"They make me cry in high-drama scenes, but what suprises me more is that my tears roll down even during the simpler scenes between them."
Me --> Ditto! I can so relate with Arjun n Arohi n that i cannot or havent with any other characters so far.. many a times the story of serial has moved me but not characters... n its wat makes Arjun-Aro different n close 2 heart.. I just luv them n their perfect Jodi.. their pious luv n their simple n pure souls..
"I totally agree about a golden opportunity lost. If only the creatives had considered this project precious... But there are so many things that could have been done with soo much more effectiveness. "
Me --> u know wat i had banged on NDTV site literally with my posts... .😆.😆.😆.😆 requesting them 2 save the show just for sake of Arjun-Aro... 😆 then i realized nothing wud ever happen...😆 our pulling hair, banging heads, venting frustration is not gonna make any difference 2 them.. they have lost it.. 😆😆 v can just give piece of advice n dissect (n i luv it a lot 😆) for our satisfaction and entertainment..😆.. and to enrich ourselves via Adda with different creative ideas, believes, philosophies, various opinions.. really i have learnt so much at Adda.. its really happening n rolling place.. Adda Rocks..
"I still love the show...although I think it's more Arjun Arohi I love."
Me --> Ditto!! 😆
"Arjun had said that he would take their love to the 10th padav, so his love for Arohi isn't there yet. I guess he was in the 3rd padav for the last little while...sacrificing all for his love...and now he's going to move further up the ranks, achieving the 10th padav maybe by the end...or maybe not."
Me --> I agree.. he never mentioned that it was his 10th padav.. he said he will reach the pinnacle, the 10th padav in luv...
@Buddies:
herez a re-post of "padavs".. so lets crosscheck..
10 stages of Love
According to the Chishtiyya Sufis the first stage of love is ulfat (friendship, attachment, familiarity, companionship). It is another name for the inclination of the heart towards the object of love
The second stage of love is sadaaqat (true friendship, sincerity, candour, loyalty, fidelity). In this stage the heart remains unaffected by the Beloved's fidelity or infidelity, disregards and denials, and by bestowal of favours.
The third stage of love is termed mavaddat (friendship, love, benevolence), which is marked by the excitation of the heart and passionate desire (hayajaan-e qalb o ettisaafe baa-l havaa) for the Beloved.
The fourth stage of love is styled havaa (affection; favour; love; desire). In this stage the lover is always inclined towards the Beloved or longs for Him.
The fifth stage of love is called shaghaf (violent affection, violent love; alacrity; love, longing, yearning; joy
The sixth stage of love is exclusive attachment to the Beloved. It means emptying the heart of all save the Beloved.
The seventh phase has been styled muhabbat
Love is a gift. You cannot start to love somebody.
The eight stage is 'eshq (pure love), which is another name of excessive and intense affection. At this stage one looses one's reason and senses
The ninth of the Chishti stages of love is called enslavement.
The tenth and final stage of the Chishti stages of love is valah or bewilderment (other translations are: being sad, afflicted, distracted or impatient from love or grief; perturbation of mind). This stage is beset with tremendous dangers, consequently it has been said:
In distance there is torment
And in nearness bewilderment.
This sense can be grasped in the following words uttered by a lover:
If I see You I lose my life!
If I don't see You, how can I live?
posted by Harshita
if any one wants more detailed version or is interested in reading n more importantly grasping the three-page longer version.😆😆😆... go to..
http://www.chishti.ru/stages_of_love.htm
Adda buddies... go on... i will join later..
Luv, 😛
Manisha