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I don't understand what's so bad about Dev giving things to Neha, and why Ranveer is getting so irked by this. So what? That's her brother and she has a right to ask for things by him. It's not fair that she should have to just "adjust" to Ranveer's way of living because that's her husband and she's a girl. I already don't find the whole-leaving your house and moving into your husband's house- thing fair. Why should a woman have to change her life (name, house, etc.) just because she is married? Yes, I understand that she has chosen to move into Ranveer's house, but doesn't she deserve to live her life how she wants there too? Why should she become a "paray" to her family because Ranveer's self respect (more ego) is getting hurt? Her being married should make her happy not miserable. Neha is use to living in a certain comfortable way so why should she have to change that? And what's so bad if Dev helps them out a little bit? That's his family too in a way, he just wants to keep Neha happy.
Don't get me wrong, I understand some people want to move into their spouses family, and change their name, and become house wives/husbands and those are all aspects that I understand and respect a lot, they take a lot of courage, strength, and hard work. But if someone wants best of both worlds, living with her husband's family, and being close to their own family, is that wrong? No one questions the husband if they were in this situation, so why should the wife have to be. The way Ishwari said you shouldn't just go to their house made me so angry. That's his sister and if he wants to meet her he will.
I'm finding Ranveers character more and more irritating now a days. I thought he was this understanding and respectful person. I thought he was the type not to take things to his ego. But I guess I was wrong. The way he looked at Dev when he was talking to Neha about how he'll help her if she needs anything really showed me how he truly is. I understand he has lived his life in this simplistic way, but if someone who he loves doesn't want to live that way, shouldn't he try to adjust for her a little? Is it because he's the earner of the house, and that she's his "responsibility"?(HATE that phrase so much)
Maybe I'm thinking this because of me, or my environment, or how I have grown up, but I had to say it. I don't know how Neha and Ranveer's relationship is going to work if he can't understand his wife and if she can't understand what makes his uncomfortable. Like yesterday, you could clearly see it on Neha's face that she did not want to have the kids in their room and Ranveer completely ignored the signs. Things like this are only going to create barriers between them in the future and I'm worried about that.
Love how the show is showing these different situations and problems, great job CVs.👏
PS. Can we talk about how cute flirty Dev was today? The whole- you don't want to see me in a shirt- thing was hilarious and adorable, couldn't stop grinning. ❤️
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