19-23 oct '09: mostly various big things :-) - Page 2

oh my apoligies, my apologies, let me correct my statement "Prem has never told a lie to Heer ever knowing that he is telling a lie" is it ok now? 🤣🤣🤣

i saw the whole week of episodes in one huge rush, in the middle of doing other things. and figured that calling this a bt,lt would be wrong -- 'cause it isn't. not really. but i hope you don't mind me putting this shortened, weirder version up? doesn't even have caps... 😕still managed to write this bt.,lt., great bc many of us had to take a break to phrool.

oh well! you can just skip it, right??! 😆 read at the risk of getting bored... you've been warned. 😆i had been wating for one week and u want me to skip?. for me the show is incomplete without ur bt.,lt.,.

adorable things of the week

* prem telling heer that he came back early just for her and heer saying ''really?'' and both of them smiling goopily at each other. omg. was that an amazing little moment or what?? they seriously were as goopy as i was watching them be goopy!! i mean, that's impossible isn't it?? they were making each other goopy -- and me goopy.

(isn't there some law of conservation of goop in this universe or s'thing, that says there must be at least one-non-goopy person at all times?? if there isn't -- there should be!!)

* prem's hands holding heer firmly -- even when she tells him that gi-it is behind them! he just refused to let go! even when he had to turn around and stand using heer as his shield, there was not one moment when phands lost possessive control on hwaist! he actually moved around her, behind her, and his hands just circumnavigated her waist like columbus' ships once they had set sail!! i mean -- what was that??! agree prem is defo setting new standards to show his control over heer. was it prem or hc?

prem is certainly setting new standards for what it means to hold onto heer! first he comes up with that new pnose-hnose-->pcheek-hcheek move that last week was phull of. and now, he does this phand-circumnavigating-hwaist move!

and this is the pair that doesn't give us a kiphph. *sighing tiredly* what the heck are they waiting for??? they've pretty much done everything else??! r u sure thy have not kiphphed, i feel thy have, but we didnt get to see it. u see how ruthless thy r. i hate them.

(no, i'm serious -- i want to know! when every part has been on every part -- well practically! 🤣 what is soooo darned special about indian lips that they can't meet?? tell me! i want to know! *fiercely curious muh!*) and dont tell me that u r so innocent to believe that thy have not kiphphed.

* phukda telling mama that she bought her chocolate but that she ate some on the way. aawwwwww that was such a wonderful mama-baby moment. i liked that moment. it was very sweet and did u notice how prem hugged both heer & his phukda at the end. i thought that was a sweet hug. thy showed in the long shot.

* the little family were soooooo happy for a moment while watching that silly cd, no? the happiness in the smiles on mama, papa and phukda's face were incredible. for a moment, i could actually believe they were a family. 😆agree.

* btw, phukda has an adorable chuckle, no? all rich and fat and totally childlike.

* and prem with that plaster on his little forehead, looked adorable -- even when talking to his ex-human mother.

* i hated what prem said to heer during that moment, but i loved the setting of heer putting little phukda to sleep and prem coming to talk to her.

* funny how papa gave phukda her kerchief no? but i loved how phukda was so proud that she was like her mama. and boo! why did prem just not immediately claim his kiphph from heer?? why, prem, why?? why, why, why??? 😆 simply bc he has already kiphphed her many times.

* innocent prem insisting his mother drink kaa-da (or whatever it is called). evidence that glob has seriously got no heart -- she refused to drink it when prem gave it to her! it surprised me. she claims to love prem and do anything to win him back but refused to drink the kaada when he gave her but drank it wihout complaints when heer offered it to her. this lady is getting more and more mysterious.

(not that i cared of course. all i could think of was the time that prem happily drank up his kaa-da looking into his heer's eyes in the kitchen of that little chawl-place... 😍 one of the most under-rated of the sizzling phoooh moments ever... seriously! the phrool overflows just thinking 'bout it... 😍)

* phukda's a seriously pretty kid, no? and prem's a seriously wonked dad -- imagine threatening to go and beat up boys who beat up his kid! bad dad, bad! 😆 she's supposed to learn how to fight her own battles!

