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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: -Nansy-

Havnt seen any improvement in certain posts. Not gonna name which posts, but still some are talking like they are the only ones right and we are here for nothing but bhashan and not listening to your pleads. Its not just about fights. Its about respecting other's views, discussing to the topic, not dragging in others unnecessarily and most importantly Harmless sarcasm. I wanted to mention this earlier. Sometimes sarcasm doesnt seem funny to everyone, not coz they are wrong, but sometimes people read it wrong. I for instance am very weak in english and i make a lot of mistakes due to which misunderstandings happen. Similarly those who dont have the capability to understand whether the sarcasm is for fun or serious, will find it offensive, which is why we mods have told to cut down it as much as possible. But wel, i guess no use on that. We are still being made fun of and blamed for not understanding members. Wish we could say back the same.



hellonandinidi
m highlighting few of ur points
okk i hop eu dont mind


well as u have mentioned certain posts i really need to ask due to 1% of mass is it really needed to make suffer the 99% left ?????

then u wrote some are talking
well some a few those who reallly want the forum to gte closed and they even mentioned , u have the rights and u have used them why dont u ban the some so that we rest can be in peace

and finally dont take it wrong u mentioned we must respect others views really
okk so why r nt u respecting ours i mean see the posts i thnk almost everyone doesnt wants the forum to get closed

i didnt saw any of ur warning today have u planned to leave ur jobs i mean comeon warn so tht we can know tht whats the wrong i mean it happens tht we sometimes croos our lines

and plzz god when there is fame u have to listen negativity i mean u r the moderatorss u r the superiors here , ppl say many a thngs u dont need to tk them on heart last day m sharing my experience some mentioned me psycho and u know i laughed for half an hour on tht thng even through replying and finally the person gave up i mean plzz listen to us

m not judging u actually m not capable of very small being a kid m requesting tk it as emotinal atyachaar tht plzz dear dont tk our beloved forum from us

we really love it as well as u

i also got quite raged seeing this topic but still plzz i hop u understand as me too very poor in english hihih

luv
aishu

if u read ths then i must say thnks for reading darling i hope u read


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Posted: 15 years ago
^^ U asked me why i am not respecting your views??? Lemme ask the same back. How many times have us Mods made warning posts? How many times? And lemme know HOW many times it was followed. Dint we BEG as well? To please maintain peace? How many listened. Its very easy aishwarya to point fingers on us coz as mods, we cant speak everything out easily as you all coz we have our own limits. But its about respecting us mods. We made dis topic asking a simple opinion. A feedback, but what did we get back? Some saying we are not understanding members. Some making fun that we have some other motive, some saying we are heartless. Really? Thats why did so much work for you all in the forum? Kept you all entertained. I am not telling anyone to praise us and applaud us for our work. But respect us when we r giving warning. And its not 1% as u can say easily. We go through each and every post in this forum unlike normal members who visit only a few. And about not posting warning, i dont want to get insulted again by getting pointed "Only we get warnings. What did we do? We said only dis...wats wrong in it? The DT is being unfair."
I just dont want to hear the same again. Coz once its said, again another set of issue, another dragging in other actor, another fight. This forum is a family, and we are not punishing everyone for a few or anything. But please try to understand us!!! We were terribly hurt to see the comments in this post itself how again, we are getting pointed out that "you are being unfair to us". As humans it hurts us.

