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Posted: 9 years ago
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Looking at the situation and the future view, I have to say this that dev made a mistake.
He loves his mom-sisters and now sonakshi.
But the thing is he is not yet married to sonakshi. So his first priority still should be his family with whom he had spent his 25 years. I am not saying that he should leave sona or forget about her, its just that for now his family should be on his mind.
Even in wedding, he was more concerned about Sona locked then neha's bidaai and shaadi which is wrong.

Last thing, if he loves his mom and thinks they have a good bonding then why didn't he told his mother about his love. If he had told her before hand, maybe she wouldnot have felt in bad way. Because when dev was getting married to natasha, she didn't felt bad or insecured. But now she is feeling this way mainly due to the relation being hidden from her. She is right on her place


(Just my view, no bashing plz)

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I don't think so
I agree that dev hided his relationship from iswari
But as a loving and caring mother iswari should support dev but here she is getting insecure in true words jealous
Taking about marriage time I think devs full concentration is in preparation for all functions in show also they showed that devakshi not spended a single moment (while preparing)
But if ur girl friend is locked in a room you will be tensed right
I don't think dev is wrong for worrying about sona

It's only my view sorry if hurted any one's feeling
Edited by uthraa.m - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I think even if dev had told abt his love to ishwari the situation would have been dramatic. Ishwari would have been offended with the fact that dev loves someone other than his family.
Ishwari was not that insecure in case of natasha because his business was related to it. Otherwise she would have been insecure with natasha too. This maa is very much possessive about her son that she want him for herself
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I dont thinl so...thinknin a practical way, when someone who cares and love u you will spend sometime with them. I didnt feel anything wrong when dev spent some time with sona.ishwari was insecure and she taunted dev when she saw playing with sona payal at that time dev has completed all his work related to marriage
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: mantuamu

I dont thinl so...thinknin a practical way, when someone who cares and love u you will spend sometime with them. I didnt feel anything wrong when dev spent some time with sona.ishwari was insecure and she taunted dev when she saw playing with sona payal at that time dev has completed all his work related to marriage


if dev share about his love to his mother immediately before confessing to Sona,she would not have been allowed him to confess.She should have been emotionally blackmailed him by saying that he should think about his sister marriage and she might have been given lame excuses.She is not as staright forward with dev as she is with neha in case of love
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Sorry dear, I dont agree..
when it comes to matters of heart, you take things slowly...you dont go running to your mum and say " guess what I am in love" . That wont go well with mom too..

Anyway, Dev and Sona - they are in their courtship phase...they are now understanding each other better than before...they are doing things which they have never done before...get to know each other better. All couples in love do that...before taking the big step Marriage.

Its no one's fault...Iswari feels insecure as she notices the changes in her son's behaviour and if Dev had told her earlier, I reckon this wouldnt have gone well with her either. Bottom line..she cant see Dev with any woman!

Now Dev has to reassure his mom, that by him loving Sona, Iswari will not be loved less by him, or he ceased to be her son or she as his mother. And Iswari will also realize given time, that Dev too needs a family of his own ...to take care of him..

This will take time...sure there willl be some misunderstanding and let's see how the producers penned it down to be executed by the 3 main actors, shall we?
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I do not think i will like to call it a fault yet. So far, i think one two occassions only i could have used the word. The first time when Ishwari caught him and Sona where he was playing with Sona's payal and the second time when his mother reminded him about giving Sona the responsibility of passing on the file. On both occcassions he fumbled.

he had good reasons to tell his mom some logical reasoning on both occasions but did not do so, especially on the file. he could have told her that she was unwell and he did not want her to go to the almirah to take out the file.. rather he chose to look very lost and blank..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I kind of agree with the 2nd para but..I most definitely disagree with the 1st para.
Dev has a right to to love and to be with the woman he wants. A true family wouldn't object to his happiness. The status his family has today, is because of his struggle and hard work for 25 years. They have such a luxurious life right now but they still choose to live in the past and not move forward.

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