Dealing with the Break-Up Crisis

After spending so much time with someone who was special to you - not to mention opening your heart and sharing your innermost self with her - of course you're going to feel sadness and a deep sense of loss.

Dhruv your parents think that they can "fix you" by finding someone else. What none of them can seem to wrap their heads around is that this wasn't just "another girl" to you. This was the girl that you were making future plans with and suddenly you're not even sure who you are. It is normal to feel angry and depress. Try not to suppress your emotions as it is unhealthy. Let those emotions out. One effective way to do so is by crying. Cry if you have to. It is okay to cry even if you are a man. You can do so in private without anyone knowing about it.

Dhruv you can't control your Family, But You Can Control your Attitude. For now, you must learn to act like an adult. I know this sound a little bit counterintuitive but it is important for you to accept the break up. When you act with maturity, you will gain the respect of your ex and keep your dignity at the same time. And who knows? Anything can happen in the future. You might be able to get back together with your girlfriend. Of course, you should never let your emotions out on your ex. It is certainly not a good idea to cry in front of your ex.

Knowing the truth and choosing forgiveness is necessary in helping you to keep your attitude in check. Your parents make decisions for you right now in your life, but you get to decide how you respond. You get to decide how you treat your family! God wants us to put on a spirit of patience, kindness, and love! That can feel like a lot to ask when you feel hurt or betrayed by our parents. Therefore we have to allow God to transform us by changing the way we think. When we read His Word and think on it, He is faithful to help us see things differently!

Rely On God and Don't Give Up. It's easy to get bogged down in the woe-is-me attitude when something like breakup enters the picture of our lives. When that happens, we have to turn to God's Word! Remember that over and over again in scripture we see God take something terrible or tragic and make something good out of it. He will do that in your life too! God loves you! You have to trust in that! And, you can then press on toward the goal!

Saachi Management perspective instructs the workers to "love the company like your home," ... The assembly line never stops. They're tools of communication, they're tools of creativity, and WE are all ONE.

Dhruv being on my own is the best thing in the world to Ankita. It's like breathing in oxygen - I can really switch off then. I'm fine as I am. I think that when you get into a rut, it gets boring. By "rut" it means relationship.

Dilz extreme brave and productive. She is a loyal and enthusiastic family friend.

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