Ria ka Adda: What, How and Why! - Page 19

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Posted: 16 years ago
@Yeah: Hi Buddy! 😛

"They make me cry in high-drama scenes, but what suprises me more is that my tears roll down even during the simpler scenes between them."

Me --> Ditto! I can so relate with Arjun n Arohi n that i cannot or havent with any other characters so far.. many a times the story of serial has moved me but not characters... n its wat makes Arjun-Aro different n close 2 heart.. I just luv them n their perfect Jodi.. their pious luv n their simple n pure souls..

"I totally agree about a golden opportunity lost. If only the creatives had considered this project precious... But there are so many things that could have been done with soo much more effectiveness. "

Me --> u know wat i had banged on NDTV site literally with my posts... .😆.😆.😆.😆 requesting them 2 save the show just for sake of Arjun-Aro... 😆 then i realized nothing wud ever happen...😆 our pulling hair, banging heads, venting frustration is not gonna make any difference 2 them.. they have lost it.. 😆😆 v can just give piece of advice n dissect (n i luv it a lot 😆) for our satisfaction and entertainment..😆.. and to enrich ourselves via Adda with different creative ideas, believes, philosophies, various opinions.. really i have learnt so much at Adda.. its really happening n rolling place.. Adda Rocks..

"I still love the show...although I think it's more Arjun Arohi I love."

Me --> Ditto!! 😆

"Arjun had said that he would take their love to the 10th padav, so his love for Arohi isn't there yet. I guess he was in the 3rd padav for the last little while...sacrificing all for his love...and now he's going to move further up the ranks, achieving the 10th padav maybe by the end...or maybe not."

Me --> I agree.. he never mentioned that it was his 10th padav.. he said he will reach the pinnacle, the 10th padav in luv...


@Buddies:

herez a re-post of "padavs".. so lets crosscheck..


10 stages of Love

According to the Chishtiyya Sufis the first stage of love is ulfat (friendship, attachment, familiarity, companionship). It is another name for the inclination of the heart towards the object of love

The second stage of love is sadaaqat (true friendship, sincerity, candour, loyalty, fidelity). In this stage the heart remains unaffected by the Beloved's fidelity or infidelity, disregards and denials, and by bestowal of favours.

The third stage of love is termed mavaddat (friendship, love, benevolence), which is marked by the excitation of the heart and passionate desire (hayajaan-e qalb o ettisaafe baa-l havaa) for the Beloved.

The fourth stage of love is styled havaa (affection; favour; love; desire). In this stage the lover is always inclined towards the Beloved or longs for Him.

The fifth stage of love is called shaghaf (violent affection, violent love; alacrity; love, longing, yearning; joy


The sixth stage of love is exclusive attachment to the Beloved. It means emptying the heart of all save the Beloved.

The seventh phase has been styled muhabbat
Love is a gift. You cannot start to love somebody.

The eight stage is 'eshq (pure love), which is another name of excessive and intense affection. At this stage one looses one's reason and senses

The ninth of the Chishti stages of love is called enslavement.


The tenth and final stage of the Chishti stages of love is valah or bewilderment (other translations are: being sad, afflicted, distracted or impatient from love or grief; perturbation of mind). This stage is beset with tremendous dangers, consequently it has been said:

In distance there is torment
And in nearness bewilderment.

This sense can be grasped in the following words uttered by a lover:

If I see You I lose my life!
If I don't see You, how can I live?

posted by Harshita


if any one wants more detailed version or is interested in reading n more importantly grasping the three-page longer version.😆😆😆... go to..

http://www.chishti.ru/stages_of_love.htm


Adda buddies... go on... i will join later..

Luv, 😛

Manisha
Edited by luvfindsitsway - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago

Yesterday's epi made me scratch all my hair like hell.Wen i heard d Judje say "Saare Bayanoon aur sabutoon ko maaddenazar rakhte huye........." i was like wen d hel did d lawyer show d proofs, evidences, witnesses, etc?????????Ya phir all d proofs wer invisible??????I did feel bad wen d Judge gave his verdict of hanging Arjun bt later i was sure dat by dat time sumthing will happen(If EKTA MAA makes it happen),& Arjun vl be proved innocent.Bt Ganga, here u dnt know y is Arjun jailed den wat will u prove him innocent?????????