* prem telling ashlesha to get the heck out of his and heer's bedroom! he wouldn't hear one word from her! omg! that was superb! and all in a pistachio green shirt! man, i'm he'd followed my instincts and allowed me to roll up his sleeves for the family scene downstairs. incidentally, that was good how he made clear to the rest of the family that at the ''marriage ceremony'' he had made it clear to ashlesha that he (nor his family) didn't want to have anything to do with her.

* heer asking her daughter if she can please finish before she is dismissed as a mother who doesn't know anything. 😆 btw, heer as the mother is lovely.

* heer as ''prem's rasagulla'' is also totally yummy! 🤣 so was that prem juneja taking revenge for his little brother's honour? meher called preet her gulab jamum, and so prem called her sister a rasgulla in revenge?? 🤣iam happy that he didnt eat her bc i felt he was so desperate to eat 'his rasagulla' than the one in the bowl.

but so cute prem is! he's all morose and troubled at the window, but with .. ah .. rasgulla on offer, he becomes all bright again. i really wonder which one of his ''rasgullas'' brightened him more. 😆

* rasgulla moment observation #1: who else got the sense that both hc/ag had been laughing their heads off the moment they got the script for the rasgulla scene?? and that a bit of that -- 'kay a lot of that! 😆 -- came through when hc actually sucked on ag's fingers??

* rasgulla moment observation #2: who wants to make a guess about how many takes before they canned that shot? one easy way is to check how many rasgullas there were when heer walked into the room. and then how many rasgullas there were when prem walked out. i'm guessing.... around three takes! 🤣🤣🤣observation #3: scripted & executed by ph brains instantly at that moment. just 2 takes, one long shot & one closeup. dont say no no no. its yes yes yes.

* i liked that prem walked out of the garden instead of blowing up all over the place at sneha for calling him father in front of the whole crowd.

* oh, that was a sweet father-daughter moment between prem and phukda when he hugged her after sneha-the-round did that ''papa'' routine in jzoo. both father-daughter faces were so well-matched in how troubled they looked, no? those space-ship mouths that look so alike when they smile, looked as alike when they were miserable. 😍

* i truly love heer-the-mother. heer and phukda's little conversation on the staircase was superbly done. first the child's confusion and anger and need for assurance (''where were you, mama?? papa refuses to talk to me about why sneha is so cuckoo-bananas!''). then the mother's calm rationalisation about what the other girl is going through. then, of course, the instantaneous recognition in the child's mind of the problem. and her quick resolution to be friendly. even i loved that scene.
but what really killed me in that whole moment was the way they sat facing each other, child's hands trustingly held in mother's hands in her lap.😍 a phhandooh of a different sort -- a phukda-heer-hand-ooh! and also, their faces were so close to each other, their voices low. mother's eyes looking deeply and calmly with a smile into child's eyes. so totally the opposite of what she went through with her father -- who was not able to give her any assurance whatsoever. after the near-callous way that both prem and heer had ignored phukda being around and watching sneha's strange behaviour with big-big-troubled-eyes!(the worst of it was at the school garden -- prem ran out, and heer ran out after him! it was horrible the way she had to ignore phukda to take care of prem of that moment! )
so, it was such a relief to see heer kick back into loving-mother-mode with her daughter.

