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Okay, so this is a man's perspective. it may be different from a woman's perspective. DV the lover was awesome.. from any perspective. However, i am seeing that DV as the husband, is faltering, from a man's perspective.
1. He knows his family better than anyone else. Further he has not spoken to Saachi about what his family is about. There were so many times when Saachi asked him to tell her but he always diverted the topic one way or the other. Still he leaves them alone with Saachi. He must spend considerable time keeping a close eye on what is going on between Saachi and his family. It is not about trusting saachi. It is about trusting his own family.
2. He does not seem to be around when Saachi needs him... In fact, i find that all the negative characters are around more often than saachi's very own man. i could not understand his reactions when Saachi was emotional during the party scene... he did not look like a husband, not a lover...it is a different matter than in the room he changed his avatar to a lover once again.
3. I could not understand what DV meant by saing "all will be well", when Saachi talks about her aaji and nani... As it is, it is quite difficult for a woman to move from one house to another.. He does not come across as empathetic and understanding. He should have been more proactive..
4. He should not allow Anki to call Saachi "saachi ma'am" anymore... Be the husband buddy and put an end to this crap!
DV will do well to follow the old adage... ''' A man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife and they shall be one flesh...".. it is not that a woman leaves her father and mother... a true man follows this to the very core. At marriage and with the vows taken, all else is forgotten.. his wife comes first... no matter what, when and where. I hope DV ( or rather the CVs) listens!!
1. He knows his family better than anyone else. Further he has not spoken to Saachi about what his family is about. There were so many times when Saachi asked him to tell her but he always diverted the topic one way or the other. Still he leaves them alone with Saachi. He must spend considerable time keeping a close eye on what is going on between Saachi and his family. It is not about trusting saachi. It is about trusting his own family.
2. He does not seem to be around when Saachi needs him... In fact, i find that all the negative characters are around more often than saachi's very own man. i could not understand his reactions when Saachi was emotional during the party scene... he did not look like a husband, not a lover...it is a different matter than in the room he changed his avatar to a lover once again.
3. I could not understand what DV meant by saing "all will be well", when Saachi talks about her aaji and nani... As it is, it is quite difficult for a woman to move from one house to another.. He does not come across as empathetic and understanding. He should have been more proactive..
4. He should not allow Anki to call Saachi "saachi ma'am" anymore... Be the husband buddy and put an end to this crap!
DV will do well to follow the old adage... ''' A man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife and they shall be one flesh...".. it is not that a woman leaves her father and mother... a true man follows this to the very core. At marriage and with the vows taken, all else is forgotten.. his wife comes first... no matter what, when and where. I hope DV ( or rather the CVs) listens!!
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