By seeing d toy-gun i was laughing a lot bt wen dey showed d clippings of Arjun, the Joker playing wid kids, i did feel a little bad.I guess d lawyer whom Arjun fired had just met Salil before cuming 2 d court. I mean has any1 noticed his diction?????He was saying "Mr. Arjun Punj, agar aap ne mujhe CONFIDANCE me liya hota to hum ye case nahi haarte." Sum1 shld go & tell him dat its nt CONFIDANCE. Its rather CONFIDENCE. or i guess, both Salil & dat lawyer have studied in d same school. Bt Arjun & Salil were in d same school na till d 9th grade. I remember Salil saying dis 2 convince Arjun 2 cum 2 d re-union party, den how cum Arjun has such a gud diction & Salil has such a horrible diction?????????
I didnt understand wen d Judge said dat its a simple, open murder case. Wat was so open in dis case???????????Second thing,d judge said dat d victim's family wanted instant justice den y did u take 2 years 2 give the verdict????????Third thing, where wer d victim's family???????If it was a media-related case, den where d hell is s media????????????Usually i'v seen d media surrounding d accussed & asking him various sorts of useless & baseless questions, bt here d questions which were actually 2 b asked weren't asked den wat vl i expect d media 2 cum 2 d court & surround him!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Wen d police was taking Arjun back 2 d so-called Central Jail, Arjun said d word 'palda' two times. I found him initially saying 'palla' & bt d second time i heard him saying d correct pronounciation which is 'palda'.Mujhe lagta hai d name of d jail can b change from 'CENTRAL JAIL' to 'EKTA'S JAIL'.I mean any1 can cum & go @ any time. Ekta, if u know of such a jail pls tell us @ d adda too. we are curious 2 know.
Salil-Purvi-Vandy, all i can say dat its a hopeless case. Wen Arjun is not narrating d story den how can d creatives show d past????????????Are d creatives sleeping???????????second thing, i found d ring 2 b utter horrible. Haath sa bhi bada to woh so-called ring tha.
Third part was d best according to me. I think its KS' murder' charge for which Arjun is to be hange coz Arjun refers 2 dat person as 'usne'. If it was DK den he wld refer d person as 'unhone'. Ganga-can u pls stop saying 'pyaar karnewala insaan'. i cldnt count how much imes did u say dat.Cant u refer him as Arjun???????We all know dat he's d 'pyaar karnewala insaan'.
Also another doubt errupted in my mind just now. How did Arjun cum 2 know dat Ganga id abt 2 get married????????Ganga- did u even tell ur n ur lover's(i guess d name is Gaurav) love story to Arjun????????Bt Ganga, u wer abt 2 post-pone ur wedding na!!!!!!!Dat day u insisted ur lover 2 post-pone d wedding na!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Wat happened 2 dat????????Did he not listen 2 u????????
I guess Arjun has joined PYAAR KI PAATHSHALA. Wat excellent dialogues by Arjun!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Superb.D expressions, d feeling, d dialogues everything was in balance.The dialogues of Arjun during d last part was just AWESUM.No comments on d last part.
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Posted: 16 years ago
@Adda Buddies: Today I am at the reading end😆 I come I read the Adda and each time I get some more motivation to write tonight....From the idea of shifting base to seeing a bleak ray of light in the show itself today's Adda was a journey in itself....add to it some beautiful poetry done by the creative Adda members and you have a perfect ADDA!

As there are some 4 more hours before the show comes up for the 100th time on the television screen I am all excited! KMH has been a journey for me....where I have met all of you and I am so glad that it is reaching a milestone!

My interview.....Went quite well...I will get the decision in a couple of days...If all goes well I will be joining the faculty of my own university from where I did my MBA b4 going to Canada....awwww time to put to reality what I have been practicing in front of my mirror all my life!

Anyways without boring you with my childhood stories I will just take my leave and hope to see you all at the rocking and reeling Adda tonight!

Anjana....Loved your Post Watch! Now you see how we got to write so much😃


P.S: and loads of hugs for all the best wishes that you people sent my way for the interview!
Edited by ria_h85 - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago

Am guilty today of not reading all adda posts 😔 Just done with 1st page & wanted to say

@Ria/Anu: How do you guys manage to write so much 👏 Frankly I feel to write about such crap & then analyse , aapke creativity ka tauheen hain.