* i'm torn -- truly torn. i really don't know which phug i loved most of this week. that first phug when he came in early from office just to be with her, or that last phug that was a demonstration of his ''sportsman-ships-man'' (??! 😆) i liked that phug a lot -- even if i didn't understand what the heck prem was claiming he was demonstrating to heer... 🤣

* besura parents singing ''happy b'day'' for their phukda. i really wondered how the child woke up with her usual rich chuckle rather than screaming her head off. 😆u made me laugh

truly sad things of the week

* the truly saddest moments of the week were all of prem fighting fear. i mean, seriously! this week, prem was the poster guy for why not to have random actsofsex -- that one day you might fight yourself standing in your child's school, and some other random kid runs to you and holds on calling you their father.

man! what a nightmare! so i really felt bad for him as he kept running away from sneha-the-round -- is he already wondering whether she is really his child? seriously i dont want him to think in this way.

and i kinda get why he can't talk to heer about this -- he doesn't want to bring up something that might hurt her horribly. i think though that prem is not being brave enough or confident enough in his trust of heer -- he should know that she has gone through hell and come back so many times for him. and talking about such sensitive scary matters in the privacy of their own room, and when there is no external pressure to do it, is the best time to talk about such fears, no? thats what iam worried about. i dont want prem to be in this mode. this is scary. when he didnt hide about 'that night' then why should he hide anything else?.

* does heer get prem's fear? she always could get prem earlier -- not so sure now. only because it's been so long that they have been together. i somehow think that heer does get this fear of prem's. only problem is that, if she does get it, she should really bring it out in the open. it's easier for her to do it -- after all, he thinks she is the wronged-one on this question. sorry i didnt get this one. what do u exactly mean.

* i hated heer answering pbauji's asking prem whether everything was alright when they got back home.

big-puzzle things

* what was that moment when gi-it's face shadowed vitchface's when glob was standing in front of vitchface's and gloating about separating prem and heer?? that was truly puzzling?

* who has been shadowing prem all this week? no one was shadowing heer, no? hmmm. except in that last show at the school...

* why don't prem and heer ever properly talk to each other about things that happen to them? why the heck didn't prem just tell heer that he thought someone was following him??

* y'know what was most puzzling about the heer-maya moment? that after she countered heer's bhashan so well, there was not a single gloating look on her face! she was genuinely troubled for having been so harshly forthright with heer. as if she had recognised that heer was trying to help her out, but that she thought heer needed to get wise to the glob-type ''duniya-daari'' of the world being a part of what to fight when keeping a relationship whole.

seriously wonderfully puzzling moment -- 'cause i wonder what has made maya-the-mean switch from a heer-prem-hater into a heer-prem-well-wisher. i soooo wanna know!

* so... ashlesha is cooking this plan on her own, huh? 'cause glob is as distasteful to her as she is to everyone else.
that she is cooking it was soooo obvious from the prem-nearly-hits-ashlesha-in-his-car. any person who got nearly hit would react in shock and first yell at the driver. not calmly bend down and start packing in her vegetables!!!!! man, that was such a stoooooopidly scripted moment that i couldn't believe it! prem's reaction (in reverse) should've been what ashlesha would've, should've done if she hadn't been cooking that moment!

(which of course made me wonder -- has ashlesha planted a gps-tracking unit on prem's car??? how the heck else could she have cook that moment so precisely!??! 😆) if she can make prem believe that he had a one night stand with her which he does not even remember then she can do anything.

* so... there is no way in heck they're gonna let glob do anything but die, right? i mean, even when pbauji was being mean to prem and heer, he was being sincere. not disgustingly distasteful as this ... lowlife is behaving.

* y'know though -- i really wonder about this sneha person. she's a kid in school, for crying out loud! what is troublesome is that she is doing the whole ''papa, prem is my papa'' act waaaaaay too professionally! at this point, are we to believe that she has been told that prem is her papa, that he doesn't live with her, but she has not been told not to go and fall all over him calling him ''papa''??? i guess my problem with sneha is that she looks just now like a professional actor more than anything else. hmmm. maybe she is a 35-year-old drawf actor? hmmm.

logical questions that people on this show just need to ask: 😆

* when kid said: '''cause i know he is my papa.''
logical question: ''how do you know? did someone tell you? or is this just something you feel?''

* (at the principal's office) logical question(s):