And those who think we are not serious about archiving, then let me make it clear, we mean it. We are serious about it getting archived. And again there are a few who think we are pointing out JUST them that they are not following rules, when actually we dont even mean them. So those who think something we say feels pointed to them, have the min respect of pming us and asking if it was meant for u, coz otherwise again there is more misunderstanding and problems which can never get solved.
Edited by -Nansy- - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
okk i got what i wanted see this is the reaction beign a mod also u cant stop urself like i really wrote my reply very humbly but u got it out whatever was there in ur mind ,and said all thepoint see this happens , u reply and then a back reply and then it goes on u cant resisit and one more thing plz dont tk it personally
see the ppl in here are making fun few times bu tbut but its only to make the atmosphere light i mean if we go on listening and pointing out we r gonna go to frustration comeon

okk once u beeged and now we r begging the same i thnk

and no dear u really took it very wrong sorry but i have to say this i wasnt pointing anything at u , u urself did , u ursefl wrote the reply and i just higlighted something

there is no need for us to fight on tht m really very peace of a person it wa sjust my view dear and i didnt wanted to make u angry

see i personally thnk taking something as a joke isnt harmfull ppl dont get dragged to serious arguing they just get diverted thts it so plz

u should understand right
we all r humans and i understand u get really hurted when insulted but stilltoleranceand ignorence elpssometimes

and one more thng dont get angry really if u r annoyed say me i l leave i just personaaly dont feel liek humiliating someone
okk is it about disrespecting mods ??? i mean this all matter

if yeah then we all can go for an apology letter offcially as said

comeon girl i mean this unfair , faur ,partiality this thngs are high school stuffs dont tk them on heart ek din ke baad sab bhul jaate hai
i mean school students fght on ths thngs

and one more thing darling i really appreciate ur work u take so much initiativebutsometimesa fightishealthyykamse kamitdoesnt keepsanythinginheartushdgoaheadin discussing and arguing ifsomeone tellsuthtu runfairtoprovehim worng
ok i wont teach u ur work u r good in it just a few suggestions thts it

and i can understand u guys are badly hurt
even we r
atleast me

u hv decided and its upto u i really m not supporting ths frankly but its upto u
i wont sya u dont hv heart and all but u hv made up ur mind thts the thng and u know whatever u l do we jst have to endure it so its upto u m not gonna go into tht fght

tc hope u change ur mind till tomorrow and get me some happy news nor
good bye to IF thts all i can say

tc
and hope didnt wasted much of ur time if yeah then sorry



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Posted: 15 years ago
now smile and if u r hurt then sorry again but i just wanted to clear whatever i said
u know no misunderstandings for future

okk so continuee whatever u r planning or shifting topics or will thnk on my reply or change ur mind whatever

and i l continue my thnking



he can fall from sky and tree why cant he fall in love with me


gootta need an answer help plzzz

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Posted: 15 years ago
hahaha birth certificate aishwarya ... birth certificate is the answer 🤣
nandini27 thumbnail
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Posted: 15 years ago
I appreciate you took out so much time to reply. But i dint misunderstand you neither did you understand my POV. Like you said everyone wants peace. But i guess its better we proceed now as like i said, no one will be able to understand the current status. Thanks again for replying. I wouldnt wann go ahead with another back answering and you spend your precious time again for it.

The reasons for taking such decision still is not understood. But its noone's fault. We personally dont want it archived, but circumstances speak different.
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Posted: 15 years ago
yeah nandini i too see this ppl thnk they understood but they are actually not
miscommunication
and might be i cant understand u its different thng but good u atleast said u understand me

huh thts all i cna do reply nothng more as i said u all have made up ur mind
might be there are thngs which we dont understand u said circumstances right so it depends everyone doesnt feels the same and everyone isnt bounded to somehting which is mysterious like u guys

so let the conversation drop here and go ahead with whatevr

and well i can sit all night and reply u u know have a good debate butt u have work go ahead with tht wont disturb or irritate u mor e
as if i have not done enough

tc
have som epeace after u archieve this



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Posted: 15 years ago
okk here u go my linkss i give up

ff: a false commitment
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=1247331&TPN=1

ff: never forget me
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=1358841&TPN=1

i had a one shot glaaery earlier i posted about it no need to shift tht i l let it beeter get closed so have edited my earlier one

these two just need to be shifted thts it

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Posted: 15 years ago
Please dont Close the forum....

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