@Anjana: Liked your salil kids story.. Though kids might consider it a horror 😆 If these guys could even stump our reigning Soap Queen, they are great

@Karishma: On the contrary the crap seems to provide you good fodder for ur photshopping skills. The more bizarre it gets , the funnier your pics 🤣 👍🏼

And Anu, you predicted yest about the 'hanging'.. wow!! you & the ceratives think alike, what is it they say - great minds think alike 😉 Ahem!! And I meant it as a complitment 😆 😆
Edited by wishfor - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago

@Anu, Ria, Anjana: The adda queens! Awesome posts.. 👏 👏 👏

Anu, i dont know if u have this.. but something 4 u.. the whole "kabhi na karar aaya, kabhi na sukoon aaya.." song..

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N4gbA4ho-oE

@K: 👏 u r fab!

@Mehr: **nudges, hugs, n choclates*** wer r u, buddy?

@Hero: Nice quote! 👏 👏 👏

@Aruna, N, Minnie: Nice poems!

"Punji's noose will come loose
He'll soon turn into a goose
Quack quack Arohi I love you
Arohi the shrew says get lost
Before I turn you into a stew"

You cant be called heartless by anybody
You're giving him a job offer
Heavens need a back-up dancer
Punji keep your pink tutu ready!

🤣

Minnie, Minnie, why you spoiling the party,
Let him be free and follow his forefathers,
He will be in heaven and watching the girl,
Do not take away his right to be an eternal sentry

👏 👏 👏


@Rest of Buddies: Luved all of ur posts!

Luv,

Manisha
Edited by luvfindsitsway - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
@Ria:

"My interview.....Went quite well...I will get the decision in a couple of days...If all goes well I will be joining the faculty of my own university from where I did my MBA b4 going to Canada...."

Wow!😛 Gud news... 👏 👏
Edited by luvfindsitsway - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago

@Manisha: Can see you are still trying & hoping for something to turn out 😆 So what do you latest sources say - Dubai se Hangin , now what..
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Posted: 16 years ago
@Aruna: Now that my birdies flew away 2 dubai.. n KMH PR team not helping me much.. me resorted to some not-so-reliable source....

KMHRockz calls it spoiler.. now lets c how much of it is true!..here goez... one more prediction in line...

Caution: Dont blame me after reading... 😆

Guys/ gals ......i,m sorry for making a separate post but its real n true coz finally i,ve got the real reason for arjun imprisonment....
1st of all......i wnt to kill all the misconceptions....

1) Arjun didnt killed Arohi

2) Arjun didnt killed Karan 'singh

3) Infct Arjun didnt killed any1....


Now the real truth.....n u guys wil b amazed to knw wht ekta has stored for us.....

1) In present track Arohi is sucessfull n biggest singing sensation n she followed KS principles. she is no more like jo dusro k liye jeeti thi......she had changed her principles...Very soon u ppl will get to see her concert which is gona hosted by KS

2) Now come to Biggest truth........Ganga Rai is goin to marry the same guy who Arjun killed......confused????
now the truth is......Arjun fired a shot at him n evry1 thought he is dead n arjun is arrested but in real he changed his identity n at present ganga rai is goin to marry him....n finally tht guy is ayaz ahmed(He is goin to enter the show in coming days as u all knw..)

After reading most of u may though it fake.........but in coming days u,ll see the truth......i cant reveal the source so pls dnt ask me for tht.....so its all ur wish....believe it or ignore it.......

Even i,m also confused after reading all this coz me too even not able to relate ayaz role in arohi n sur life..n y arjun killed him...but in coming days evrythin will b clear....

thnx for reading ........enjoy watching KMH.........


Edited by luvfindsitsway - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
Another Spoiler

Hey did anyone check the new spoiler as to who Arjun killed😕

Arjun kills Gaurav (if my memory serves me right that was his name)....well here we are busy scratching our heads on whether its DK or KS...and if this source is to be believed its going to be this RANDOM guy 😕 If that is the case all I can say is Arjun fast fwd the story, get over the jail phase and go back to Your world...Arohi's world and give her a chance to show us how can she give her world just for him😳

The poster has also some info on an Arohi concert coming...so get ready to hear another 5 minutes of the only song Arohi can sing😛



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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: ria_h85

@Adda Buddies: Today I am at the reading end😆 I come I read the Adda and each time I get some more motivation to write tonight....From the idea of shifting base to seeing a bleak ray of light in the show itself today's Adda was a journey in itself....add to it some beautiful poetry done by the creative Adda members and you have a perfect ADDA!



@ria: you motivate us to write & vice versa 😆 😆 Wherever it is the adda moves , just want to be a part of it.. 😆 You must be feeling good about the interview, about going to back where you studied - life goes in circles too, not so very different from the soap world I guess 😊

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