sona needs to move out of Dixit house, needs to stop roaming the house looking for someone to heal...Her value in his life is not on account of her ability interfere and help him resolve his family issues. I so want her to have a life of her own..Post the accident phase, that aspect diminished on the show, everything about Sona became about Sona-Dev whereas there are many things about Dev on the show that have nothing to do with Sona..

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Well written (original post and responses) :)

Somehow after watching yesterday's episode I ended up feeling bad for Sona being caught in the midst of this complex Dixit family dynamic. Strangely enough I did not get that feeling because of that scene with Ishwari because that one actually made sense. She does not know they are in a relationship so she can feel emotional about her son not eating something she knows he loves and which she made with a lot of effort. My mother is that way too, she makes stuff that is unhealthy but will obviously be hurt if we avoid it completely.

I felt bad for Sona after her cafe date with Dev actually. The vibes from the scene indicate a relationship driven by him - when to get into it, when to make it public (even when it seemed to mean a lot to her to go public but he dismissed it rather casually), when to stay apart with little room for her to influence any major milestone. Even all the love that he showers on her somehow could not banish that feeling..

I really liked this line ...Sona needs to move out of Dixit house, needs to stop roaming the house looking for someone to heal...Her value in his life is not on account of her ability interfere and help him resolve his family issues. I so want her to have a life of her own..Post the accident phase, that aspect diminished on the show, everything about Sona became about Sona-Dev whereas there are many things about Dev on the show that have nothing to do with Sona..

😃 Exactly... Sona has been completely trapped in the complexities of the Dixit house... 😆 But I am confident that she is a strong girl who can manage herself if only she sticks to her own agenda... 😉 I too completely agree on Sona not getting involved with the mother's kitchen expertise... 😆 Anyway that's some area where even she's weak at and she better not attempt it as well... Remember she does it in her own home as well... But gives allowances whenever her mom makes something special for the family... 😉

How on earth would she know about Ishwari's halwa making passion that too on the same day !!! 😆

Even I felt not good about he walking off from the cafe.. Looks like the makers realized it too and added that head kiss there to make it look subtle🤔... Wasn't it him who mentioned without closing an argument or difference of opinion she shouldn't walk off??!!! I didn't want to do the blame job here... And I even didn't find their fight fit for any eventful understanding between the two... I can only chide or get upset with Sona here as she's close to my heart and I feel that I've the right to get angry with her actions... 😳😆

Yes yes... I would really like to hope that the next time around when Sona asks about opening their relationship to family, she should pull up a fight with Dev if he doesn't agree.. They have lot more to differ upon than these things/issues about the Dixit family!!! 😉😆 Will Sona be fine if Dev asks her to control Daada from eating more because he's gonna be his brother-in-law... 😆😆😆

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